Yeah, so let me give you the recap. Please. You know, we met online. Super sweet girl. We have things in common, like we're culinary students. We cook, you know, love good cooking. So we went out, you know, talked a bit. had and then and then drinks got involved i mean it was all fun we were having fun started out fun but you know we go into it and we we had a brunch and the brunch was amazing but they got like bottomless drinks and the food was great drinks are great but the drinks kept going and the more she just drank it's just like she really started cussing and getting loud and i started looking around and and the restaurant i mean they have families with kids and and it's starting to get a little uncomfortable i started to feel self-conscious and hey you know i i tried to maybe you know try to drive the volume down tell her to calm down uh kind of you know pointing out that she's like you know saying words near kit um but you know and her level i mean it just i i mean i was drinking too but she was definitely more than buzzed okay just yell something out like this is a big city and it's not like they're never going to hear words like that and it's not that serious and like i can't tell a joke and just i mean the families are getting uncomfortable