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The Weight We Carry (feat. Chase Chrisley)
Chrisley Confessions 2.0

The Weight We Carry (feat. Chase Chrisley)

from Chrisley Confessions 2.0

July 8, 2026 | 01:14:28 | Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality, TV & Film

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Todd welcomes Chase Chrisley for a conversation that starts with the kind of nonstop roasting only the two of them can get away with, but quickly turns into one of their most honest discussions yet. They joke about business ventures, family dynamics, social media comments, and who really carries the Chrisley sense of humor before the conversation takes a deeper turn. For the first time, Chase opens up in detail about reaching one year of sobriety, the trauma that fueled his addiction, and what recovery has taught him about faith, purpose, and learning to feel life instead of numbing it. Todd shares what it was like watching his son struggle, the fear that came with it, and why seeing Chase healthy again has become one of the greatest blessings of his life. They also dive into parenting, success, money, ambition, and the pressure of trying to recreate the life you grew up with. Todd reflects on the mistakes he believes he made as a father, the lessons prison taught him, and why he wants his children and future grandchildren to value progress over perfection. This episode is full of laughter, hard truths, and a father and son choosing honesty over pride. It's a conversation about redemption, grace, and discovering that sometimes the greatest victories happen long before anyone else can see them. Don't forget to join our new Facebook page! -- https://www.facebook.com/chrisleyconfessions2.0 Thank you to our sponsors for supporting the show! - VanMan: Get 15% OFF your first order when you go to https://www.vanman.shop/chrisley and use code CHRISLEY! - Jones Road Beauty: Use code CHRISLEY at https://www.jonesroadbeauty.com to get a Free Full-Size Mascara with your first purchase! #JonesRoadBeauty - Shopify: Sign up for your $1-per-month trial today at https://www.shopify.com/chrisleyconfessions - GoodGirlRX: Visit https://www.goodgirlrx.com and use code UNLOCKED15 to get 15% OFF at checkout! FOLLOW US ON SOCIALS: Todd Chrisley: Insta: ( https://www.instagram.com/toddchrisley ) Facebook: ( https://www.facebook.com/toddchrisley ) Chase Chrisley: Instagram: ( https://www.instagram.com/chasechrisley ) TikTok: ( https://www.tiktok.com/@chasemadisonchrisley ) Chrisley Confessions 2.0: Facebook: ( https://www.facebook.com/chrisleyconfessions2.0 ) Instagram: ( https://www.instagram.com/chrisleyconfessions2.0 ) TikTok: ( https://www.tiktok.com/@chrisleyconfessions2.0 ) YouTube: ( https://www.youtube.com/@ChrisleyConfessions ) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
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Now, I normally do not have guests on the show that are...

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Because you talk the whole time. You talk at mama the whole time. that's why it's not to the chrisley confessions it's the todd lecture show continue i normally

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don't have people of lesser caliber on this show because i don't like to confuse you know what our purpose is here i thought your purpose was to give back and so i wanted to make sure that i was helping a struggling young talent and so today ladies and gentlemen i want to

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introduce you to what's your name again i'm chase i'm actually your son i know that you've forgotten that for several months now yeah you're you came from me oh yeah oh wow trust me i'm trying to

00:02:08 - 00:02:29 | Speaker 3:

change and this whole new look that you have going on what is up with that trying to go to the top trying to go to the top okay and then kick you off the top oh we i'll tell you it's something with you all the time yeah i'm constantly being used

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i wasn't this is not my podcast as everyone knows we have another podcast read the comments that i carry and i not only am i not only let's talk about that not only was i rushed to be here early because you decided to end your first shooting early totally inconvenienced my day but i'm happy to be here for you and i appreciate and i'm not i'm not getting paid apparently you get paid

00:02:56 - 00:03:47 | Speaker 3:

every day would you like for me to count the ways that you get paid uh no okay exactly that's what i thought um let's address this whole elephant in the room because so many people you know you've had this shtick for years of woe is me you're the prodigal child you've been cast aside that no one loves you and now today you come in here dressed like tom brady and you know i don't know if that's an assertion of you trying to say i'm in the room i'm here to take over i am or if that's you actually saying i've got my shit together thank you dad thank you for my family thank you for god or if you're going to take credit for all of it yourself because you do sometimes give that kind

00:03:47 - 00:04:06 | Speaker 2:

of i take i take credit for everything oh yikes yikes so let's talk about that let's talk about that go ahead yeah no yes i have gotten my shit together and i just work every single day so I can beat you and then once you and I are on the same playing field brother brother brother

00:04:06 - 00:04:40 | Speaker 3:

you're going down well I don't know that you're gonna live long enough for that because I've had many people try to take me off the field the last being the feds but I'm back so the one bear that you just don't poke well I don't poke them because everyone that was involved in the whole shit show prosecution of fake bullshit has now been fired or they have been cast

00:04:40 - 00:04:49 | Speaker 2:

to the side I told one of my friends I said they picked the wrong person to go sit down in one spot for 28 months and give him time to plot

00:04:49 - 00:04:59 | Speaker 3:

they did you know i was in dc um a month or so ago speaking of wasn't nanny here mama was here where is she

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she's already gone on the casino she told me that she was waiting for me because she's left me the last three times was you going with her

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yes well she left you are you calling her absolutely hey she sent you the voicemail because she thought she was going to catch a ride hey

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hello nanny why where are you i'm on my way to my happy place you if you look you leaving me again turn the car around now well i'm not turning my car around it's already on

00:05:48 - 00:05:56 | Speaker 1:

automatic and listen i got plans this weekend jason you're not hanging i'll have a trip on you next

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week turn the car around mom it's not automatic automatic it's cruise control it's cruise control

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turn the car around no i'm not because it don't go back that way it goes straight ahead

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Bye.

