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time for second date update let's just get started bringing miguel on right now what's up miguel how you doing marcus i'm good man i don't want to bust you up miguel got ghosted we might as well like who hasn't been there to be honest so what we're trying to figure out is if we can get this girl hannah on the phone if we can get her to agree to a second date at the very least we need to close the chapter on this and get you some answers right yeah no exactly i don't even want to put that in the universe so let's go for a second date so tell me about the first date. I understand you guys met online. Roll it out. How'd it go?

It went really well. Like we chatted for a while. She was already smart and, and, uh, you know, messaging isn't always the, my favorite thing. Um, we had like a nice rapport and, um, we met for drinks and like you said, I mean, you know, ghosting is pretty common now. So sure. But this was a weird one because it just went so well, you know, like not only was she nice on, um, when we were messaging back in person she was still funny she was bright she was really thoughtful she's one of those girls she's like really listens and then asks follow-up questions like you know that she's listening you know what i mean i felt great we talked you know we talked about like life work what it's like dating your 30s and stuff sure we even touched on politics and it wasn't even that bad like i was like wow this is she's super open i don't know i thought things were pretty solid we're both really relaxed looked like pretty comfortable and it just felt like one of those things like all right probably gonna lead to another date and here we are all

right well i'll tell you what and here we are let's call her obviously we're gonna have you muted you can listen in i'm gonna give her a shout i'll ask a couple of questions we'll see how it went okay from her perspective it's marcus in the morning we are doing second date update everybody say hi to miguel again what's up miguel how you doing guys hey man all right so we're gonna call hannah we're gonna see why she ghosted i think we've kind of figured she's ghosted on your first date let's see if we can get you a second date here we go go ahead and mute your phone hello hi i'm looking for hannah please this is she hannah this is marcus from star 1013 I do the morning show. How are you?

Wait, what is this?

It's Star 101.3 radio out of San Francisco. I don't suppose you listen in the morning?

Oh, not usually. This is a radio show that's calling me right now?

Yes. So I do the morning show, and every morning we have this situation. It's called Second Date Update, and we try to bring people together after our first date. So we got floated your phone number by a guy who says that he had a great time with you on a date, and he feels like you ghosted. And we're just trying to figure some things out. Do you have a moment? Do you mind being on the air? And do you mind talking about your date with Miguel?

Oh, my God.

That's a lot. I know. Hi. Good morning.

Oh, God. Yeah.

Do you have a sec?

Sure.

why not? Okay. So my guy would like to take you out again. Did you ghost?

Um, I hate to say, yeah, cause I think that's kind of shitty, but yeah. Okay. Can you tell

us why? He's just trying to better himself maybe, or maybe we could get a second date

out of this. I don't know. What are your thoughts? What happened? Oh God. Um, you know, pretty much immediately everything was pretty off um i would say from the very beginning of our our date he was like trying to guess what i was going to say next like he was actively trying to finish my sentence like not in a rude way or like aggressive way but just like too confident you know like

like and usually wrong like like I'd be saying something and he'd be like oh you're about to say that you hate that and I'm like no I actually was gonna say that I love that like let me finish and it was like he did that so many times where it's like hey we're just trying to get to know each other stop cutting me off and trying to like finish each other's sandwiches here like let me just let me talk okay frozen I see you yeah it was so that was like off-putting right and then

right um i mean maybe he was just nervous this is where you tell me there's other stuff

yeah oh god yeah well you know when we like chatted a little bit before we met in person and like right this was not the same energy at all oh and you thought you were great i mean

he's not wrong i mean he's not wrong i listen to you oh my god no but then like as it kept going

like he kept calling everything cute like like that was cute and and like pointing like looking around and like pointing at the glassware and being like this is cute and then i i'm like you know he's asking me questions i'm sort of explaining things about my life and he'll kind of again like interrupt me and be like you're so cute when you explain that and it's like it didn't it didn't feel playful it feels like that's like a line he just keeps in his pocket you know

okay so i felt kind of it felt kind of not forced but but uh performative very premeditated yes

were you out at that point i was kind of out from the beginning from the finishing my sentences i'm like trying to read my mind so incorrectly but then he kept being like so how am i doing here like is this still fun are you still having fun right now like we're are we are we vibing right now? Like, are we, are we hitting it off? And it's just like, bro, like it was reading very

insecure. Okay. I get it. All right. So let me just, let me stop you only because Miguel is actually listening. We're trying to use this as a teachable moment. So he's been listening in and I'd love to bring him on just to, just to discuss. Miguel, are you hearing what she's

saying is it making sense not really because she's saying like it's from the very beginning she was basically out but it's like we were laughing and i mean i just want to kind of address some of the things that she said right like finishing your sentences i i she's taking it like seriously like super seriously like uh it was it's a it was playful like i i'd like to connect you know i want to show her i'm listening as much she was showing me she was listening like i wasn't the only one you know cutting each other off and and and then when i say cute you know i didn't she's saying it's like i don't know like i'm diminishing her that she said something like that um it was just flirting it's like what i wanted to let her know like oh you know i'm interested in you also because you're a beautiful girl like it's cute not like you're dumb or something you're like some little kid it's like it wasn't everything it was like her like she you respond. Do you do this with all your dates? You say that. I mean, it's how I flirt. I thought it was light. It's nothing like vague or anything. Okay. What about this like weird checking in? I like being upfront and communicative and I personally don't like guessing. Sure. Hannah,

these weren't the vibes you were looking for though? I mean, that's a pretty big simplification of what happened. And I'm all for good, healthy communication too, but it felt like a performance review not a date and it didn't feel relaxed or fun I felt like everything was very like almost like he'd rehearsed this thing in his head before he got here it was like he was forcing on me this like pre-scripted date that he'd gone through in his head it was so different than talking to him online

all right well can we um I mean he likes you can we try this again maybe a second

date there it was too needy and it was a big turnoff for me so i'm gonna say no all right

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