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Moto Casino. America's social casino. Right now, it is time for Am I the A-Hole? If you think something that you have done makes you possibly an a-hole, let us call you out. Send us your message through our talkback mic, which is on the iHeartRadio app. Hit that mic, tell us what the situation is and we'll get you on the show so i'm wondering if i'm in the wrong here because my

husband had a big job interview last week and he basically slept through it and set his alarm and slept through it and then he's upset with me because he said i should have woken him up and gotten him up and gotten him ready for it so i just want your opinions on it thanks

wow that's actually an interesting one so he's saying that you should have been his uh his wake up call um do you think she's an a-hole for not waking him up was she up though i don't know let's let's we ask her yeah look i got questions let's me too brooklyn are you there hey i'm here good morning so what happened he slept through his alarm oh he didn't even set an alarm and that

was the wild part about it is he just like raw dog sleep the night before on a big interview and just, like, thought, oh, I guess, like, I work from home. So I was up before him and was downstairs in my office working, and he just didn't set an alarm, didn't get ready, and missed this interview that he was really looking forward to, I guess. I mean, he acted like he was.

Okay, so this is interesting. So you actually were up already, and he kept sleeping, and he was late for it. But did you know that he had the interview?

Yeah, I didn't know he had the interview.

Did he tell you, can you please wake me up?

No, he didn't tell me that. And, you know, sure, I could have gone up there and woke him up and gotten him ready for it. But I'm not his mom. Like, he needs to have responsibility and be able to set his alarm and get up and go to this interview if he, like, wants to provide for us and our family. So I was working hard down at my job. Like, the least he could have done is just gotten his butt up and gone to this interview. See?

That sounds spiteful. But I... Go ahead.

ask your questions before I say what I think but when you say that when you say that you knew he had the interview did you know that it was a morning interview and he needed to be up for it yeah I did and you didn't you know know that he was still sleeping and he wasn't up

I mean I didn't hear him get up I didn't I was downstairs in my office like I didn't hear him get up I didn't hear him like leave for the interview but I didn't know maybe it got pushed back i was doing my own thing i was working he should have been getting up and working okay

all right so so i okay i i'll let you shannon to say well i'm shaking my head because i i just

think that it is the kind thing to do to go hey you have that interview this morning i'm noticing you're not up you know you're talking about how you are working hard you know to provide for your family well that he's trying to get a different job to provide to provide for your family so i feel like you're shooting yourself in the foot here too i i don't know why you wouldn't have taken 20 seconds to go upstairs and go hey aren't you supposed to be up for that interview

like that's no skin off your back to do that yeah but how's he going to get to the job every single day if he doesn't set an alarm and have the responsibility to get up and go do it i'm not

She don't love this man.

Well, now you're going pretty drastic. I'm just saying, any woman that's going to prevent money from coming in the house, she don't love this, man.

I just think I want the best for my husband. And if I know that he's up for a job that he really, really wants, and I think, uh-oh, something's wrong, I don't hear him moving around up there, I want to make sure that he is up for the interview.

But she was doing her job. This isn't your son.

This isn't your kid that you're trying to teach a lesson on responsibility.

I get that, but she's doing her job. How is she supposed to know if you're up or not?

Oh, my God, you get up to go to the bathroom. You could get up and just go check and say, hey, are you up?

You could hear this in her voice. This is bigger than just a job day.

Brooklyn.

I think this was strategic to teach him a lesson.

Were you busy that day and could not go upstairs and just check on him?

I work from home. Like, sure, I could have gone up and checked on him, But I guess to me, it's the principle of the matter. And like, I'm not his mom. He needs to like figure it out. He needs to figure out how to, I mean, why do you think he's looking for a job in the first place? He's got to be able to keep a job.

What I'm saying is your decision, but this is, it's for the good of the family. And so that's where I think it, it is, it, it, it was part of your responsibility to go make sure it's not just for his, his own good. This is for the good of your family. If he gets this job, right? You said that at the beginning.

But I don't think she intentionally didn't wake him up.

Oh, it definitely sounds like that is the case.

Ben, what are your thoughts? Go ahead, Brooklyn. Say what you're going to say.

That's a red flag right there to me. Like, I mean, that's just ammunition for her to use against him. Well, you didn't go to your job interview when you're supposed to wake up. Be a supportive wife.

Yeah. Brooklyn, are you not a supportive wife?

Be a supportive husband. Be a supportive husband and set an alarm. Everybody does it every single day all over the world. We're all adults. I set an alarm. I was up like two hours before he had to be downstairs working. I had my headset on. I was clickety-clacking at my computer. All he had to do was set an alarm. How long y'all been married?