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It don't go back that way. It goes straight ahead. Wow. So you got left by your nanny. It's fine. As she just sat here and said that she does not love any of her grandchildren more than she does the others. That's a lie. Yes, I think that is true. Just like. Here we go with this false narrative again. I mean, listen, I'm going to tell you like I told your sister the other night. i need y'all to come up with a new tagline dad i'm not even worried about your shit i've got so

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much on my own plate that i'm gonna finish mine first okay so then what you should i highly

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recommend you doing what do i need to finish just focus on your plate oh no no my plate's clean my plate's clean you know why my plate's clean because i scraped all y'all shit off of it that's why my plate's clean loving father um yeah realistic father never been that nothing about you is realistic so let's tone it let's tone it back okay so tell me what is it that you have going on lately that has gotten you all like this because it's a little overdressed for this

00:07:19 - 00:07:40 | Speaker 2:

show but it's okay this was last minute not planned okay um i started my own real estate business so we were interviewing people this morning uh that's going great i've got my supplement company that i'm working on um that's going to be targeted more towards uh women and

00:07:40 - 00:08:10 | Speaker 3:

children and providing them with some healthier products so you have your supplement line you have the real estate going on and how do you feel a couple i don't i've got a couple of things well let me tell you something all the things that you have if you want them to work out you shut up about them because you just asked because everyone is not cheering for you to win that's a fact everyone is not cheering for you to win so i'm staying very quiet that's and i know who does

00:08:10 - 00:08:20 | Speaker 2:

not want me to win right here lies i think you do want you want i think you do want me to win

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but you don't want me on your level i want you way past my level because nothing i have been waiting for so long for me to ask one of y'all to buy me a car how do you do that already but you hadn't done it yet we did it all buy you a car actually that's been a while ago it's time for y'all to kardashian me again well stop treating me like i am just some step parent y'all need to

00:08:47 - 00:09:13 | Speaker 2:

treat me like i'm chris then why don't you be chris don't go to go don't get locked up chris didn't get locked up and fumble the whole damn bag you can't keep your hands off people and just shit listen pissing people off that mouth if you could learn to close that oh you are a good one to talk but i got it from you so we both have

00:09:13 - 00:09:29 | Speaker 3:

the disability then if i have a disability with it and you got it from me and you recognize where it came from doesn't that give you a head start on how to correct it i'm trying okay yeah you're still doing it but you're just respecting you just you're just we're literally doing this right now

00:09:29 - 00:09:40 | Speaker 2:

no i need you to be more like kylie dad if i looked like kylie i'd be so much more famous

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and so much wealthier so say you acknowledge i don't have as much to work with as chris does

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that is absolutely disgusting that you just said that

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so you really are in such because you know some people have commented well i got some dms um saying that i don't know if you know this or not but your son is still high

00:10:07 - 00:10:18 | Speaker 4:

he's high on i've seen that too and erin i don't know what if we're switching cameras or lighting but i look bloated and big as hell and so and so erin tries to do that shit on purpose because

00:10:18 - 00:10:28 | Speaker 3:

she tries to make us unattractive and i think it's because maybe you know i don't know if she's getting paid on time or what but i do think she fucks with our cameras because some angles i look

00:10:28 - 00:10:34 | Speaker 4:

like dog water and i know i don't look like dog water in person you look like dog water and i've

00:10:34 - 00:10:43 | Speaker 1:

got i don't even know how much you pay for that suit if you look like dog water today that ain't on me you are dressed to the damn nights yes and y'all never look like shit y'all are crazy

00:10:43 - 00:10:55 | Speaker 3:

well they said that i looked fat that i've seen people people on the on the gram you're not fat they said that i looked fat they said you look fat they said i look and i looked and i look

00:10:55 - 00:11:02 | Speaker 1:

hi yeah hi it's funny of all the things they said those are the ones y'all come to yeah don't

00:11:02 - 00:11:50 | Speaker 3:

comment about our looks you can comment about our character but not our appearance yeah literally damn but so they act like i don't know my child like i would not know that after everything i've been through with y'all correct listen if i was it's not even an issue for me anymore and by the way he never did heroin just so just heroin yeah just as an outtake my son has never done that i never um was that a comment yeah okay first of all heroin makes you ugly so i'm not gonna i would never do that right um so how do you feel though because i mean you are clean you are sober i will i'm a year sober august 1st and so how does that feel

00:11:50 - 00:12:04 | Speaker 4:

amazing i was just talking to one of my friends about it like right after our business meeting like a year ago today the shape that i was in versus the position that i'm in now i mean it's

00:12:04 - 00:12:22 | Speaker 3:

that's just god though but you know let's let's go a little bit deeper into it because you have shared things with me in this past year um that i didn't know um that you started drinking while you were in high school yeah right yeah for sure and you started smoking marijuana in high

00:12:22 - 00:12:34 | Speaker 4:

school yeah but marijuana i don't think is a bad thing but you understand how i feel about marijuana yeah that's just your generation but like there's no deaths linked to marijuana like there's like

00:12:34 - 00:12:49 | Speaker 3:

you're not going to overdose you don't think that marijuana is like a gateway drug leading you to other things i do not no okay like i can say that just from experience right like well i don't know how you can say it from experience because if you started out doing alcohol and then alcohol to

00:12:49 - 00:13:04 | Speaker 4:

weed weed to cocaine okay first off i've never once in my life smoked weed and was like yeah let me get let me do some coke ever well i mean because you've tried to explain that to me and i know i don't understand yeah never in my life have i ever smoked weed and been like yeah i want

00:13:04 - 00:14:59 | Speaker 2:

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00:17:12 - 00:17:23 | Speaker 3:

today exactly be 100% transparent so that we're not having this conversation again. Yeah. You have had to educate me. Would you say that's fair? Yeah. That you've had to educate me on

00:17:23 - 00:17:47 | Speaker 2:

come daddy I was high then you just didn't know it I mean I think you knew it you just didn't know you didn't know I was high but obviously you could I knew something was wrong yeah but I but you know in my mind but like I wasn't I was never around you high like on like when I was I was doing blow right or and I never drank around you no so I would have smelled that you would have

00:17:47 - 00:18:17 | Speaker 3:

you just seemed like the hangover right was so maybe that was what it was but I mean we knew for years that the light had dulled in you because you had been magic from the time that the cameras started rolling you were magic thank you and then i would say that i would say that probably within two years of being on the show i started noticing a shift in the attitude well i

00:18:17 - 00:19:10 | Speaker 2:

mean i think that that is just such a unique situation that not many people will ever be in like being what 15 16 years old those are hard hard enough years right they're very hard formative years they're hard on the parents on the kids so then you add tv and money into that and then ego of course and i think i had to have like an e like my ego is definitely not what it was right i would agree with that yeah but and but you're a lot happier or at least i'm a lot happier because now like i'm not trying to i'm not trying to prove anything to anybody but myself which sometimes is the toughest person to impress right but i mean no i don't think going back to but weed has never made me want to do anything other than be hungry, happy, and sleepy.

