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Am I The A**Hole?: Kissed Friend's Ex
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Am I The A**Hole?: Kissed Friend's Ex

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February 4, 2025 | 00:16:07 | Leisure

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Time now on Mojo in the Morning for Am I the A-Hole? this is where we give some advice to a fellow listener and try to help out a situation where you're starting to feel like maybe you did something you shouldn't have if you have an am i the a-hole type of uh problem going on right now maybe you worry about something that you did at work or home whatever it might be if you are listening to us on the iheart app go check out channel 955 on the iheart radio app the reason why we do that is because that's the only one i have a password to uh but uh but we have that the talkback microphone on there and at that talkback microphone you can leave us a message it could basically be hey you're an ad oh yeah yeah i almost said the word a-hole um so if you want to uh tell us a situation that you've done you can do it on the talkback mic here's the one from this morning that we're going to try to test

00:02:42 - 00:02:57 | Speaker 3:

out today the okay so my friend is straight ghosting me after she said that she wouldn't care if i started seeing this guy and now she's just dis-a-frick-in-peared and i just feel so

00:02:57 - 00:03:27 | Speaker 5:

hypocritical interesting so her friend is ghosting her so where's the a-hole part for uh for her that she's the fact that she is uh dating who she's dating uh mad uh okay is she asking of her friend i'm confused let's talk to her yeah her name is jess jess is on so jess what is it that makes you think that you're an a-hole or is or are we judging your friend if your friend's an

00:03:27 - 00:03:58 | Speaker 4:

a hole well i could go either way so oh i i kissed this boy that my friend used to like and like hook up with a few years ago and even though she has like a totally new boyfriend now and she told me that she wouldn't care like at all she's now caring and that she doesn't have feelings for him anymore like she's like ghosting you she's like disappearing

00:03:58 - 00:04:30 | Speaker 5:

let me focus on trying to help you alleviate any guilt is Jess an a-hole for kissing a boy that her friend had a crush on or had feelings for at one point because her friend is in a relationship right now and she's moved on so is she an a-hole and go back again you told her that you were going to do it or you told her that you did do it. So you already kissed him and then you told her or you asked if it's for permission to kiss. Because I don't believe anybody asked permission. Can I kiss the person?

00:04:31 - 00:04:39 | Speaker 4:

Okay. That's fair. Yeah, I kissed this boy and then I told her about it. Okay. Alright. There you go. Totally open.

00:04:40 - 00:04:59 | Speaker 5:

Alright. So let's clarify that because that's a good clarification because honestly I get it. Alright. You kiss the guy. He is a free agent. He is able to be signed by any team Especially your team And she is a taken person She's under contract with somebody You are so dumb I don't know

00:05:00 - 00:05:11 | Speaker 2:

I don't, you know what, I can see where if you're friends with somebody, like there are people that, you know, you may say, oh, wow, well, that was the one person I wish I could have been in a relationship with, but it never happened.

00:05:12 - 00:05:23 | Speaker 3:

I feel like my only kind of thought process with a friend is like, did you say anything negative about this man and what was your intentions on it that caused them to split?

00:05:24 - 00:05:30 | Speaker 2:

No, I mean, were they ever to get, wait, was that girl ever or was she ever together with this guy or was this a crush?

00:05:31 - 00:05:45 | Speaker 4:

No, it was just like a hookup. Like it wasn't even that serious. And I was trying to be forthcoming about it. And she told me she wasn't going to be mad. And now my birthday's coming up and this is just annoying.

00:05:45 - 00:06:08 | Speaker 5:

Can I say though, as the friend, I can understand why she would be upset if you bring, like if you guys are spending time together with your significant others and now you're bringing somebody from her past around but especially with a new guy and you're inviting them him into the inner circle again you could make things very awkward by doing that i agree with you however the friend

00:06:08 - 00:06:16 | Speaker 6:

said it doesn't matter this doesn't bother me go ahead right they're probably so you don't want to

00:06:16 - 00:06:20 | Speaker 3:

look like it matters so you have to play it off like it doesn't matter and it wasn't like she asked

00:06:20 - 00:06:26 | Speaker 5:

permission pre she said hey this happened i disagree with you kev i i don't think you need

00:06:26 - 00:06:51 | Speaker 6:

to say like yes i would be um you know i would be pissed off if you guys started dating but for her to even say like i feel like it might make me kind of uncomfortable but like you i i am not you know the boss of you yeah no that's okay you can tell i have a seven-year-old i'm not the boss of you but like it but for her to give like her you know yeah but that's what i'm saying i don't

