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Tamara Ghosted Josh Over Tapas
Marcus In The Morning Second Date Update

Tamara Ghosted Josh Over Tapas

from Marcus In The Morning Second Date Update

October 29, 2025 | 00:06:58 | Leisure

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Josh thought his tapas date with Tamara was a hit—great food, flirty banter, and zero awkward silences. They agreed: team books, not screens. He left confident. She left… and never texted back See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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00:01:00 - 00:01:20 | Speaker 5:

more variety from the 2000s the 90s and today it's star 1013 it is marcus good morning we're back with second date update again this morning thank you to everybody tuning in every morning appreciate you josh is on the phone hello i loved your dm where you were like i can't believe i'm actually calling to be on second date update but here we are i want to talk about your date with

00:01:20 - 00:01:34 | Speaker 4:

tamra because i want to help you out well it's been a little weird for me here right i mean uh We met on Hinge. We met up after we exchanged some messages, and we went to dinner in Walnut Creek a couple weekends ago at this point.

00:01:34 - 00:01:34 | Speaker 5:

Okay.

00:01:34 - 00:01:52 | Speaker 4:

And we had tapas. Went super smooth. Good food, good wine, good energy. And she seemed really impressed by how confidently I came in. I thought everything was just 100% top to bottom. Okay. Especially considering tapas, it can be very intimidating.

00:01:53 - 00:01:55 | Speaker 5:

All those small plates rolling around.

00:01:55 - 00:02:27 | Speaker 4:

everything's in spanish all small plates honestly not enough commitment everything's so small you know i thought everything went really easily i mean we ate absolutely everything they put in front of us so you know seem to be enjoying it and we absolutely hit it off about uh our feelings on books you know we're very are you a reader paper are you a reader oh yeah okay a big reader and i just i can't get behind screen-based reading this is very much i'm not i'm not there for the pixels

00:02:27 - 00:02:32 | Speaker 5:

you know sure were there any awkward moments that you can think of i'm just trying to dissect why

00:02:32 - 00:02:49 | Speaker 4:

she might have ghosted no not at all in fact she went out of her way to tell me about previous bad dates that she was on and it was like oh good at least i'm not that guy sure but she's gone yeah I haven't heard a thing. All right.

00:02:49 - 00:03:15 | Speaker 5:

We're going to see what she says about the date. I'd love to get you a second date, but let's at the very least get some answers. All right. But let's positive thinking. We're going to get you a second date. Can you hang on the line? Absolutely. Well, variety from the 2000s, the 90s, and today it's Star 101.3. It is Marcus. Good morning. We're doing second date update right now. I've been chatting with my guy, Josh, offline. I love this date. So dinner in Walnut Creek, tapas. And Josh, you did all the ordering?

00:03:16 - 00:03:16 | Speaker 4:

Oh, yeah.

00:03:16 - 00:04:31 | Speaker 5:

okay perfectly well but tamara has ghosted so let's try to figure some things out go ahead mute your phone and we will uh we'll give her a shout here we go hello hi is this tamara uh yes hi uh my name is marcus i i do a radio show in the morning on a station called star one to one three i don't suppose you listen i don't unfortunately okay that's fine uh we're doing a segment on the show it's called second date update and i got floated your phone number by a guy who listens to the show who went on a date with you recently he's feeling ghosted i wanted to check in with you and see how the date went it's kind of like a teachable moment i'm trying to figure out if my guy did something wrong or if you've just been busy or what the deal is do you have a second to talk about it uh your date with a guy named josh uh sure thank you so he said it went really well he said that you told some good stories that the food was good that you were lovely he'd love to go out again did you did you ghost um i mean

00:04:31 - 00:04:54 | Speaker 6:

i i tried not to like ghost in general i feel like that's not like the greatest tactic but But honestly, in this case, I just felt like I didn't want to go in for a lecture on why I wasn't making the right choice. I felt like there was sort of a lot of lecture elements of our date.

00:04:55 - 00:05:19 | Speaker 5:

Can you elaborate on that? I'm just trying to figure out what my guy did wrong. totally um i mean he seemed really nice and like personable and we had a nice conversation but honestly the whole thing felt more like sort of a ted talk on we went out for tapas and it felt like i was i was there to like learn about it felt like a seminar on tapas rather than like a

00:05:19 - 00:05:26 | Speaker 3:

getting to know you sort of date okay he did clue me in that he kind of ran the ordering and stuff Was that not helpful?

00:05:28 - 00:05:45 | Speaker 5:

I mean, he didn't really check in with me to see what I wanted. And maybe that works for some people. But, like, I don't like being ordered for, especially if I don't ask for it. And whenever I suggested something, he was like, okay, kiddo. There was a lot of kiddo throughout the date, which is sort of a red flag for me.

00:05:45 - 00:05:48 | Speaker 3:

Like, he literally said that? Like, that's what he called you? Is that what you mean?

00:05:48 - 00:06:28 | Speaker 5:

Yeah, he called me kiddo. And, like, maybe he thought that was sort of funny, but I thought it was pretty gross. and then he explained sangria to me um there was just sort of a lot of dissecting of the evening and he was like well you probably aren't familiar with this even though I had told him that I had been to Spain um and also just like have been alive for a number of years so I know what sangria is sure so it was just sort of a lot of condescending in that department okay otherwise really nice but maybe he thought it was my first time out to dinner other than that it was amazing other than that it was amazing and i learned a lot actually okay well okay here's where we are

00:06:28 - 00:06:44 | Speaker 3:

with this is part of this is josh is actually listening right now and awesome right sorry i'd love to bring him on great josh are you there yes okay yes i am we've got some answers now

00:06:44 - 00:07:05 | Speaker 4:

so gosh hi okay first of all i thought i was taking charge here uh because i was just trying to save us from ordering six versions of the same croquette i mean you know i asked you about allergies so i knew we were getting out ahead of that one yeah but just because i don't have an

00:07:05 - 00:07:11 | Speaker 5:

allergy to something doesn't mean i want to eat it it felt like i was with my like dad's friend

00:07:11 - 00:07:23 | Speaker 4:

at a restaurant like i needed help ordering yeah but i feel like you need to expand your palate i mean that's why we're there that's what the whole point of tapas is no oh really interesting so it

00:07:23 - 00:07:29 | Speaker 5:

was sort of like a learning moment for me it was an enrichment exercise for me i mean i don't see

00:07:29 - 00:07:41 | Speaker 4:

why it can't be everything's an important opportunity for growth but you already know the answers well i mean when it comes to tapas yeah okay fascinating all right hey you guys

00:07:41 - 00:07:58 | Speaker 3:

Hang on. Hang on one sec. Hang on. Hey, Tamara, I, I like you too much. I'm not going to put you through any more of that. I don't think he was listening at all. Right. I'm going to, I'm going to let you go. You're amazing. Okay. Wow. All right. Second date update.

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