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Am I The A**Hole?: Hooked Up with Friend's Ex
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Am I The A**Hole?: Hooked Up with Friend's Ex

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May 20, 2025 | 00:08:30 | Leisure

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And what's going on? Let's see Am I the A-Hole this week.

00:01:38 - 00:01:50 | Speaker 6:

So, hey, I hooked up with a guy that my best friend used to hook up with. And now she's mad at me. And am I an A-Hole for doing this?

00:01:50 - 00:01:53 | Speaker 4:

well of course you are there you go that's am i the a-hole for this week

00:01:53 - 00:02:01 | Speaker 7:

i don't agree that's very cut and dry to me that is very cut and dry to me i hooked up with

00:02:01 - 00:02:13 | Speaker 4:

a person that my friend hooked up with am i an a-hole for doing this allison is on the phone with us how long ago did your friend hooked up hook up with this uh person it was like two years

00:02:13 - 00:02:19 | Speaker 8:

ago okay when you say hook up was it truly they just hooked up one time and that was it or they

00:02:19 - 00:02:30 | Speaker 5:

had an actual relationship relationship well it was more like a situationship they didn't really have a relationship but yeah they hooked up multiple times now did she come home or come

00:02:30 - 00:03:03 | Speaker 4:

to you bragging about how good he was and you had to find out no that's not it at all we just ran into each other and it just happened okay but you knew that they hooked up with each other because you knew him when they were together yes I did okay uh did you guys when you guys ran into each other and it came you know down to you both uh you know fooling around with each other did you guys both acknowledge your friend and say oh this is going to be awkward or did was she not even in

00:03:03 - 00:03:11 | Speaker 5:

your mind I mean she was but I was like they just hooked up it's not like they were in a relationship So I didn't really feel bad about it.

00:03:11 - 00:03:16 | Speaker 4:

Okay. And is this a one-time thing with you in this guy? Or do you think you can have a relationship with him?

00:03:18 - 00:03:23 | Speaker 5:

You know, at this point, I don't know. But I definitely want to see him again.

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Does she know or she doesn't know?

00:03:26 - 00:03:31 | Speaker 5:

No, I told her about it. You did tell her. She was upset. And he was probably mad. Yeah. Okay.

00:03:31 - 00:03:45 | Speaker 8:

I could never just mentally hook up with somebody that one of my friends hooked up with. Because, like, I'd be thinking about her and what it was like with her. I don't, my brain works a weird way.

00:03:45 - 00:04:59 | Speaker 4:

Well, but I would rather, I would rather be, I guess I'd rather be in the position of Allison's friend than be Allison. Because I would feel like I'm the sloppy seconds. And I don't know, Allison, if you ever even thought about that. Guys think about stuff like that. I don't know if girls do. But I, but I honestly would have, eh, I don't know. I don't know if I could get into a relationship with somebody that I knew that my friend was in a relationship with. 844-MOJO-LIVE, 844-665-6548. Am I the a-hole? Is Allison an a-hole for even starting anything with somebody that her friend hooked up with? I changed my opinion on you, Allison. I'm going to say this. If they had a long-term relationship and you got into it with him and fooled around with him and didn't at least acknowledge it to her, you know, before it got to that point, then I would say that you're an a-hole. But if she just fooled around with him, kind of like you just did, I think he's on the market. He's fine. You know, it's like buying a used car. She already had it. She drove it. She's on to something new. You can get on a used car. Yeah. Do you feel like he's a used car?

00:05:00 - 00:05:12 | Speaker 8:

no i hope not i know i feel bad i feel bad doing it because it's more than that so um i don't know i could you could you not a-hole bro she's not an a-hole no you're not you're not

00:05:12 - 00:05:38 | Speaker 7:

an a-hole and i'm going back to what you were saying about how guys think sloppy seconds is a bad thing i don't think that's the case really depend on the nature of the relationship of my friend who you know you've had somebody else's girls yeah for sure like your friends i've been somebody's sloppy seconds oh wow okay what's what's the i mean if if it's just that pink eye no no no if it's just sex then i think you know then it's just sex and then the rules don't apply

00:05:38 - 00:05:43 | Speaker 8:

to sex antonio what's up am i the a-hole do you think allison's an a-hole no and i think my man

00:05:43 - 00:06:05 | Speaker 3:

literally just said exactly what i was getting ready to say i don't think he'd be she should look at it sloppy seconds i think she's just enjoying her life you know the other two weren't in a committed relationship it just sounds like that she's mad about it now because maybe she did have feelings for him and maybe nothing went anywhere so now hearing about her friend hooking up with him maybe she feels some type of way about it that's really all i got from it

