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More variety from the 2000s, the 90s, and today. It's Star 101.3. It's Marcus and Corey. Time once again for Second Date Update. Let's do this.

Why are you being ghosted? That is the big question. That is the question. That we try to figure out for you. Why is someone not getting back to you? What did you do on that first date that just completely repelled them?

You're being very accusatory, but we're going to roll through. All right. I'm not sure Lisa would appreciate your tone.

I didn't. There's no tone. She is listening.

Lisa, are you there?

I am. Hi.

I don't think Corey means to insinuate that you did something wrong.

No, no. Because that would be judgmental. Something went wrong.

Thank you. Just a shift in the vernacular. That's all it takes sometimes.

Thank you for correcting yourself.

So tell us about Travis. Let's start with, like, how you guys met, and then what did you guys do on your first date?

So, first of all, I mean, Travis is just so cute and such a charming guy.

Okay.

And then things just went weird. we met at a local bar where we both hang out you know occasionally after work so it's a classy bar

it's not like a little dive bar classy joints they're gonna find me there are you telling me you guys met IRL in real life we met in real life this is amazing like humans adults old school style

we exchanged phone numbers okay um and it was quite refreshing to be honest with you after like you know this world we live in where everything is virtual i thought you were going to say a disaster oh well well that too you're not wrong so we exchanged phone numbers and he met me for dinner at a very nice italian restaurant okay um he looked so handsome and just seemed like a total gentleman except there's been like very little communication since dinner and you know we follow each other on instagram now so like we incorporated that new world into our sure in real life way of

meeting um but it's just like strange now have you tried to like dm him or contact him or

just radio silence or what's it i did it maybe i'm being like a little insecure about it but uh

i believe old-fashioned is the word we're looking for and that's fine i don't think that's old

fashion i'm with you though i would want him to reach out to me don't call me old

by the way we cory mentioned that last week on a call and the guy was like i mean that's cool if it's the 90s give me back the 90s because i liked it they're only five years ago it doesn't matter it's one

of those things like i would never ask a guy to marry me because i feel like i want to be absolutely sure that he wants to do this so i'm gonna let him ask me so i'm saying all right

Anyway, Lisa, back to you. Let's get some answers. Can you hang on for a song?

Absolutely.

Okay, we'll do that, and then we will call Travis with you on the line and see what's up. Don't move, all right? Okay. Second date update. It's Star 101.3. More variety from the 2000s, the 90s, and today. Star 101.3. It's Marcus and Corey. We're doing second date update. We've been chatting with Lisa's on the phone. She and Travis met in real life. That's amazing. They both go to the same bar. It's a classy bar after work. Lisa, do you typically go with coworkers, or is it one of those where you need to turn your brain off and just sit quietly and rock back and forth after a long day?

Oh, like my day? I've done both, so I guess it just depends on the day.

Sure, that makes sense. All right, and then nice Italian dinner. Travis is super cute, handsome. Other adjectives. So charming. Charming, thank you. Forgot that one. But he's ghosted, so let's call him and figure it out. Go ahead and mute your phone. Here we go.

Hello? Hey, may I speak with Travis, please? Yeah, this is Travis. Hi, Travis. It's Marcus and Corey from Star 1013.

What's up, Travis?

Who?

Oh, well, we do a morning show here in the Bay Area. It's on the radio.

Yeah, we work for a radio station. We're wondering, sorry to ambush you, Do you have a second to be on the air with us?

Is this one of those podcast things?

No, I mean, we're on the radio. We're on the air. We're like old school radio.

Like, remember, you got in your... car you turn the radio on yeah yeah okay i got you we'd like you to be a guest we do a segment called a second date update and we got a call from a lady that you went on a date with that would love to see you again she thinks you are very handsome but we're she's feeling ghosted if i'm being honest so what can you tell us about your date with lisa oh wow lisa um um i i guess she just she's one i mean frankly if i'm being honest she's wondering where you've been because she's saying that like you had a great first date and then you disappeared

yeah so okay she was very lovely the date went great i i thought as far as it's kind of like just the chemistry and communication however um she's really intense how do you mean and yeah

In what way?

By that, I mean she started following me on Instagram, which is fine. We started following each other. But then she started, like, texting me about all my family photos on there and places that I've been because, you know, you can tag yourself on posts on IG. And so she was asking all about that. And then she goes and comments on basically every single photo I've put up in the past year and a half. and it almost made me feel like i was being watched a little bit and not feeling that if

i'm being honest travis okay hi oh by the way so so lisa's on the phone yeah lisa lisa um feels a little aggressive if i'm being honest a little bit i mean like i'm just trying to get to know you isn't that what what people do i mean everyone's on social media like if you followed me and i followed you and you accepted it why would i not engage

i get that you're a sweet girl i can't believe we're doing this on the radio but again um it's just a bit much it's a bit aggressive it's a little intense the way you went about it just kind of like turned me off and it's just like it was a lot it was a lot a lot you know

okay we've got some clarity obviously yes what if what if she pulled back lisa i mean let's just cool off travis can we do a second date

honestly i'm a little scared how are you doing if you're doing this now if you're like just all my social media doing this now and we continue to see each other it probably will get worse I'm unfortunately this is a hard pass for me right got it hang on god it's such a delicate

dance isn't it uh pia de terre well I don't know what that is it sounds like something you serve before a main course at a restaurant it's french for a delicate dance oh a pia de terre anyway second date update 705 weekday mornings replays at 905 and of course we got the podcast on the iHeartRadio app. Go search out Marcus and Corey. You can actually see all of our podcasts.