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More variety from the 2000s, the 90s, and today, Star 101.3, it's Marcus and Corey. Welcome back to Second Date Update, y'alls.

This is what we do. We get the opportunity for you to figure out why your first date went well, and then you're getting ghosted.

Let's bring in Griffin. Griffin, good morning. Good morning. How are you? Good. How are you, man?

Well, I guess I could be better.

Ghosting nonwithstanding. I always say, how are you, because it's very reflexive, but we already know. We already know.

I mean, you know, if you put that to the side, how is he doing otherwise?

Right. That's what I should say. Yeah. In spite of everything. So, Griffin, tell us about Steph. Like, let's run through how you guys met first, and then let's talk about the first date.

Sure, yeah. So, we met on Plenty of Fifth. Okay. That's how everybody meets these days, right?

Sure, online.

I was really drawn to her profile because she just seems so positive and happy. And I'm just all about, like, trying to avoid negative people and just seeing the good in things, just trying to have a positive outlook. So that was great. We just kind of, after about maybe a week of talking, I was like, hey, why don't we do dinner? Let's make this official, right?

Okay.

So we met up in Willow Glen.

Cute.

Fun. It was really easy. it was um interesting um it doesn't hurt that she's very beautiful as well right and so i'm like oh this is where it's human for a second date and then not even returning my texts anymore like no messages no texts no nothing so i'm i'm in the dark here have you reached out a few times yeah a few times but like not too many to where it's desperate no i wasn't no i wasn't insinuating that you're a weirdo i mean i don't know i think i was just trying to convince myself of that when you say it. I hear you.

Okay. Well, Corey, any theories?

Well, I'm not getting too much intel. I see you ruminating over there. I mean, Willow Glen, what's the crime like in Willow Glen?

I mean, Mill?

Okay, so that's why I'm kind of at a loss for a theory.

I mean, I'm speaking about things I don't know about, but it's a nice area. It's cute.

So it's a very low risk of abduction.

She might have shopped to death. Not sure.

Okay, shop till you drop.

Yes.

That could be a theory.

Let's figure it out. Let's call her. Griffin, sorry for the speculation. We're going to have you on the line when we give her a shot, and we'll see if we can get you a second date, okay? Yeah, please. All right, let's play a song, and let's get to it. It's Second Date Update, Star 101.3. More variety from the 2000s, the 90s, and today it's Star 101.3. It's Marcus and Corey. We're doing Second Date Update. We've been chatting with Griffin. A little South Bay romance. He and Steph met on Plenty of Fish, and then you guys went out to dinner in Willow Glen, yeah? Is that right, Griffin? Yeah. Oh, God, he's on hold. See, I did the thing.

Why do you tell them to mute and then ask them a question?

I don't know, because I'm not smart. I'm not that bright.

It's the definition of insanity. All right, Griffin, go ahead and go back on mute. Go back on mute so he can ask you another question. Okay. Griffin, are you there? how come he's not answering hello okay shut up all right let's call her let's call her here we go hello hi may i speak with steph please this is steph hi steph it's marcus and cory from star

one one three sup steph oh my god hi hi hi hey are you busy i love your second date update

great that's good news because that's exactly what we're doing right now doesn't have it on

today but cool um what if you were second date update would that be all right do you ask me for a friend am i really on it you are you are don't turn the radio on Hey, uh, have you been on a date recently that we could ask you about and that you would be willing to discuss with a gentleman named Griffin, perhaps?

Oh my God. Yes. Okay. Yes.

So, well, ladies, Griffin, you can officially unmute because she knows you're there. She knows.

Second date update.

Hi, Steph. Yeah. Here we go.

Hi. Now let's get down to business.

so uh hey so griffin said you had a great time willow glenn very cute uh he's feeling ghosted

so did you ghost okay and so like tell us about the date sure sure we had we had a good time you know he's very nice very polite

I actually really enjoyed our conversation. But to be honest, it was just one moment I am having a hard time getting over. So Griffin orders a bottle of champagne. And when the server brought it to the table, I asked, you know, what are we celebrating? And before I could say anything, he said that we're celebrating the rest of our lives together. And he said it so loud that the entire restaurant started clapping. and i was just so mortified i was very embarrassed i'm just the type of person i don't like to be the center of attention i don't like to be in the spotlight sure this is the first date

who said that god it's kind of funny though it is but if i had done that to my wife she would have killed me see i would have thought it was funny well some people so griffin don't need all

the attention who are you i i i'm the one who thinks it's funny i i thought it was no we know

you think it's funny but are you hearing the lady no well i'm also hearing you guys and like i'm

getting a 50 50 shot of it being thought of as funny or not i mean i like to have fun i wasn't trying to embarrass you or any like one-up you or anything like that it's just i'm just life's

too short you know i'm fine just playing devil's advocate i can see where not knowing like i think it'd be funny today but if i was on a first date and i didn't know the person that well you gotta know the room yeah if you're gonna pull something now that i'm looking at because i'm thinking about my first date with my husband right and it's like if he had done that i would be like weirdo would you have gone on a second date i don't know that's a good question steph all right

is this a deal breaker where are we at is this i want to know if this is his type of humor and does

he do this kind of stuff all the time yes i'm not hiding who i am i wanted to show you who i am right away i'm not trying to like pretend like i'm somebody i'm not and just kind of later you're like wait this is who you are like this is who i am i want to have fun i want to enjoy life

and be positive okay okay positive sounds positive on it okay that kind of behavior

just makes me cringe so i love that you're honest and this is authentic and who you are

i just don't think we're a match then i just oh man it's such a bummer i just i really thought

you could take a joke i can't you know though it's like marcus and his wife she would be mortified

Yeah. So no, well. Sorry, dude. No getting past this, huh, you guys? Steph?

Crazy. Yeah. I mean, wow, okay. I got nothing by about picking up at all.

All right, hang on, hang on. I felt like that could have almost worked, but my man's not reading the room.

It depends on the person, and you do have to read the room.

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