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Okay.

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That's it. Like, if I smoked weed, I didn't even want to go out. Like, I didn't want to be, I'd rather be in my living room, you know? Alcohol, for me, well, I would drink it to celebrate and have fun when I first started, and then when everything happened with us and the government. Well, you were already bad before that happened. I was bad. I think that it got really bad. But I wasn't drinking. I was I was drinking to have I was I was still having fun. I was just doing it too much. It was way too often. So would you say that? And then I once everything was going down with our family, I was drinking to just feel nothing.

00:19:50 - 00:19:59 | Speaker 3:

That was my question. Do you think that that your level of partying prior to any of this stuff happening was you wanted to have a good.

00:20:00 - 00:20:05 | Speaker 1:

time that's it yeah and then when all this stuff happened to us i wanted it was to numb the pain

00:20:05 - 00:20:42 | Speaker 2:

yes gotcha okay and for me alcohol and cocaine they go together like milk and cookies like i don't understand that yeah and you wouldn't because you've you've never done it but like then i don't think it might not be like that for everyone but the majority of the people that who have done it and experienced or have like like messed around with it they'll tell you that like if you're after about a drink or two you're ready so what because you didn't have like

00:20:42 - 00:20:55 | Speaker 1:

because like in my mind you know i've dealt with kyle um totally and that's a totally different situation yeah that was you didn't have those withdrawal symptoms you didn't have those well

00:20:55 - 00:21:43 | Speaker 2:

they said when i went to rehab right they said that i had a trauma problem and not an addiction problem okay they said that my problem was i never i never processed any of my emotions or i never let myself process any of my emotions i'd rather just numb it and bury it than feel it right and you have to feel it in order to move on from it so i was just carrying all of this trauma around for years right and i think even before like everything happened there was other trauma that i think that okay well i'm having a good time it also pushes pushes this a little deeper right so i'm good but it's just not manageable right

00:21:43 - 00:21:57 | Speaker 1:

and don't you feel like that because i know because i've had trauma in my life um don't you feel like you process yours like i i went and experienced life

00:21:57 - 00:22:54 | Speaker 2:

like being famous and it i had a lot of great times for sure made a lot of mistakes too i'm grateful i made them when i was in my t like what late teens and in my 20s and now i'm dialed in and focused i'm grateful for that but the trauma that like i had already started drinking and stuff like that and so that was an easy way for me to i know that's there i know that works not to feel anything i think with your trauma you've never drank you've never done anything so yours eats away at you from the inside and you have to feel like you're like you want to control be fully in control of every situation and every like your surroundings and stuff like that out of fear i think there's a lot of truth to that um because

00:22:54 - 00:23:15 | Speaker 1:

it's all that i know yeah and it's pattern you know my childhood you know my trauma that happened to me as a child um when that happened i just remember saying i will never be i will never allow anyone to hurt me again i will never allow myself to be in a situation to where anyone has

00:23:15 - 00:23:21 | Speaker 2:

control of me and that's why and that's why you're so over the top and overbearing like not in a bad

00:23:21 - 00:23:51 | Speaker 1:

i'm not saying like well i mean you you know when when i finally came clean about what had happened to me it helped i think it helped y'all to understand a little bit about why i was so protective of y'all absolutely you know why you were not going to spend the night with someone at their house yeah you were not going you're i don't care who they are i don't care how nice their house is i don't care about any of that but i think yes that does it's just such a it's such a

00:23:51 - 00:24:23 | Speaker 2:

fickle topic because like you don't want to pass down that fear into someone else you know because now like like i i'm gonna worry about my kids my kids not having sleeping like sleepovers that that's not happening out of that fear you know so it's like at what point do you draw the line where you're just where you really because you can't be a man of god and which we both are

00:24:23 - 00:24:59 | Speaker 1:

and constantly live in worry and stress well you know i love that i love that you know as i've said to y'all for many years you can't live you can't practice faith while you're living in fear yeah and you know i do see i do see so much change in you and that's a great thing because i'm going to be honest with you in my mind i had already said i'm going to have to bury him and you were running with a group of people that had access to everything money was flowing like water you

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Thank you.

00:25:00 - 00:25:06 | Speaker 3:

had kids dying you've had friends that have overdosed and that are now dead yeah i've also

00:25:06 - 00:26:14 | Speaker 2:

had friends who got clean and thought that they were have you heard of kratom no so not the natural kratom plant it helps people like it helps people coming off opioids alcohol anxiety depression it helps veterans with ptsd like there's thousands and thousands what president trump signed a thing far no so my friends got sober by using that and it's not addictive then these companies have come in and synthesized all these other chemicals like 7-OH where it's 10-15 times stronger than morphine and then it goes up to where it's 50 times stronger than morphine then 250 times stronger than morphine that's the different chemicals and like they've put these in gas stations and in smoke shops and that it's killing people like flies so i've had like four friends pass away thinking they were buying the natural kratom that helped them get sober but it's been misbranded it's the there's been so much misinformation put out there and they were sold the wrong product

00:26:14 - 00:26:21 | Speaker 3:

and it killed them and this stuff is being sold in gas stations but why is the government not

00:26:21 - 00:27:13 | Speaker 2:

doing something about this well i'm working with a group right now we're trying to keep natural kratom because natural kratom saves it literally saves lives the science doesn't lie you can't overdose on it like if you take too much of it you just you throw up you cannot overdose on it but these but what does it actually do it relieves like the cravings and it helps with the cravings and but you have to take it for life you don't have to take it for life no but you can take it until you feel better i mean i i took it when i first got sober and it helped me um so this because this is new to me what you're saying yeah and i'll we can talk about it again on another episode and i'll tell you more about it do you ever actually read what's in your

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00:32:31 - 00:32:40 | Speaker 5:

But it just goes back to your point Yeah, I was running in a circle where We could do whatever we wanted pretty much

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And as much as you want

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And as much as we want

00:32:42 - 00:33:15 | Speaker 4:

And you were living in excess You were living an excessive life in every aspect of your life Cars, houses, clothes drugs alcohol you know going to these strip clubs you know we all know strip clubs um you know y'all were living in excess we were living in like a like a it was a bad boys super yeah it was a bad boys club because everyone none of y'all worked i mean i did you were on the show that's a job okay but it ain't like it's not like you was in a factory pulling a 12-hour shift

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So let me tell you something. Working with you, I would rather run the entire Amazon distribution center than to have to listen to your mouth and that disgusting, evil look in your eye. Give me a hair cap now. Continue.