00:06:51 - 00:07:03 | Speaker 3:

think you can't go back on it i don't think you disagree with me i think we're saying the same thing i'm not saying you have to like put your foot in the sand but acknowledge if you do feel uncomfortable i think oftentimes people feel uncomfortable and they act like they're perfectly

00:07:03 - 00:07:42 | Speaker 2:

fine with yes which it sounds like this is what her friend did i uh want to know and i'm petty like this who's better looking the guy that you made out with that your friend obviously still has feelings for or the current guy that she's with well i mean the current guy that she's with is pretty nerdy and this guy there's the problem there is the problem right there i do girls here's a question for you jess and for shannon and megan lydia and kp do girls have a girl code because guys we always talk about guy code but do girls have a girl code when it comes to stuff like this

00:07:42 - 00:07:48 | Speaker 6:

like are certain people off limits they do have a girl code see i would say it's more the girl

00:07:48 - 00:08:08 | Speaker 2:

code is you have to have a conversation about it so okay so there's no girl code like you don't do it like like i like i'm not gonna i i would never if if i were a single i would never date kev's ex because I would never do it because he's a friend of mine, although I'd want to, but I...

00:08:08 - 00:08:10 | Speaker 3:

Would you hit some of her friends?

00:08:10 - 00:08:20 | Speaker 2:

Would I hit some of her friends? I've never really met a lot of her friends, but I, you know, but I mean, like, if I was, like, would it bother you if one of your guys starts dating your ex-girl?

00:08:20 - 00:08:20 | Speaker 3:

If it was surreal, yeah.

00:08:21 - 00:08:24 | Speaker 2:

If it was anybody else, no. Because this was a woman that you were planning on marrying. Yeah, it's a bit different.

00:08:24 - 00:08:46 | Speaker 6:

But even still, like, I just feel like it's just, like, if Megan went out with somebody And she was like, yeah, I'm not really feeling him or whatever. And then KP or Lydia was like, oh, he's kind of cute. Five months later, I might want to go out with him. I would hope that the girl code is they say, okay, it didn't work out with you and this guy. Are you going to feel weird if I go out with him? No, I don't want him around.

00:08:47 - 00:08:48 | Speaker 2:

Yeah, you don't want, that's a good point.

00:08:48 - 00:08:53 | Speaker 6:

Okay, and that's fine. But what I'm saying is the girl code to me is at least having a conversation about it.

00:08:53 - 00:09:03 | Speaker 5:

Right, but if I say no to you, then I'm the girl hater who doesn't want you to be happy. And I'm just jealous. and I don't, like, I would be the bad guy in that situation.

00:09:03 - 00:09:04 | Speaker 2:

So you shouldn't even have to say it.

00:09:05 - 00:09:07 | Speaker 5:

That's what I think. Is it an expiration date? Okay.

00:09:07 - 00:09:12 | Speaker 3:

You brought up, like, five months. If it's two years from now, is it okay then? No. Or is it just the close time proximity?

00:09:12 - 00:09:16 | Speaker 2:

All right, let me go to calls here real quick. I don't know. It depends on what the length of the contract is.

00:09:17 - 00:09:17 | Speaker 3:

Oh, yeah.

00:09:17 - 00:09:19 | Speaker 2:

And if you're...

00:09:19 - 00:09:20 | Speaker 3:

Under player option or team option.

00:09:20 - 00:09:25 | Speaker 2:

Yeah, exactly. Otherwise, you get traded to the Lakers out of the blue. What's up, Kat? You there, Kat?

00:09:26 - 00:09:34 | Speaker 1:

Yes, I'm here. There is a girl code, and you cannot sleep with or talk to anyone else your girlfriend has already talked to.

00:09:34 - 00:09:39 | Speaker 2:

What about simple kisses? Simple kisses. This is a kiss. That's what Jess did. She kissed him.

00:09:39 - 00:09:51 | Speaker 1:

It was only a kiss. No, it doesn't matter. If my girlfriend talked to some other guy, you don't even talk to them. You excuse yourself from the room. Why would you want anything?

00:09:52 - 00:09:54 | Speaker 2:

She's an a-hole, then, you're saying, right?

00:09:55 - 00:10:00 | Speaker 1:

You're an a-hole because your girlfriend was being nice and telling you it's not going to matter. But it...

