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Bueno, a variety from the 2000s, the 90s And today it's Star 101.3 It's Marcus and Corey Y'all know what time it is This is Second Date Update, everybody

This is when you go on a date with somebody Maybe you met online Maybe you met in person Like at a bar or something You decide to go out You think it was a great time And then you never hear from them again

We've had ghosting, backpedaling Throwing the brakes on And then so our job is to figure out Where the miscommunication is If there is any And try to get you a second date So let's get good morning to Val. Val, are you there?

Yeah. Hi.

Hi. Good morning. Tell us about Brian, how you met, first of all, and then tell us how the date went. Okay.

Okay. So Brian and I met on Bumble.

Okay.

And like right off the bat, I just thought he was super attractive. I liked everything he presented on his profile. And he also mentioned on his profile that he was looking for something more than a hookup, which is exactly what I'm looking for. Like something like more like a relationship. Sure. So that was really attractive to me So we ended up chatting on Bumble for a while And then We met up for dinner Recently in Danville

Danville, fancy Fancy

In my opinion The date went great He was so much better looking He was hot on his profile But in person I was like next level We had a great time There was not a single dull moment I just felt like we connected We vibed, there was so much chemistry We had a lot in common too And I really felt like this could be Something more Like a real relationship What happened? So then after I never heard anything from him Like even when we left the date We like hugged and he said he was going to reach out soon And then I never heard from anything

It's always so mysterious I feel like sometimes when people are on a date And they're leaving It's just automatic for them to go I'll call you

Whether they mean it or they don't I mean, why can't we step up in the moment And be like, I don't think this worked out

Because I don't think anybody's that brave

But I know we had chemistry

Let's keep it positive So what we're going to do is We're going to call Brian And we'll get the date from his perspective And you'll be on the phone So we'll have you mute But we'll get to that in just one sec Let's play a song, and then we'll do it. Okay, it's Second Date Update, Star 101.3. More variety from the 2000s, the 90s, and today it's Star 101.3. It's Marcus and Corey. We're in the middle of Second Date Update. We've been chatting with Val about our date with Brian.

I mean, it sounded like they had a good time. He even hugged her.

They met on Bumble.

Yeah.

And Val, now let's recap real quick. By your estimation, everything went well?

Yeah, I thought it went great.

Okay. Well. That's usually the way it is. Did you say it's been a full ghost or just like some backpedaling?

Full ghost. Haven't heard a thing.

So okay, let's call him and see how he thinks the date went and mute your phone and let's get started, okay?

Okay.

Hello? Hi, may I speak with Brian, please?

Yeah, this is Brian.

Hi Brian, it's Marcus and Corey from Star 1013

What's up Brian? Hey Good morning

Good morning, I know the show Nice

That's what I was waiting for I can exhale now Wow, okay

Is this the second date update? Oh my gosh

Do you want to join the show? We're just going to make you a member of the show

Are you guys calling about Val? Wow Vale, ok Ok

So Val

This is tremendous

Hi

This is tremendous Hello Ok So we're all adults here Brian How'd the date go?

Yeah, how did the date go in your eyes?

Let me take a breath real quick I'm getting over the fact that I'm actually getting this phone call This is crazy What's up? Because I listen and I talk a lot I listen, I'm in my car and I'm like I'm like, no, no, I'm interacting So me actually being on Is freaking me out, but that's okay So So yeah, I will share I wasn't able to Say anything

the moment, you know, that was a little thrown off. So I just kind of got out of there. But the reason that I didn't call or, you know, catch back up with Val is because the dinner, you know, she was pleasant enough upon first meet, found her very attractive. We had already been talking on, you know, on the app. So I was like, I felt like there was some stuff for us to start talking about and as soon as we started eating dinner it became an interview like like a very rigid interview about everything financial just like you know what my status is what my future is what my plans are I'm here looking for a date and everything for her with I mean it was literally asking me like credit card debt information whether I owned or rented yeah my savings was that you know and she was being trying to be cute about it but she's like so you know do you have is it 40 000 is it 50 000 tell me if i'm close you know like in your savings

okay i don't sound like that brian is that how she talks right that's my that's my best female impression i apologize that was a very rude impression um but i okay so the responsible thing to do to ask somebody I liked you so much that I thought there was potential for us and those are important factors I need to know if in a partner yeah but even though you're coming

across right now like for me it would be much more interesting to know what kind of music you like

or your favorite movie obviously I want to know that stuff too but it's like if we decide to move forward in a relationship I don't want to like I've been in relationships before where like my last boyfriend for example he was a total bum and he mooched off me the entire time and i don't want

that to happen to me again so i just well you didn't mention that but i think there's a lot of overcompensation sometimes with people in general when something happens like someone gets cheated on so now they're super paranoid like you came at me so hard val you can see how

this can be kind of aggressive right i can see that yes but i thought that we were i guess i

thought we were in a different place date four maybe that's what i was gonna say date three

Yeah, okay, but I don't want to waste my time with somebody who doesn't fit those standards at first.

So I'm just going to assume that there is no second date. I mean, not on this side. I'm far more interested in, like, organic to know each other. And then, sure, the money stuff can come into play, but I'm way more interested in how I get along with someone and the chemistry that's romantic, not financial. Fair enough. Hang on. I mean, you can't go that hard that fast. Not on the first date. maybe you're thinking it but save it for like date number four use your inside voice yes i'm saying