00:33:38 - 00:33:50 | Speaker 4:

you you were in a bad boy club y'all were members of the lucky sperm club your daddies had gone out here and done a shit ton of great things made a shit ton of money i love how every single thing

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has to come back to daddy made money because that's the group you ran with you didn't give me any money get the hell out of here bitch you shut up rat talking bitch uh-uh no you did not

00:34:03 - 00:34:10 | Speaker 4:

Do not even play with me. We're not doing that. You was put on a show because of me. I created a show.

00:34:10 - 00:34:21 | Speaker 5:

That show lasted because of me. Oh, my God. Check the numbers. Do the polls. Everybody's tired of the rinse and repeated. Same shit that you say.

00:34:21 - 00:34:59 | Speaker 4:

They're tired of the rinse and repeat. You're right. I'm original content that comes naturally. Okay, whatever. You were running with a group of kids whose parents were still footing the bill largely footing the bill for just about everything they were doing so at the end of the day with that kind of exposure you have you have had you've had to bury friends yes because there no did not mean no to y'all right it wasn't a thing right so i have talked about it with your mother and i've talked about it with y'all

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that when people ask me what is your worst regret you know what i've said my worst regret is with y'all is that you were given too much would you agree with that um

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i think that you should have made us do stuff like in order to get things that we wanted like work yes i think like just like whether it's like whatever it could have been just something because i didn't think like i didn't learn the like the value of a dollar until i lost a lot of money right and had to make it back then now i know the value of a dollar and i

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appreciate the value because now you know how hard it is to make it yes and and had i instilled in

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y'all a better work ethic i don't know about work ethic i think that i mean between me and savannah and grayson like we all you did you did show and still good like a great work ethic in all of us because we all have seen you work so that's like the standard that i set myself to like okay there's no such thing as business hours it's whenever the phone rings that's right that's right um but

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you're now at a place to where when you look back on your life from where you are today let's go back and just say a year ago because that's where you've set your time stamp well that's just how long i've been sober right yeah but from where you are today with a clean sober mind a heart that's not as heavy as it that's lighter than it's ever been a different spirit that you have i'm a totally different human when you look at where you are today versus where you were a year ago? Does it scare you? I don't think scare me is the right word. I think disappoints me, but you don't look at your life a year ago. And like when I came home,

00:37:09 - 00:37:51 | Speaker 1:

you looked horrible. Well, dad, when you, when you have to realize that the mental space that i was in like whenever all that went down and y'all because we've never been away from each other and i and never want to be away from each other maybe like for a day or a couple hours or three days um but that was like a debt that was like two deaths to me and i mean you know i i would call you before you went away i was on the phone with you i call you 15 20 times a day and you still do no i don't i'm working you still do no i got a text message from you last night i woke

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up to this morning it sends me a text message at like 12 50 something in the morning and goes hope you're well i'm asleep yeah i hope you're doing well and then the first message i get

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how are you how are you how are you doing how's your mental sorry for being a good guy i did chase and grayson every morning hey pal yeah but like when they took that whenever you guys went away and then obviously like the show stopped and like now looking back on it i don't care about that and i don't care about the money that was lost i mean i i care like it'd be it would have been it'd be nice to have the money back that we were screwed out of but when y'all went away that was like a death to me and it was just not something because i could have been a i could have been there more for savannah and help savannah more and i'm really ashamed of that but i was in a position to where i didn't care if i woke up i just genuinely didn't care right i was like i'll do whatever and if i don't wake up in the morning then i don't have to hurt anymore

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and so that's why i go back to that question when you look at where you are today versus where you were at that moment i'm just grateful to god okay extremely grateful to god and

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and it's crazy because like you wanted me to go to that place out in arizona

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I always want my children to have the very best.

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Yeah, but I had found this other place that was faith-based. I was like, I think this one's where I'm going to go. And you didn't like that.

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You know, it caused me after, no, I didn't, but I didn't like it for a couple of reasons. One of the reasons that I didn't like it is because I didn't have control over it. The second reason.

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Doesn't that get, I mean. Oh, I've turned loose of a lot of control lately. Not, but you're better, but you still do that. Like you still like to have.

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you still control a lot of shit and i understand why now because i feel like i'm doing the same thing but it's exhausting and it's like are the things that i'm stressing out about and trying to control so much are they are they that important right which i think i told you a

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couple of weeks ago i said son why are you focusing on that that's not going to be a thing

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I know, but like, like, you know how we were growing up, like with like our homes, like you were all, you always had our, every home we lived in has been meticulous. So that's like what I want to be able to replicate. But in reality, that's not a real way to live. Well, I, you know, and I've said this, but I love living that way, but I can't afford to have five people walking around my house, dusting it and cleaning it every single time

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something goes sideways well let me just tell you something it's one of the things that i have said to your mother if i had my time to go over would have been different because but what part uh a lot of parts there's a lot of parts that if i had my time to go over there's a lot of things i would have done differently um there would have never been a 32 000 square foot house i've said that to you before um there would have not been the cars wrong wrong there would not have been the cars that i've given y'all um but that's motive that motivates all of us i don't think so i think

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oh it does i think i can tell you right now it motivates you i think for me and then you know

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because i'm getting ready to go into this next my final run around the sun and you say that that

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you never drank you never put anything you're in your body you have top of the line medical care

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and you are a bastard those people live to be 112 um i this is my last final lap and i've got way less runway in front of me than i do behind me and i don't i want y'all to learn in this last lap that i'm doing i want to undo some of the damage that i've done you can start right now by writing me a check some of that damage that i have done is you worrying about the house being so perfect because i don't want my grandchildren having that stress i don't want my grandchildren feeling like oh my god i just dropped this and i've got to hide it i've got to hide it no we're going to clean that up we're going to do the best we can we're going to move on from it um i want them i want my grandchildren to have a freer spirit to be less burdened um

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um and that's what i want i want that too i'm just at a point right now especially i just moved into like my new house i'm like first off like i want to get everything done right now yeah i'm

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doing this with you i hear it every day so yeah i'm aware yeah well where do you think i got it from well but i think and i and i have to go back to you because i want this podcast to be honest I said to you, you do what you can afford to do right now.