00:10:00 - 00:10:05 | Speaker 5:

does it shows your true colors there's plenty of other fish in the sea go pick another one

00:10:05 - 00:10:20 | Speaker 3:

i don't know i gotta be honest i see these guys dating these days and those fish seem awfully ratten uh what's up mo you're not ratten you're not ratten what's up mo i hate to say it but just

00:10:20 - 00:10:36 | Speaker 2:

the a-hole yes and you don't mess with no if that's your girl you don't mess i don't care is 50 years down the line. You don't go mess with your girl's ex because you've been eyeing it all the long even when it was not my ex.

00:10:37 - 00:10:37 | Speaker 3:

Yeah.

00:10:37 - 00:10:38 | Speaker 4:

Say it louder for the people in the back.

00:10:39 - 00:10:53 | Speaker 3:

We should, by the way, Lydia, we should see if anybody's ever gotten with somebody else's ex and done more than just messed around but actually married or whatever. That's a good call here. Joe, what's up? Thoughts? Is Jess an a-hole?

00:10:54 - 00:10:55 | Speaker 1:

You say what, Mojo?

00:10:56 - 00:11:05 | Speaker 3:

This is called Am I the a-hole, So I'm wondering, is Jess, who you just heard from, she's the one that sent us the talk back and we just talked to, is she an a-hole for kissing this guy?

00:11:06 - 00:11:16 | Speaker 1:

So, like, what Kev said was like, if it's just something long-term, all bets are off. But if it's something short-term, hey, none, all hands on dick.

00:11:17 - 00:11:19 | Speaker 6:

Which she said it was just all hookups.

00:11:19 - 00:11:20 | Speaker 3:

Yeah, so it's just a kiss, yes.

00:11:21 - 00:11:24 | Speaker 6:

I do think that figures into it, though. I don't?

00:11:24 - 00:11:31 | Speaker 4:

i um i've tried to set up my nexus i know i'm weird i agree

00:11:31 - 00:11:40 | Speaker 3:

tammy what's going on is uh do we have an a-hole here um no i think it really depends on the

00:11:40 - 00:12:19 | Speaker 5:

situation if the person has like a long-standing relationship and you know depending on how they ended if you are a true adult and you put your feelings aside like and you're already with somebody new and you've already had that conversation because you are a good friend if you've had it then there should be no reason why you can't be adults and get along and you know if you do have unreliable feelings there then you know that's kind of like something that she has to work through but at the same time if it's her birthday she should be able to be like okay you know i can put my feelings aside for one day yes i agree to this so you can't really renege and say

00:12:19 - 00:12:36 | Speaker 4:

oh no not after the fact because what you're saying here is i'm putting a new man above the feelings of my friend because my friend should just get over it not necessarily she does have

00:12:36 - 00:12:49 | Speaker 5:

a boyfriend though a new one so if she is in a new relationship and she hasn't said hey this makes me uncomfortable and they both agreed on it then it shouldn't be a problem it is petty though

00:12:49 - 00:13:03 | Speaker 3:

it is petty that she's not calling her back or talking to her that's like really passive aggressive of her to do well what is she supposed to say i think that you just say hey i'm upset by it i'm i was wrong you know okay when i said just be honest i'll give you that that's fair that's

00:13:03 - 00:13:08 | Speaker 4:

fair but i don't think her feelings are invalid or she's not being adult because her feelings are

00:13:08 - 00:13:29 | Speaker 3:

hurt sometimes people's feelings are invalid as far as i'm concerned we gotta be honest Sandra, let's not be nice. Sandra's a big one here. Ready? Am I the a-hole? And I'm going to save your, whether you think she's an a-hole or not, until you tell us. You married your best friend's ex-boyfriend?

00:13:30 - 00:13:30 | Unknown:

Let's go.

00:13:31 - 00:14:36 | Speaker 6:

One of my friends. You hook her. No, it was an innocent situation. and my husband of now had a crush on one of my friends, and we all kind of met at the similar time. And my friend ended up, you know, not, like, kind of had a little fling, nothing, maybe like a simple kiss, that kind of thing, but nothing major. And then she went off to the Navy a couple months later. My husband now, we kind of, like, reconnected, and we are married almost 20 years now. and it's been amazing and you never know what god has for you i think it just you just gotta be patient and i knew he was a good guy i wasn't really interested in him while they were like kind of liking each other but i liked his character and he was a good man and i you know i had didn't really like him at the time but i had a you know interest but a couple months down the road it worked out great and we had two kids and married and her loss is your game thanks i

00:14:36 - 00:14:44 | Speaker 3:

i like this and what's your relationship with your uh friend um well we you know like we were

00:14:44 - 00:15:00 | Speaker 6:

friends a little bit over the years but she had her own yeah no she well she had a she it was a little bit she had a little crazy of a life even before when we were friends and so she just wasn't she's a horrible person No, no, no.

