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More variety from the 2000s. The 90s end today. It's Star 101.3. It's Marcus and Corey. It's time for second date update. Let's do this thing. We want to help you get that second date. You had

the first one. You thought it went well and then nothing. And we figure out why. Say good morning

to Marisol who was on the phone. Needs a little help. It's all right. It's what we're here for.

Good morning. Good morning. How are you guys? Good. How are you? I'm good. Definitely a little nervous about this but um hoping for a second date absolutely i gotta tell you and i've told

this story before i love the name marty soul um in fact it was on my list to name my daughter and my and my wife said no oh my wife said no because hold on because the girl that used to want to fight with her in high school was named marty soul well we have a lot of energy we have a lot

i went to college with a marisol and she is an actress you can see her in oh i forgot the name of that movie what was it i don't know you know that because i was pronouncing it wrong and you had to fix it remember you're asking me it was in spanish yes all right oh okay anyway there's

the complete history of our experience with the name marisol you're welcome anyway i think it's beautiful let's get to your issues though that's really why we're here tell us about edwin how y'all met and then uh tell us about how the first day went okay yeah so it was really exciting we actually

met in person hey never happens anymore oh my god yeah it felt like a movie we were waiting in line at whole foods um and you know how the lines are there super long sure um and he struck up conversation and i was having a lot of fun talking to him we bonded over our love for our dogs um and then we followed each other on instagram and we had been exchanging messages like flirting a little bit and he asked me to coffee and we had coffee and it was really awesome and i thought the conversation really flowed and i thought that we were really compatible i was really excited Definitely didn't feel like friends to me. But since the date, I haven't really been hearing from him as frequently. It feels a little icy. And so I'm sensing that, like, something is off. But I don't really know what.

Real talk. How far back on his Instagram did you scroll to make sure he didn't have a girlfriend? I won't tell anybody.

To the very beginning. He didn't have a lot of posts. So it wasn't too bad, which was another green flag for me. But, yeah.

Hey, a girl's got to do her research. You know what I'm saying?

Yeah, the trick is to go into the tagged post.

Oh my gosh, she's so good.

Wow, that is intense.

Marisol with the masterclass, I like it. Okay, well, so nothing was out of the ordinary in your opinion?

I don't think so. I thought he was funny. He laughed at all of my jokes. We hugged as we left. It felt like a romantic hug. All signs would go to me, so I don't know.

Let's call him.

Let's call him.

So, I'm going to have you mute your phone. Let's play a song, and then we will call Edwin and see what's up. Hang on the line, okay? Cool. All right. Second date update. Star 101.3. A variety from the 2000s, the 90s, and today. It's Star 101.3. It's Marcus and Corey. We're doing a second date update. We've been chatting with Marisol, who met Edwin IRL in real life.

Yeah.

In line at Whole Foods. That's unique. It's like a Nicholas Sparks movie, Marisol. I can't believe he had... Like, nobody wants to talk to anybody. You know what I mean?

I'll say hi to people, but I shouldn't be dating, so.

Does your husband frown on that?

He frowns on that.

Okay. You guys went out. Coffee, really easy. And now, has he been messaging you at all, or is he just ghosted?

He will message me here and there, or, like, he'll like one of the messages I've sent, but it's definitely a soft ghost. It's definitely way different than before the date.

Okay. All right, let's give him a shout and see what's up. We'll see. Ultimately, we want to get you a second date, obviously, but let's see if we can get some insight on this. Hang on one second.

Hello? Hi, Miss Edwin, please.

Is this him?

Hi, Edwin. It's Marcus and Corey calling from Star 1013.

Good morning, Edwin. Good morning. How are you guys? Good. How are you? I'm good.

I'm good so far.

Do you listen to our show?

Here and there. I'm just a little startled.

Sorry. No, you're right. Do you know about Second Date Update? Excuse me? Yeah.

We do something called Second Date Update.

I think that is a no.

And it's a dating segment on our show, and we talk to somebody who went on a first date who wants to get a second date.

Yeah. So do you have a second to talk about?

a date you've been on uh sure okay um what can you tell us about your date with body soul because she enjoyed it she said that you guys are connected on social media and now she's thinking

you ghosted so what can you tell us so yes i did have a great time it was great i i don't know but after the date it was like the floodgates opened okay on what do you mean so um every time i will go online she's there i'm like okay then i go to um i text her something funny like a meme or something she texts immediately like right after and it's like this huge paragraphs and essays of like messages and like 200 memes and i just feel a little overwhelmed there going a little too hard is that what you mean yeah like it was like videos and i don't know to me it was too much

aggressive i get it i guess but at the same time i mean she's excited now wait until that dies and you guys are just in this end this relationship asking each other what you want to do for dinner

for the rest of your life like a lady who's been married for 15 years yeah i mean i don't know i

just feel that um you know going this hard in the beginning i just feel like that steam's gonna like you know you gotta take it slow like in my opinion well and when we actually have

marisol on the phone oh yeah i'm here sorry so she's been listening we've got we've got some answers. We've got answers now.

I just think it's weird that you're, like, turned off by my excitement. Like, you just wanted me to be less into you.

Yeah, it's not that. It's just, I feel like it's a little too clingy. I feel like I send you two things, and I got, like, 300 of those videos or messages.

I mean, you're the one who started with the videos, and honestly, your videos were not that funny. I liked them. It was, like, a pity, like,

i think they're funny i i don't know that's how i communicate with my friends and everybody like

they look forward to all of the things that i send them so if that's like too much for you then yeah i guess we're not compatible i'm sorry you have such a strict schedule and you don't know how to be more playful spend more of your time being fun i don't have the bandwidth for

you're kind of playful i'm not 16 okay i'm a grown-ass man okay all right we're good let's

all right cool hang on not a match i mean you know i mean sometimes i feel like they just what they are picky about is so non i mean these are two different lifestyles though yeah to be

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