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More variety from the 2000s, the 90s, and today it's Star 101.3, it's Marcus and Corey. And it's time once again for everybody's favorite. This is Second Date Update.

Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't, but we're always going to give it the old college try.

Every time. I like your enthusiasm.

You have a first date, we try to get you a second one.

I'm sure Spence appreciates it as well. Spence, are you there? Hey, I'm a big fan of the show. Hey, look at that. Aw, that's nice. Thanks, man. Well, we want to help you out. Tell us about Katrina. How did you guys meet? And then, like, how did the first date go? Because I understand that she's ghosted since. So fill us in.

Yeah. So I met her on Match.com, and we met up for a chill lunch in Saratoga.

Nice.

Yeah. Basically, it was a day-to-day. I'm new to dating again. I just got out of a pretty long-term relationship and just dipping my feet in. and I just felt really comfortable around Katrina. It was a hot day. We were out on the patio. We had a couple of drinks, and I think everything went really well.

You know, I think match is good when you want to take things seriously. I think match is more of a kind of mature, hey, I'm not fooling around. Let's just hook up. This is more of an adult.

That's funny because I've never been on it, but like my mom was on it, I always felt like it was too much info too soon because they want you to fill out paragraphs about yourself.

E-Harmony, too. That's the same.

I think it's important to hide the crazy. This has nothing to do with your situation, Spence. I'm sure she's great. But it went well, sounds like. Cocktails and whatnot.

I think it went well. Okay. To me, it went well.

All right. Okay. Listen to him. Sounds like me on this show. I had a good time. You're welcome. Anyway, well, let's figure out what happened. I have a theory. Corey's Daily Theory. Let's hear it.

This is actually an easy one, if I'm being honest. Katrina had one too many cocktails in the sun. After you guys split up, she got extremely dehydrated, went into shock, misplacing her phone. Do you go into shock dehydration? That can be one of the symptoms of dehydration, extreme dehydration. That's a thing. You can also get a little woozy memory loss, so she probably doesn't have her phone. I'm sure she's fine.

Very good. All right. I'm glad we waited for that. Spence, why don't we just call her and ask? Does this sound good? Yeah, I mean, I appreciate your help. All right. Let's play a song, and then let's call Katrina. We'll have you on the line. We'll have you muted so she can't hear you, but we'll be able to hear from her exactly what she thought of the date. So we'll do it next. It's Second Date Update, Star 1013. More variety from the 2000s, the 90s, and today it's Star 1013. It's Marcus and Corey. We've been doing Second Date Update. We've been chatting with Spence, who had lunch with Katrina. This sounds like my kind of lunch. Low-key, Saratoga, nice and sunny, eating outside. And, Spence, I could hear you kind of self-auditing when we talked about it. You can't think of anything that might have gone wrong?

No, I honestly have no idea what could be the holdback on a second date.

Okay. All right. Well, let's call her. Go ahead and go on mute. And we're going to give her a shout and see what she thought. And hopefully get you a second date. Fingers crossed. Here we go.

hello hi may i speak to katrina please yeah yeah it's a katrina hi katrina it's marcus and cory from star one one three hello oh hi do you i uh you listen to our show uh i'm sorry i

don't no so we do a morning show for iheart radio yes uh on 101.3 it's a it's star 101.3 we're doing a dating segment and we're hoping that you have a minute to be on the air with us

do you mind chatting with us about a date you went on um okay sure thank you gentleman's name

is spence and he said that he had a great time with you that you made him very comfortable and he's feeling ghosted so we just wanted to get the real deal like did you ghost uh he would love to go out again if that's possible so how did the first date go for you well i mean to be

honest i i guess he didn't mention this um but he he still lives with his ex-wife and his kids um and he didn't disclose that um when on his on his profile because you know we met over match.com right he didn't put that on his profile and he didn't even say that he had kids and i had no

idea that's a lot yeah it is yeah so so is that's a deal breaker then well i wouldn't have matched

with him if I had known this

it's just it's a lot to to learn um and you know and he lives in a unit in their backyard of the same house he and his ex-wife his ex-wife lives in and just i i don't think that's gonna that's not something i can really it's a lot of baggage to be honest i don't like phrasing it

that way but that's what it is okay so in all honesty spence is actually on the phone with us

Hey, Spence, this is a lot.

Why wouldn't you mention that you have kids?

Well, you know, I'm in the process of just getting everything kind of cleared up right now. And I just kind of wanted to get out there. And I thought it was pretty normal to have kids at the age that me and Katrina are at. You know, I thought that was kind of just a given.

But don't you want to put that on your dating profile? I mean, that's what I feel like online dating is for. So you can say, hey, I have kids. Hey, I smoke or I don't smoke.

I mean, it says likes kids in the profile for options of like things I'm into.

The difference between likes kids and has kids. I'm going to assume that maybe that's information you want to ease into on the second or third date. Would that be accurate?

I think you'd say that, but like, I really don't get how she's making a mountain out of this molyle. Like, rent is cheaper, we're co-parenting the kids, and I'm really just, you know, mature about situations, uh, like this. And I guess Katrina is not able to, you know, be chill

like that. That's information that's important to know. And I wouldn't have, I'm not looking to have children necessarily. I don't have anything against kids and I don't have anything against

parents, but it's just important to know about that. Um, now that we have some transparency

here katrina any shot uh you know honestly i really can't wrap my head around this i just there's no universe in which i would live in the same vicinity as my ex and i just don't think

it's going to work for me fair enough hang on uh there was a lot to unpack there and i see how it

could be overwhelming i feel like you gotta be upfront and transparent about certain things

also side note there's no more awkward 30 days in life than those 30 days you spend with your ex after you've decided to break up and you need to find a new place.

Ugh, I got a whole story about that, but we don't have time.

I was just gonna say, don't ask me how I know. Anyway, second date update, 7.05 weekday mornings, replays at 9.05. It's got a podcast, of course, on the iHeartRadio app. If you go download for free and subscribe, please, all of our podcasts are right there.