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Yeah.

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And I said, you're putting the cart before the horse. You can't have drapes installed until you have the wall covering put on. Yeah. You can't have the wall covering put on until we get the fabrics picked out.

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Yeah.

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You can't have a rug put down until all of the above has been put together.

00:43:29 - 00:43:38 | Speaker 2:

Yeah. But see, like the things you're saying right now, 95% of the world, they don't do these things that you and I are talking about.

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Mm-hmm. oh i'm aware i'm aware but it's the way you've been brought up it's what you and i love it but what i'm telling you is i'm giving you i'm giving you another tool to put in your toolbox when your mother and i first started there was no such thing as um mom can you tell me who your drapery lady is i need her to do drapes for my home no we went to a drapery shop which was a curtain shop we bought store-bought curtains and your mother and i on a ladder installed them and we and i did it two or three times until i knew how to do it and then i put them up so we had store-bought curtains you don't remember that because god has been so good and shown such favor on us so you don't know that but that's because you hustled yes like no well i hustled and your your mother hustled right beside me yeah but at the end of the day when you're what i'm trying to bestow upon you now is that slow down take each day for the blessing that it is you can't enjoy getting a new bedroom set because you're worried about what the comforter is going to look like or what the bedding is going to be you can't enjoy the bedding because you can't worry because you're worried about when the rug's going to come in enjoy the moment and if you enjoy the moment when it all comes together it's a great moment but you can still have small wonderful moments that lead you to that great moment i never i never had that yeah

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and that's it's crazy that we're talking about this because literally this is exactly what i just dealt with yesterday like i'm want everything to be done the right way and i don't want anything out of line i want to you know exactly how i want and it's just like number one this is not my forever home so like i don't need to go in there and spend all this unnecessary money um but yeah i'm not i was talking to my buddy who's helped me with a bunch of this stuff and it's like i'm not enjoying i don't know how to enjoy those those little things well i'm trying to give you

00:45:56 - 00:47:33 | Speaker 1:

that tool when you stop doing these things that you're doing to impress me then you'll be okay because i'm already impressed because you're my child but you were over there trying to kill yourself to make your house look as close to what you grew up in as you can and it's not possible so what i'm saying to you is and this is something that i've talked to you about to your sister to all of my all of your siblings and to this end of the world to all the young people that watch our shows you don't get to start where your parents finished yeah and you gotta start showing yourself grace and saying, am I better today than I was yesterday? Not, am I better today than I was last year? Yeah. Am I better today than I was yesterday? And as long as each day that you say, did I do better today than I did yesterday? That's called progress. And those wins start stacking up and you got to start accepting the wins you got a new house you just had televisions installed you just had furniture delivered do you understand that you're in the top one percent of people in the country yeah give the blessing it give it on my own right give acknowledgement for that blessing that you got no you didn't do it on your own i do god put you in that in that

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position yeah so i think that you know looking back but like are you still struggling with that like how to enjoy the because like to me there's nothing enjoyable about moving there's nothing

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enjoyable about having a much moving as a fresh start and i always have but i don't want to do it and when i get finished with a house i'm bored at that point and i want and i've seen something else that's greater or that i like better and i'm like oh god i want to do that now so i think i'll always have that um and i don't you know i was made to feel ashamed of that you know you know 20 years ago why when is enough enough for you why don't you stop you've got everything that that anyone could ever dream of it was never about me having what everyone else could dream of

00:48:25 - 00:48:55 | Speaker 2:

it's about what you it was about what i could dream and that's like what i'm it's crazy that talking about this because these are literally conversations i had 12 hours ago and it's not about when is enough enough i just i have goals i have dreams i have things that and not just yeah yeah like there's materialistic things that i want too but it's also legacy like i want to leave the world a better place than i found it i want to leave my kids set up to where they never

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have to worry about well let's not worry about leaving them set up let's worry about leaving your kids in a place to where they are self-sufficient to where they can do it on their own yeah absolutely but if there is a hiccup if there was a hiccup it wouldn't be well you can always be their safety net but they don't have to know that safety net is there it's one thing for a child to know you know what i know i've messed up but i know that i got a mom and daddy that they're gonna they're gonna help me get through this versus you know what i don't give of shit that I tore that car up because my mom and dad's got enough to where they're going to buy me another one. That's two different kids.

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That's the thing. None of us have ever had that attitude.

00:49:38 - 00:50:00 | Speaker 1:

Because y'all were not raised that way. Y'all got your ass slapped. If y'all did something that was wrong, then you got your ass slapped. You had things taken from you. You did not go out here and tear up cars and think that I was going to replace them. If you messed up a car, I tore your ass up. I'm aware. if you was out here messing up your

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room or tearing up things that i'd spent hundreds of we didn't do that i'd be you didn't do that because you was raised to understand to respect what what you had access to yeah and i think that and i say this because i do believe this in my heart i think that your generation is the laziest generation that our country has ever had um and that's statistically proven by the way i mean you Because I don't give a shit about them. I know I'm not. But at the end of the day, I look at your generation, and your generation has never had the struggle that my generation has had. And my generation never had the struggle that my mom and daddy's generation had. And you keep going backwards.

00:50:42 - 00:51:20 | Speaker 1:

I think you can go on both sides on that, right? Like, I could say, okay, well, you had the luxury of whenever you messed up, not everybody in the whole world found out about it just like that amen that's a luxury that's correct that that was a luxury now that's not the case as far as as far as being lazy i think that that has a lot to do with the internet because everybody thinks they're famous everybody and everyone is not famous yeah and everyone thinks that they can go in front of a

00:51:20 - 00:51:46 | Speaker 2:

camera and make people laugh. Well, don't you think that that's because of TikTok and Instagram accessibility, right? Because just because you've got a picture on the internet does not make you famous or good looking. No. Cause I mean, there's a lot of good looking dummies. There's a lot of good looking dummies. We've worked with a lot of good looking dummies. I've worked with several good looking dummies. Yeah. I have one too. So, I mean, you know, it, it comes down to

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knowing your self-worth knowing your value and i think i'm still i'm still figuring that out and i don't know that you ever figure that out well i think like i saw this quote and it was like okay who do you want to be in 10 years you write that down and you chase that but you're never going to obtain it because in that 10 years then you're going to want to be 10 years further so you're always chasing the man that's 10 years ahead

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but you know what happens when you're chasing that man who's 10 years ahead you're losing the man that you are now yeah so you can't literally be over here while the biggest part of you is over here because always trying to catch what's in front of you causes you to lose control of what you've already got a hold of whether that's a marriage your child your finances your walk with christ embrace what you have now and let it grow organically i'm not saying that you don't need to have a hustle because i have raised y'all to hustle yeah that's but you can still hustle while enjoying the moment and but how because i can tell you that

00:53:08 - 00:53:33 | Speaker 1:

Like you, I can, the position I'm in right now, I'm in a fantastic position, like, especially considering where I was last year. Like I'm crushing it right now, but like, I'm wanting, like, I'm like, all right, I did this. Now let's get here. Then we get here. Then we get here.

