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A variety from the 2000s, the 90s, and today. Star 101.3. It's Marcus and Corey, and we're hitting it again, y'all. It's second date update. Here we go.

You went on a successful first date, at least you thought, and now, nothing.

Dun, dun, dun.

We try to figure out why.

This is so dramatic. Travis can barely contain himself. Travis, are you there?

Yeah, I'm here, guys. I'm here.

Hey, dude. What can you tell us about Mandy?

Well, we met on Hinge. Her profile kind of stood out among the ones I was looking at. She's beautiful. It turns out, after talking to her, she's smart. She's funny. You know, we're into a lot of the same stuff. Like, I'm into wine tasting, so is she. We both like to travel. We're both big football fans. So we messaged back and forth for a few weeks before we decided to meet up in Lafayette. She's in Walnut Creek. I'm in Oakland. So we met in Lafayette. Yeah, so we met Lafayette for sushi. It was great. The restaurant was great. We had a great time. She's even better in person than over text. I thought we clicked. I felt like a second dig was in the bag. Yeah. But she's totally ghosted me, and I'm at a loss.

And Lafayette's super cute. It'll put you in the mood.

Yeah.

All right.

Yeah, yeah. And nothing stands out to you? Like, you didn't spit on her? Nothing negative.

A lot of positive. Pushed down. A lot of positive. Jesus, dude. I definitely didn't do that. A lot of positive stuff stood out.

nothing negative okay last week we had that close talker who spit in the guy's mouth that's true

all right fair point we sat a reasonable distance across the table from each other

not to say you can't make that basket though being honest just kidding uh all right well let's figure some things out we're gonna play a song as we always do and then we are going to call mandy can you hang out yeah right on dude all right we'll be back with it second date update It's Star 101.3. More variety from the 2000s, the 90s, and today. It's Star 101.3. It's Marcus and Corey. We are doing Second Date Update. We're talking to Travis. He was telling us about his date with Mandy. They met at a very picturesque halfway point. So she lives in Walnut Creek. He lives in Oakland. And y'all met in Lafayette for some sushi. Super cute. Right? Is that accurate? Yeah, that's it. Okay. and your quote she was even better in person which never happens well i mean personality

wise like i think sometimes you can't express yourself when you're like texting right so also

looks wise like most people i think look better in their picture than in real life but she looked

even better in real life their picture from the early 2000s totally get it all right let's call her let's see what happened ultimately we want to get you a second date but let's just see how

it plays out great oh mute your phone thanks bud hello this is mandy hi mandy this is marcus and

cory from star 1013 so early to be all business mandy how are you sorry who right uh so we do

a morning show here in the bay area on a radio station star 1013 wondering if you have a second

to talk to us if it's okay to talk on the air we do a dating segment and we wanted to ask you about a date you've been on recently if that's okay um i mean which date what date right um his name was travis and he really enjoyed his time with you and he's feeling ghosted so we're just trying to we'd love to get him a second date if possible but like did something happen what can you tell us

yeah actually it did okay tell us about um i go ahead yeah i went out on one date with him um okay i it started really good i mean i was having a really good time with him and he um resembled his photos which is always a plus he said the same about you by the way

he said in fact he said you were even prettier in person yep oh my gosh that's so nice for what

it's worth um well i you know i i really wanted to enjoy the date and i was enjoying it until he did this really creepy thing in the middle of dinner and i haven't really been able to get over it honestly okay what'd he do okay i mean i guess i i mean okay i'll just tell you he um in the middle of our meal he just leaned over and put his hands on my belly and he like looked into my eyes and goes my son will grow here and i was so weirded out i i've never experienced anything like that it was so creepy to me wait slow down say that again he said what what we were we were having dinner it was like in the middle of the meal and he leaned in and put his hands on my stomach and like you know said in this like really sincere intense voice he's like my son will grow here or like this is where my son will grow or like something like that but like something about his son growing in my belly there's no way i don't know what the big deal

okay hold on hang on hang on hang on mandy sorry travis is on the phone yes he's listening i'm

sorry oh my gosh travis yeah what what are you wow that's aggressive listen i want to be a dad one day i think it's important to share that good for you someone you have a connection to like for me kids are a deal breaker you don't want to have kids then let's not go even continue this this you know this date or whatever this relationship but that's not how you do it you're not that's not how you say you want to be a dad god that's a that's like

There's so many better ways to do that. That is about, like, of all the ways you could say, hey, I really want kids, and if you don't, then there's no point in continuing. Like, that is probably the creepiest way you possibly could have done that.

Wow. Listen, I thought we had a connection. I'm trying to be forthright. I did, too. I'm trying to be clear at the top, you know?

You guys, hang on one second, you two. Hang on, hang on.

I need a hazmat shower.

Mandy? Yeah. He's on hold. So.

Okay.

We're safe now.

Okay. Did he? Wow. Nothing. Of all the things that could possibly have gone weird on a date, that's one I didn't think I had to worry about, you know? And the thing is, I really enjoyed the first part of our date, too. Sure. I was so put off when he did that. It was like, not only was it totally disrespectful of my boundaries, but it also came across as really possessive, you know? like that's where my son's gonna be it's it was so weird to me okay all right we're gonna go ahead

and let him down easy thank you for your time we're sorry to bother you i'm glad this came out honestly for sure for sure hang on wow that was strange oh god it's very uncomfortable uh second date update 705 weekday mornings replays at 905 it's got its own podcast as you know on the iHeartRadio app. You can go look for just, you know what, search out Marcus and Corey. We've got a half dozen podcasts there.