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Simply Southern Seafood. Nothing's better. More variety from the 2000s. The 90s end today. It's Star 101.3. It's Marcus. Back with second date update. If you've never heard it, if you're brand new. So what happens is you go on a first date, you get ghosted on. We will call your date on your behalf. It's a service we provide. Try to figure out if you did something wrong or if they're just been busy or what the deal is and ultimately try to get you a second date. It's how we do it. So let's say good morning to Riley. I'm here. Good morning. Excellent. So I want to talk about your date with Jenna. I want to talk about, like, A, how you guys met, and then let's just run through. Typically what we do is I have you run through what you did on the first date, and then we'll try to figure it all out because I understand she's ghosted. But what can you tell me?

Well, we met online, and after, you know, a couple of weeks of back-and-forth messaging, we decided that we were going to grab coffee and, like, walk around Berkeley. Okay. And, I mean, she was funny, thoughtful. She had book recommendations for just about every topic I could think of. Like, we talked about street art. We talked about our worst jobs. We talked about local sandwich spots. Like, you know, like just hard-hitting stuff.

I was going to say the hard-hitting journalism.

Yeah, and then, like, you know, we went out for coffee. We had a great time. And then she hasn't called me or texted me back. And I'm just kind of getting ghosted here, and I don't know why.

How many times have you replayed the date in your head, be honest?

A handful. Absolutely. Yeah, I can't think of anything.

You're not as obsessive as I am then. I get it. All right. I'll tell you what. I'm going to call her. We're going to try to figure this out. I've got my guy Riley on the phone. This feels pretty cut and dry. It feels pretty simple. So you and Jenna just went for coffee. Went for coffee and then walked around Berkeley. And it felt right? Yeah, it felt great. No weirdness? No. Okay. Let's call her then. Go ahead and mute your phone. I'm going to give her a shout and see if we can't salvage this, get you a second date. Okay? Here we go. good day this is jenna well good day i have never had anybody answer the phone good day sorry jenna it's marcus calling from star 1013 good morning good day hello how are you from the radio yes from from star 1013 from the morning show do you listen yeah i do excellent welcome

do you have a moment to be on the show with me um depends on what you're calling for so it's second date update time oh no am i okay all right okay okay uh are we doing this listening to second date update i did not think i was going to end up on it but here we are why don't you be the star

so okay have you been on a date recently that you may or may not have ghosted on yeah okay yeah i think so i mean yeah so we've got riley on the phone i figured yeah riley are you there i'm here okay so jenna he said he had a great time he liked you a lot i wrote down funny thoughtful he enjoyed your conversation so if you ghosted can you tell us why did he do something

it wasn't really something he did i mean i i i think he's nice i think he's a nice person but he was intense in the strangest way i've ever encountered and it made me really uncomfortable i

didn't really know what to do with it okay i gotta ask the question did you feel unsafe

no no it wasn't like that i just like i've never really encountered a person like this like um he kept pausing while we were walking around to write things down in this tiny like pocket-sized notebook um and it wasn't discreet it wasn't like oh every once in a while he'd like job i mean i don't even know how you would discreetly jot in a notebook but like he was so weird and obvious about it he'd like pause walking for a sec and write something down it was like like like therapy note-taking you know what i mean i felt like i was being scrutinized what was he writing down i don't know we talked about a lot of different things um which initially i really liked that he seemed able to talk about a lot of different stuff but then he'd he'd like hyper fixate on these weird things like um okay like uh at one point i was talking to him about my plants and how i feel like i'm a plant killer because i can't keep anything alive sure and he he started like interrogating me about the soil he was like asking me where i sourced the soil for my plants and saying that it might be a pH balance thing and he launches into this like five minute lecture talking at me about the pH balance of my soil and he's like oh if it's too acidic that could be causing the leaves to turn yellow and he was like you know oh do you think it could be root rot that's too much moisture otherwise it could be a too acidic of a soil and I'm just like I don't know it didn't feel like I was having a conversation with him I felt like i was being mansplained at sure it's not that serious and that you know i probably would have been interested if he had talked to me about it differently but i felt like he was lecturing me

got it i like to write things down because i like to make sure that i remember them and i mean i wasn't trying to make you feel like you're being lectured or mansplained or anything like that like i was genuinely like trying to help i was like oh this is the thing i know about You're having trouble with these plans, and so here are ways that I know that I can help. Sure.

Okay, but I think it's really important for you to read the social cues, especially when you're in a really early stages thing with somebody. Like, this was our first date, and I felt like I was being interviewed for a scholarship. I felt like, you know, I felt like I was sitting across a desk from somebody, and that's not the experience I'm trying to have when I'm on a date.

Okay. Well, that wasn't the intention. I was trying to make sure that you knew that I was listening to what you were saying. And I was trying to show you that I was being attentive and helpful. I wasn't trying to talk at you.

Okay, well, even right now, I feel like you're kind of talking at me. You're not saying, wow, I'm sorry. Thank you. I'll take the feedback. You're explaining and over-explaining and lecturing me about what your intentions were as opposed to taking the feedback that I'm giving you that you brought me on the radio to give you.

You guys, I don't know if this is going to work out. Jenna, no second date on this, right?

No, thank you. Thanks, but no.

Sure. All right, hang on. I don't even know where to go from here. Second date update. Obviously, it doesn't always work out.

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