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That's OK, but you need to have moments of you need to have moments of where you enjoyed this win before you start attacking the next one. And I had to learn that. And again, we've talked about this so many times on these shows and personally and privately that these 28 months that I was away from you was some of the best 28 months mentally for me. and more clarifying for me because i realized i don't need five homes i don't need access to 20 cars i don't need there's only so much money that you need there's things you want you want to have money you want to have large sums of money but if you're not doing something good with it then are you really enjoying it and so for me i definitely think that that's yeah and you know giving back right and you know you have said to your mother and you've said it to me that i'm different today that i'm different that i'm not the same dad that went to prison no wouldn't you be disappointed if i

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was after what we've been through no i i'm not i just think yeah you've just you don't go from where you were at to sitting in prison and it not change you i'm just grateful that it didn't break you

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well i'll tell you something god gave me that promise when he gave me life yeah because god didn't send god did not build me to break because a lot of people come out of prison

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and they like they're struggling i i have a lot of friends that are out right now

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that are struggling and i try to help them every day yeah and you and that's very admirable like

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I've had so many people come up to me and just thank me for, like, what you've done for people that are either helping them with their release or helping them get their, like, the right amount of time credit and stuff like that. But, like, what's more impressive is that you did go, they did take, like, try to take everything from you. They put, they split your family up. They put you in prison. They tried to destroy our name. yeah they tried to destroy our name you went sat down you came home and you've been home what a little over a year and i would say that you i mean you're in a better position now than before

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than before but that goes back to that goes back to scripture when god says i will redeem you i will restore you seven times yeah and god has done that and you know i remember like that's so

00:56:30 - 00:57:11 | Speaker 1:

impressive but i remember because you could have folded because regardless of the of the the pardon or not like you still had all these people online talking all this well people are going to talk about us forever yeah but just spell the name right right exactly but like you pronounce it right because we're not chrisley's there's no z in it yeah like you are able to tune all these people out and just dial in and that's what i'm trying to get better at and learning from you is like i don't pay attention to comments but like i let like just unnecessary people and noise and noise that's like close to me around me take up time that could be used better well if

00:57:11 - 00:59:09 | Speaker 2:

people are not bringing joy to you if they're not bringing positivity and if they're not bringing you honesty they should not have a seat at your table because i love you with all of my heart and soul you bring me i've said this a million times that each of y'all give me something different each of y'all bring me and have and have since the day you were born something different to the table and that's a wonderful thing because you don't want everyone to be the same i line your pockets and I make you laugh um it's fair you know you have there was always my life when before you came along poor I was in the middle of a storm my life was I felt like I was always trapped in the middle of a storm and the storm was raging all the time and then I met your mother and then she got pregnant with you. And then we had you. And I can remember the moment that I held you the first time. It was the first time that I felt like that I was not on fire inside. That everything was not crashing. And whenever I was having one of those moments, I realized I could come and hold you and you became my xanax you were that you were the thing that calmed me and i've shared that with you yeah um do you need to hold me right now no i'm good god has calmed the storms in me for the most part but you know then savannah comes along and i remember the moment that i held her because i held her first we get it and and i remember looking in her eyes and it was like she looked straight into my soul and i felt like okay there's another calming

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there that happens when two demons connect

00:59:12 - 01:02:09 | Speaker 2:

i so want to do you gave me something for father's day where you gave me a great gift he did he did kind of chris jenner me um but um the gift that you gave me is probably going to go down in history as being one of my all-time greatest gifts and i'm grateful that i have it it was a video that you did and savannah wasn't there to do the video and savannah was sick yes and so it was it starts out with chloe then it starts out with grayson and you know they're thanking me for being a wonderful father how much they love me and then you come on there you know with this whole shtick that he has and um it was really funny when it was you know you being accurate to being you yeah and then because savannah wasn't there the next clip was chase being savannah i have watched that clip so many times we can never put that out and i have i have literally said to julie that she said stop people can hear because we're on the plane and she goes people i said i don't care and it was the i think it's one of the funniest things you have ever done but i think the reason that it's so funny is it's so historically correct yeah everything about it was so real and i'm like this kid has such magic and i think he's finally starting to step into it You're finally starting to feel it yourself. And that's all I ever wanted for you. I used to say to you so many times, I would say, son, why can't you see what I see? Do you remember me saying that? Do you have many times? Yeah. And you would say, but dad, I don't see that. And I would be so brokenhearted when you would say, I don't see that. And I'm like, how is it possible? Because everyone knew you were magic. and so I look now and I think to be able to see you clean and sober and you know your hair cut properly and your skin care being what it's supposed to be and you're dressed the right way you're to see a child step back into the way that a parent raised that child and wanted that child to become is such a great it's one of the greatest moments that a parent will ever have is to know that they got to live long enough to see the fruits of their labor and all of the prayers because you are proof that prayer works. Yeah. Because I had already in my mind to self-medicate myself was that I'm going to have to bury him.

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I don't know where this weakness comes from with my boys that they think that it's drugs and alcohol is going to be the thing.

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You think it's a weakness. It's not a weakness.

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I think I view it as a weakness because I have never had that problem and I've never turned to anything other than to fix my problems.

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But you have turned to things. They just weren't drugs or alcohol.

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Do not bring Naaman Marcus or Saks Fifth Avenue or any of those people up into this.

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But I'm just saying, like, you do, you did have, or you do, you have other outlets that are not. Well, I think it was the controlling, the control was certainly the biggest outlet. That is, that's just as dangerous for you as drinking or drugs. Like I think you could, like the way that you worried, you could have had a stroke at any minute.

