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More variety from the 2000s, the 90s, and today it's Star 101.3. It's Marcus and Corey, and we're doing it again. It's Second Date Update.

We just want to help you. We know dating is not easy in this day and age, and we know a lot about dating because we haven't dated in what? A hundred years. A hundred years.

It's been a wild week on Second Date Update.

It really has. So we try to figure out why you're not getting your second date.

Let's bring Sarah on. Hello, Sarah.

Good morning.

Good morning. Hey, so Leo, huh? What can you tell us? Let's talk about how you guys met and then just like run us through the first date like we always do.

We met on Hinge and he just seemed really cool. And, you know, he's good looking and we just seemed to hit it off. And, you know, we had a really cool first date. Tell us. yeah yeah well we went to this place in oakland that has you know local brews bowling we just really got into it we did everything we were doing some you know friendly competing playing video games it was just like really playful and really a lot of fun we did some bowling are you are you a competitive lady yeah it seems like we both are and i know that sometimes like girls aren't supposed to be competitive but screw that i mean it's fun too so dude my wife is a

bruiser she won't lose i try to tell my daughter when we play monopoly keep your boot on the neck man mommy's coming for you i promise you know it's not fun if you don't try i get it is what i'm saying i get it so okay this place seems cool so okay there's there's beer there's bowling did you say there were video games involved i can't remember yeah yeah there's that too and um

You know, I just, uh, I felt like a strong vibe with him. I feel like, you know, I can keep up with the guys kind of thing. And I thought that he had a great time too. But the problem is, you know, I haven't heard from him. He's ghosted me and I don't understand why.

Okay. Okay. Here's what I think.

Okay. What's your, yes, please, Corey, your thoughts.

They go bowling, right? Right. After the date, Leo's at home. He notices his feet are bothering him a little bit, but he kind of blows it off. Cut to transmissible... I can't...

I'm sorry.

You can't even play through on your own theory?

Okay. Transmissible spongiform encephalitis. What? It's from the shoes. And so he's focused on... You think he got foot fungus? Yeah. He's fine. He's just, he's got to take a minute to fix his feet.

What is wrong with you? Nothing. What's going on up there? Wouldn't you like to know? Insufferable what?

Transmissible spongiform encephalitis.

Thank you. Sounds delicious. Sarah, I'm sorry you had to endure that. Why don't we just call him, huh, you guys?

Okay.

Let's go.

Unless he's spread to his hands.

Let's call him and see what happens. Sarah, you know the drill. We're going to have you on the line, on mute, and we will ask Leo what he thought of the date. Ultimately, we're going for a second date, right? That's what we want?

Yeah, that's what I would like.

Okay, let's see what's up. Hang on the line for a song. We'll get back to it. It's Second Date Update, Star 1013. More variety from the 2000s, the 90s, and today. It's Star 1013. It's Marcus and Corey. We're doing Second Date Update right now. As you know, we've been chatting with Sarah. She and Leo went to, apparently there's a place in Oakland where you can do bowling and beer.

I love that stuff.

If I'm thinking of the same place, they have bocce there. They have video games. Sarah, you guys just kind of, sounds like you had a blast.

Yeah, I thought so.

Okay. And there was some friendly competitions here and there. And for some reason, he has ghosted. So let's figure this out. Let's give him a call. Go ahead and mute your phone. And we're going to dial him up right now. Ultimately, see if we can get you a second date. Here we go.

hello hi may i speak with leo please uh speaking hi leo it's marcus and cory from star 1013

yo hey hey hi i listen a lot to you guys great uh what's going on Well, check your watch.

Are you familiar with Second Date Update?

Oh, God. It's my turn, isn't it? Yes, it is.

Welcome.

Leo's been in the queue for a while, it sounds like.

Hey, sir, are you dating anyone right now, bro? Because we got a call.

I've been on a couple dates recently. So? Different people.

I'm not going to have you guess because it gets awkward when people do that. I'm just going to, can I bring Sarah on? Is that okay and we can discuss? oh my god yeah okay sweet yes so sarah hey you can unmute hey leo hey what's up sarah so hey leo wondering what's up yeah why don't you tell us what's up yeah did you ghost or what

Yeah, I did. And I am now realizing how dumb I am. Yeah, I ghosted because, okay, so on our date, I don't know how much you explained, Sarah, but we were playing a bunch of video games, a bunch of arcade games at this place. and I am pretty convinced that that was like a strategic test for like my masculinity like after she beat me in the in this racing game which I I swear to god that was a fluke that uh I can I can definitely come back at that I I just got a little paranoid that I got outgamed by a girl what so and yeah so like instead of reaching out i i i've been training a bunch at uh my local arcade and uh what i just want to get my honor back before yeah are you trying to get my honor before facing her again are you serious about this yeah this doesn't even sound real coming

out of your mouth right now you're saying that you can't see her again until you feel like you can beat her and if you don't beat her you're not a man i guess if you want to put it that way

sure like i i really just yeah want to feel you know a lot better about how i'm about how i'm

performing you know you know what that sounds like a lot of toxic masculinity honestly i mean are you really serious about this i are you missing a girl beat you at a video game that's crazy well yeah like that i thought you were a good guy no i'm i am a good guy i'm i'm a good person i just don't like losing like that's all no you don't like to lose to a woman this is ridiculous i've heard enough does that mean i just want to verify yes sarah sarah absolutely not i thank you for helping me figure this out i mean what are we seven years old this is absurd all

right hang on that was another strange one in a sea of strange ones it's very bizarre and i think he needs to work on his confidence yes uh second date update 705 weekday mornings replays at 905 you can binge listen over the weekend to all the new calls on the iheart radio app if you search

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