00:15:00 - 00:15:01 | Speaker 9:

You're very kind.

00:15:02 - 00:15:07 | Speaker 6:

I like it. What is your relationship with your friend? What friend?

00:15:08 - 00:15:09 | Speaker 7:

Mojo. Yes.

00:15:09 - 00:15:10 | Speaker 6:

I got another good call.

00:15:10 - 00:15:11 | Speaker 7:

Let's go to the call.

00:15:11 - 00:15:22 | Speaker 6:

Are you sure? I'll save mine. Save your question because are you going to ask me if I'm going to set Shirelle up on dates? Because I'm going to. We're playing the dating game. I'm asking about Chelsea. Oh, you want to date Chelsea?

00:15:22 - 00:15:23 | Speaker 7:

No, let's answer the call.

00:15:23 - 00:15:26 | Speaker 6:

Hold on. We'll circle back. Haley, you there?

00:15:28 - 00:15:28 | Speaker 3:

Yeah, what's up?

00:15:28 - 00:15:33 | Speaker 6:

Haley lost a friend. Is that right?

00:15:34 - 00:15:53 | Speaker 3:

Yeah, I lost my best friend because she went behind my back and fooled around with someone I prior to fooled around with a lot. And I would always tell her about them. And I found out that she slept with him and lied about it to me for two weeks.

00:15:54 - 00:16:04 | Speaker 6:

You know what's wrong, by the way? You sold that guy so great to her that all her vagina was tingling every time you talked about how great he was.

00:16:05 - 00:16:11 | Speaker 3:

Well, I would say about he wasn't the nicest person to me. So I would always talk about that, too. And it's just.

00:16:11 - 00:16:14 | Speaker 6:

But you talked about how great he was in bed, probably. Right.

00:16:15 - 00:16:19 | Speaker 3:

Yeah, I did describe him down there pretty accurately.

00:16:21 - 00:16:37 | Speaker 6:

You know what you don't do? You don't do this. You know how we tell our friends, oh, my God, I went to this restaurant the other night. I had the greatest meal ever. What you do when you do that is now you just pass that meal along to your friend. They're going to go to that restaurant, too. You don't do it with guys.

00:16:39 - 00:16:47 | Speaker 3:

Yeah, well, I didn't know that that would happen, and it sucks because they're nice to be really close. You didn't help him. I feel like he was never truly my friend.

00:16:48 - 00:16:54 | Speaker 6:

By the way, I loved how you told her how great he was down there. I want to know what was so great about him down there. Okay.

00:16:54 - 00:16:56 | Speaker 3:

Uh, he was pretty big though.

00:16:56 - 00:16:58 | Speaker 6:

Really? We like him big, huh?

00:16:58 - 00:17:01 | Speaker 3:

Yeah. Yeah. What are you doing?

00:17:01 - 00:17:11 | Speaker 6:

It's funny. I have to be honest with you. When I go to a restaurant and they have the four ounce filet and the eight ounce filet, I always go for the eight ounce filet. You went for the eight ounce filet, didn't you, Haley?

00:17:12 - 00:17:13 | Speaker 5:

Yeah.

00:17:13 - 00:17:13 | Speaker 6:

Yeah.

00:17:13 - 00:17:16 | Speaker 5:

I feel like all these senses need to be right, lady.

00:17:18 - 00:17:22 | Speaker 6:

I want to know where Kevin was going with his question for Chelsea. Where's your question? Go ahead, Kevin.

00:17:22 - 00:17:32 | Speaker 7:

I don't know. No, I mean, we're on the topic of, you know, friends hooking up with friends, exes. If you and Chelsea broke up, are there any of her friends that you could, like, potentially see or so forth?

00:17:32 - 00:17:33 | Speaker 6:

Oh, you're going there?

00:17:34 - 00:17:34 | Speaker 7:

Hold on a second.

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It's like the Petey Pablo song.

00:17:37 - 00:17:47 | Speaker 5:

List them. I think the more interesting question is the other way around. Does Mojo have any friends than Chelsea? Chelsea, by the way.

00:17:47 - 00:17:53 | Speaker 6:

Poor Chelsea would have nobody to pick from out of my friends. It would be such a sad day for her.

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