vanessa vanessa tell us about the date from your perspective please okay um hi hi john hi hi i guess we're going to do this on the radio um john i had a we had a really nice time okay and at first i was a i thought it was a little weird because you were a little shy but you know after a couple of margaritas i think we opened up a little bit more and you seemed really nice we have a lot in common We talked a lot about the pups and the hikes. I just think that, okay, here's the real thing. You were very nice. At the very end of the day, I remember you said, text me when you get home. And so you knew that I made it safe. I thought that was awesome. So I did. And then later that night, you texted me again, and you asked how my night was going. And honestly, I thought that was meant for another woman, which is totally fine. Like we went on one date. So, you know, I didn't respond in my head. I was like, OK, well, maybe that was for somebody else. Didn't I see you a couple of hours ago? And then the next morning you texted me again, which was nice. But you texted good morning, beautiful. How are you? And while that is sweet, that feels a little bit more intimate than what I expected after one date. And then you asked me how my day was going later that day. And then at night, you asked me just to make sure that I was okay. So then I responded. But honestly, by that point, I was just annoyed.