01:03:00 - 01:04:21 | Speaker 2:

Do you know that Grayson, because you know, we were in the Caymans this week. Yeah, I hope you enjoyed. He's not bitter that he wasn't there. Grayson shows me this, he goes, he comes running into my bedroom. He goes, Dad, this is so you. This is so you. And he jumps on the bed and it's this clip. This is young kid. And he's got it mirrored split screen where he's doing the same thing that you were doing, you know, with being Savannah and whatever. And he goes, son, do not go over to this neighborhood that we've never been in and that we don't know any. And we don't know any of the people that live there because there was just a murder there and they were and they were stabbed 17 times. You don't know. You probably don't know how to get there because we've never been. But don't go over there because I just saw this on the news. Hey, I just saw that there was an earthquake over in Guam. You cannot go out tonight. And it was like him giving all the worst case scenarios. And Grayson was like laying there dying. He said, Daddy, this is you. But Grayson didn't even experience you. No, because I think that a lot of healing took place over the course of from Lindsay to Kyle to you to Savannah, then to Grayson, and certainly now with Chloe. Yeah, because Chloe talks shit right back to you. Chloe doesn't talk back to me. Chloe is, I allow her to express how she feels.

01:04:21 - 01:04:31 | Speaker 1:

I said, Chloe, you think, who do you think gets treated the worst in this family? She goes, Chase, we know it's you.

01:04:33 - 01:04:59 | Speaker 2:

She goes and tells me, she goes, drama's coming over. And I said, what? And she said, drama, Chase, is coming. And I said, Chloe, shut the hell up. Where do you come up with this? And then the other day she said, you were packing to move into your house. And she goes, Chase thinking somebody's going to be crying because he's leaving. He wants everybody sad.

01:05:00 - 01:05:06 | Speaker 1:

everybody crying and i said what'd you say to her she goes i ain't saying nothing because i ain't

01:05:06 - 01:05:24 | Speaker 2:

helping maybe she was not getting there helping she was not it's so it is so messed up that like nobody will help me move nobody helps me move i help everybody move we were out of the country intentionally you dumb bitch

01:05:24 - 01:05:33 | Speaker 1:

moving's not done you can still come help no i anything i do for you will be delivered i'm not

01:05:33 - 01:05:46 | Speaker 2:

loading anything i don't have to do that you did that for savannah that's my daughter yeah exactly i help everybody with they all want to talk shit about me when something needs to be moved

01:05:46 - 01:06:01 | Speaker 1:

chase is there and i don't know why because you can't lift shit bitch i mean literally how about let's talk about the move how about i lift you up and put you through the let's talk about the move of savannah because i mean i'm gonna allow myself to be embarrassed with this

01:06:01 - 01:06:16 | Speaker 2:

it was okay so i've moved so many times and i've moved helped move so many people and moved my family so many times that it's just of anytime a move comes up it's very triggering it's very

01:06:16 - 01:06:22 | Speaker 1:

traumatic work has been triggering for you no it's the word work i love to work i but not always

01:06:22 - 01:06:29 | Speaker 2:

not always no always always now i don't now i like to work i was not getting paid for that work

01:06:29 - 01:07:15 | Speaker 1:

you get paid every time you do something good see that right there is karma your damn mic's falling because the lie was no because you didn't pay your fucking bill nah my bills paid um but so savannah calls and says dad i need for you and chasing they've heard it's hurt enough of your shit you burn it up um no but savannah called and said dad which grayson's a little slimy with this because grayson comes she'd already told grayson he was coming home to help move her racks of clothes because she was putting everything on racks so they could be taken to her new house to where they would not get messed up

01:07:15 - 01:07:32 | Speaker 2:

okay let me take it from here i've moved everybody in our family always helped never get a thank you lies always get bitched at for something while i'm helping giving up my time

01:07:32 - 01:07:36 | Speaker 1:

for free kind of like i was giving up cars and houses and clothes but go ahead go ahead i get

01:07:36 - 01:08:02 | Speaker 2:

what you're saying go ahead you gave my fucking car away so shut up i shouldn't have to buy you a car at this age you should it's you dad let's not even break that whole situation down because i could really you sideways you can't i can't i'll make you feel like you did anyways so i moved everyone i i go i move all of savannah's stuff into the back of this you

01:08:02 - 01:08:08 | Speaker 1:

not all of it it could not she still had to get a moving company to come after we had finished

01:08:08 - 01:08:22 | Speaker 2:

after we finished after after i finished two massive truckloads and she goes oh i don't have that many clothes which everybody knows that that's a lie dude she has an entire what two

01:08:22 - 01:08:38 | Speaker 1:

two car garage she her garage is still her clothes the majority 95 is still on garment racks in her garage in her garage that takes up the whole garage yes wall to wall and we're putting all

01:08:38 - 01:09:59 | Speaker 2:

these racks in the u-haul and i said i grabbed the strap to strap them in because anybody everybody knows they have wheels even though you lock them they could move they're top heavy they could fall my dad expert shows up 45 minutes late didn't help load it and then goes oh you guys are idiots you guys are just so dumb those things are not going anywhere i was like okay i was like yes they will so he listened to the he goes put put the damn rope put the damn rope down it was hot it's a table puts a damn rope down and get in the truck the shit's not gonna move yeah okay my mom goes to go pull the rope off pops it off and it it slingshots back cuts my calf open then they're all laughing like it's just so fucking funny it's really not funny my legs over here bleeding and then my dad's like get in the truck get in the truck like i work for them you did you were there to work I didn't get paid and then you got paid no and yeah with what and then your sister gave you furniture listen I would have gladly went and spent the money but you didn't so acknowledge give her credit what she gave you this is about you so shut up bitch it's not we get there this

01:09:59 - 01:10:12 | Speaker 1:

is the minute oh y'all are stupid y'all are dumb y'all don't know shit those are not gonna fall over i we open up the back of that truck they fell every one of them had fallen over every rack well and folks

01:10:12 - 01:10:40 | Speaker 2:

if i get hot everything has to stop because i'm just not doing hate and and you can ask the bureau prisons that because when the heat when the air went out my daughter she went on the news but At any rate, I don't know anything. I just know that Savannah has bought a beautiful home. I don't know all of the damn security that she's had put in. I mean, it's like Fort Knox.

