first date yeah so we um met on this this this thing called hinge you've probably never heard of it oh no we've heard of it oh we're good no it was a bad joke uh but uh yeah so we maybe that's maybe it was his humor you guys maybe it was his humor pinpointing what happened i'm starting to wonder here um but yeah no we ended up hooking up for some drinks in san jose there's like this uh it's a really cool wine bar you know we're both into wine and so um that was like the first thing that we were kind of chatting about on the app and i was like oh cool you know you're not just like good looking you also have good taste we went to one of those places that had like like the small plates like uh like almost like tapas or something and the conversation was really good And there were a couple of comments that made me think like, wow, I can't wait for the second date. Like this, you know, she seems really into me. And aside from my questionable sense of humor, I thought, you know, it was a no brainer. Sure. But then since then, she kind of just ghosted me. You know, like we had a hug at the end of the date. There wasn't like we didn't make out or anything. But, you know, I feel pretty good about it.