And I, I mean, I said that. Yeah. And I love dating with, you know, like respect and intention and all of that. And I also want something real, but on a first date, I don't know. I just want it to be about chemistry and, you know, curiosity and not like planning. Maybe one extra vodka soda, you know, or something. I don't know. I feel bad now, but it's just, it's a little too much for me but other than that nice guy yeah i mean he is a nice guy but i don't want to be slotted into someone's life blueprint i don't know that's just not me all right well okay so