01:10:40 - 01:10:50 | Speaker 1:

Yeah, Savannah's security system is next level. It'll scream at you if you're in the driveway and tell you what clothes you're wearing and tell you to get off where you're going to do them.

01:10:50 - 01:11:08 | Speaker 2:

Who's ever heard of such? i'm getting this these racks rolling them down the ramp chases on one end and i hear leave now you and the white shorts and black shirt with the garment rack leave now i'm calling the police

01:11:08 - 01:11:22 | Speaker 1:

and my dad is so dumb i was so out of touch that he doesn't realize that it is ai talking to him he thinks it's the neighbor so he walks around and he goes what'd you say motherfucker i didn't

01:11:22 - 01:12:13 | Speaker 2:

i thought it was the neighbor next door because i had seen him come out of his garage and look to see what we were doing logically if you hear someone yelling at you five seconds later you think it's him okay but you were ready to beat savannah's neighbor's ass and she hasn't even moved in yet like that yeah because you're overstepping your boundaries and so when they i let it the first time that it happened i look at you and i said i'm getting ready to lose my shit i'm fucking hot he needs to mind his own damn business so we get that rack off we go back to get the other rack you white shorts black shirt the police have been called leave now i said fuck you bitch healthy and but he's made progress and i'm standing here waiting on him to come out of

01:12:13 - 01:12:34 | Speaker 1:

his garage and meanwhile was the camera in the corner talking to him the whole time i don't know this and you say it. I knew the whole time I was just laughing. Why would you do that? Because God you look so dumb and there's rare moments that I get to enjoy that so I had to ride with it. I'm like

01:12:34 - 01:13:16 | Speaker 2:

I said you notice he's very high and fucking saying this shit. Yeah he's high and he's like yeah he's high. He don't want to smoke with you. Yeah he's like talking this shit up and I said I don't give a shit. Let him say something else. I'm gonna walk over in his garage. We go that third rack here i said fuck him i let the damn rack go he goes daddy it's the camera look look it's the camera i said it ain't the damn camera talking and he said daddy it's ai i called savannah i said does your camera security system talk and she said yes sir i said oh my god i was getting ready to fist fight the neighbor next door because i thought he was being a smart old man this poor

01:13:16 - 01:13:32 | Speaker 1:

old man is my he wasn't old he was my age this poor old man was just minding his own business trying to park his car gonna get his ass beat over ai so we had that experience and then of course

01:13:32 - 01:13:58 | Speaker 2:

you use the excuse oh i've got an appointment to look at this house and i need to go and it's only going to take me like 45 minutes four hours four hours and then he causes oh i looked at this one but this my agent just told me about this other one i'm good and judith savannah gets on the phone because again they all want what they want when they want it so savannah because of it chase where

01:13:58 - 01:14:56 | Speaker 1:

are you no no i i was there because i rode with you there yeah so i drove the escalade and they got mad at me i didn't i didn't give a shit that my mom and or yes all y'all got mad at me i i had told everybody that i had made these appointments look at these houses and so everyone knew that before i was even asked to help move so i left in the escalade mama's just just no mom mama's just oh god leaves hurt the keys to the other escalade in the car and i'm getting screamed at to leave an appointment early so we can have an escalade there to transport savannah's birkins get the fuck out of my life off my phone i'm trying to find a place to live and you're worried about me bringing a vehicle when there's three other ones there to transport your purses well it's a whole

01:14:56 - 01:15:29 | Speaker 2:

issue with her in these bags because they all have names and they All right.

01:15:00 - 01:15:05 | Speaker 4:

all have pillows that's called a that's a mental something's wrong mentally there

01:15:05 - 01:15:38 | Speaker 5:

these these are pillows that these bags sit on yeah so that they don't you guys are idiots i don't didn't even know she did this that's off the rocker i walked in that room and literally these glass cases were everywhere and it was nothing but bags i knew she had a lot of bags but i didn't know that her bag collection had expanded that much and then she starts breaking out the bags or the pillows that the birkins go on and all that this that and the other i'm like you're talking

01:15:38 - 01:15:48 | Speaker 4:

about a pillow for a handbag yeah i know we just lost 99 of our audience you lost me you lost me

01:15:48 - 01:16:11 | Speaker 5:

when i walked in and saw that and i heard that shit i'm like huh and then she's got all folks she had a hundred pairs of shoes out in the middle of the floor and the people that were there i said what is all this for and the girl said i think she's giving all that away and these were heels that were a lot of money and several of them had price tags on it

01:16:11 - 01:16:20 | Speaker 4:

that she had never worn i told her that i said savannah don't go back to that damn mall i said because half that you got 90 of that shit that's in those hangers

01:16:20 - 01:16:49 | Speaker 5:

in your garage all that has tags on it right so i'm looking at all these shoes and i'm like i said what are you going to do with it she said i'm just going to donate them or do something i said oh no you're not no you're not those are going to my friend and her girls in south carolina dad that was for you on thursday nights no she her feet are bigger than mine um but the savannah i did not know this but savannah wears

01:16:49 - 01:16:56 | Speaker 4:

like a size eight heel you're not a size eight i'm a 10 bro you just said that yes that's what's

01:16:56 - 01:17:01 | Speaker 5:

bigger than it was a joke clearly not one that landed well clearly it didn't because you're like

01:17:01 - 01:17:05 | Speaker 4:

invested in this i think it's funny i think it's great you just dogged yourself out keep doing that

01:17:05 - 01:17:53 | Speaker 5:

self-deprecation really works it works i gotcha okay so at any rate i and i go in there get a box and start putting all these shoes and stuff in there that have rarely been worn. Some had never, some lightly. And I said, what about these? Mm, no. What about this? Yes, I remember when I got those. And it's like in her mind, she's got a special memory tied to a certain shoe or a certain bag or whatever. If it's a happy memory, she kept it. If it was a bad memory, like a court look that she had to go to court for she kept no court looks she got too much money she kept no court looks so i boxed all that stuff up sent all that stuff to my best friend stephanie

01:17:53 - 01:18:04 | Speaker 4:

and her so you did you were over there helping her but have you come and helped me um yeah i did no you no you didn't you walked you went and saw it when it before i got it and that was it

01:18:04 - 01:18:08 | Speaker 5:

but there was not a need for me to do anything else i was giving you stuff

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