00:06:05 - 00:06:10 | Speaker 8:

that's actually a good question allison i wonder if she does have feelings for him

00:06:10 - 00:06:45 | Speaker 4:

and that's why she's upset i just don't think that she does she's in a committed relationship now she loves her boyfriend so why would she care well because they still always do stephanie what's up is allison and they all yeah i do believe so um i think that allison should have asked the person her friend listen like i met up with this guy and we haven't done anything yet but how do you feel about it because in in the end allison does not know how her friend truly felt about what happened between her and that guy but if so allison's friend could have been madly in love with that guy and broke up with him for x y and z and allison had no idea that's a crappy

00:06:45 - 00:06:52 | Speaker 8:

but like allison said she's in a that friend's in a relationship right now boy that would be wrong to the guy that she's in a relationship with.

00:06:52 - 00:07:03 | Speaker 1:

I just still feel like, I kind of agree, I feel like if it's a true friend of yours, everything should be put on the table. There shouldn't be any secrets when it comes to relationships like this.

00:07:03 - 00:07:09 | Speaker 8:

I think sometimes, though, it is hard to put something off and go, let's come back to...

00:07:09 - 00:07:11 | Speaker 1:

No, and I get that part of it, too.

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Taylor?

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Hey, remember Daniel from two years ago? Yeah, I met him. Do you mind if we have sex?

00:07:18 - 00:07:19 | Speaker 8:

Taylor, what's up?

00:07:19 - 00:07:43 | Speaker 5:

hey uh definitely an a-hole sorry but because first of all you ask your friend you know you find out if it's even okay to do that because sometimes girls don't care and have the sloppy seconds but the fact that it was a situation shift there's probably feelings involved there was probably something going on like that that's a line you just don't cross if it's a real friend

00:07:43 - 00:07:49 | Speaker 8:

of yours okay boy the women are definitely calling her out for being an a-hole the guys obviously think different. Shanita, what do you think?

00:07:51 - 00:08:03 | Speaker 5:

Bro, this is so disgusting. Like, where's your self-respect? It's nasty. Just like boys have bros before babes. Like, where's your dignity? Because, like, you nasty. Wow. You nasty, nasty.

00:08:03 - 00:08:05 | Speaker 8:

They're coming down on you, Allison.

00:08:06 - 00:08:10 | Speaker 5:

I'm serious. Like, in the black community, that's just not a thing. That is so...

00:08:10 - 00:08:15 | Speaker 8:

Kevin just says that it is. He's had no problem with it.

00:08:15 - 00:08:17 | Speaker 5:

In the black community, that's like, never.

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Never.

00:08:17 - 00:08:20 | Speaker 7:

Yes, period. Maybe for females. You don't do that.

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It's nasty.

00:08:21 - 00:08:28 | Speaker 8:

Thank you for the call. Baby Leg Jay, let's ask him. You know the black community, Jay. What's going on, Baby Leg Jay? What do you think? Is she an a-hole?

00:08:29 - 00:08:45 | Speaker 2:

No, she's not an a-hole. I gotta say, everybody got sloppy seconds, third, fourth, fifth. She's just in the mix of part of life. That's period. Excuse my friends, but bang who you want and bang who you don't and be the rest alone.

00:08:47 - 00:08:52 | Speaker 8:

we'll see we're finding out that this is definitely a guy versus girl thing yeah this is definitely

00:08:52 - 00:08:59 | Speaker 1:

girls just aim to be a little more transparent in their friendships yes and i think that guys

00:08:59 - 00:09:14 | Speaker 8:

honestly don't care a dick has no conscience let's just put it that way and uh his name was dick hold on marissa says that this happened to you marissa which one were you were you the friend

00:09:14 - 00:09:34 | Speaker 6:

that was once in the relationship no she was but they were like 14 and they really only hung out they never did anything and then when i was 21 i had a baby with him oh wow well you know they were 14 for god's sakes yeah but she was really mad at me for a while and that was her first love

00:09:34 - 00:09:45 | Speaker 8:

like two years yeah that actually is kind of an interesting thing the person that you had your first big crush on and then your friend ends up getting pregnant by him i don't know yeah

00:09:45 - 00:09:51 | Speaker 6:

yeah it was like seven years later though so i figured she'd be over it but

00:09:51 - 00:09:57 | Speaker 8:

that is wild uh yeah hold on tracy rozak oh my gosh

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