Yeah, but when you said something came up, I assumed that it was like something important, like an emergency or something you needed to deal with. And so like I was, I was willing to overlook that. But, you know, as we had more drinks, he started talking about how extreme of a gamer he is, like literally either taking two to three days PTO or spending his weekends just gaming all weekend, getting Uber Eats and Mountain Dew and like doesn't really do anything much except for games. and like he was looking a little grubby on our date um and he was saying that he also like he didn't really see the youth and almost enjoyed like not going outside for days or just kind of being grubby at home and not really showering um so it was just kind of a definite turnoff