No, that's spiteful. You're a red flag, 100%.

How long have you been married, Brooklyn? We've been married eight years.

He's about to be a rat. No, come on. We're not going that far, are we? Shelly, what do you think, Shelly?

oh my god so to me I think she is a big a-hole and I totally agree with what Shannon said because you guys are supposed to be a team and whether he forgot to set it my fiance works from home too and if my alarm didn't happen to go off or maybe I forgot to set it I would expect him to come in there because you're a team and it's to make your family better yeah regardless of his situation or not and you know i don't know i'm a teammate and i want my fiance to be a teammate back and that is good or bad you know when you're married it's for good or bad and i i would say

that's i would say that's the case if she didn't have her job going on downstairs where she just walked in goes hey oh my god aren't you supposed to be up but she shouldn't have to be his alarm that day thinking I mean what is she going to do you know lay out his clothes for him too

it's not that deep bro it is she could have walked them serious and say hey are you going to your job like that's literally all she had to do

so we're here at the station and if you're

we do this to Kev sorry to use you as the example but if no if we don't no I haven't but I'm in the studio when Lydia calls you and to say hey are you awake and on your way like we check on you because you're part of our team like that's like three times a week kev shannon okay that's not true two times a week listen

but shannon you're here at this at the station and uh your husband's at home and you know he's got an appointment early in the morning are you going to call him and specifically say hey are you up or are you going to just say i'll assume he is going to be up well i i would assume but i

also don't have eyes on him or ears on him at home so that's a huge assumption downstairs yeah but she knows if he comes down to go to the interview or not aaron what are your thoughts on

this well i say let's all take a step back um and realize that there's probably more going on yeah she's not willing to wake him up it's probably because he's been doing that crap for a while and he's been the one that's forgetful and he needs to be held accountable by himself instead of the wife having to wake him up or change his clothes or make him dinner is there

truth to that at all thank you so so he is a chronic uh irresponsible person i mean it sounds

like it i mean i just went through this with my wife i was in his shoes i had to get my crap together and make sure that i was up in the morning and i was going to my interviews and getting that job to support our family and that's on him the wife is sounds like she's doing her job she's taking care of her side of things and he needs to wake up and do his is that thank you i

agree i'm the wife and i agree because i'm not trying to be an a-hole i'm not trying to like you know of course i want him to get this job i want him to like take care of our family but like this is a repeated pattern and the repeated pattern that i bring to the family is that i'm up doing what i need to do he needs to do that too and yes this interview would have been great but at the end of the day like for the betterment of our marriage because you're saying it's not going to last much longer he needed to learn this lesson then he needed to get this job

so how did he react how did he react when he realized he didn't he's mad at me he explains me

he thinks it's my fault that he did it instead of taking responsibility for the fact that he didn't set an alarm he didn't prepare for it he blames me that i didn't wake him up that i didn't

mother him that's not your i would now i think he's wrong on that it's you know it's not your reasoning or your fault that he didn't get the job right i mean it's his but what's up michelle

hi yeah hi i find her very selfish and i find that it it was wrong that she did not go up there and at least check to see if she he he was up or not my husband works midnight it's like a second shift midnight and we have a five-year-old autistic son i have to wake him up all the time it makes me upset it makes me angry but at least he's up and functioning and ready to go for the day then she's upset he didn't get the job you cannot be upset he didn't get the job if you did not help him out i mean it's our it is you did have a responsibility to go up there and at least make sure he was up in my personal opinion so she i find she needs to really step away from all the

work that she's doing to make sure that her child is up for school seconds yeah she needed to make

take five seconds out of her day especially if she's now upset he didn't get the job she can't

be upset she didn't get the job she's not in the basement doing surgery by the way if this job interview was the time that he's gonna actually have to be going to work every day now she's becomes his hotel wake-up call every single day having to make sure that this guy's ass is out of bed uh what's up kelly hi what do you think about this am i the a-hole brooklyn's on with us

the wife who didn't wake up her husband because deep down she's tired of his crap and wants to mark something else off of her checklist as to why it didn't work out because me and my son's dad were together seven years we split up a year and a half ago still is best for our son we don't get along all the time but he wakes up for work your phone's bad your phone your phone keeps cutting

out on you uh wait yeah uh so so so wait so you're so your son's dad your ex now so you guys broke up he was one of these guys he was one of these guys that you had to always make sure that he was

up no he makes me make sure i'm up every day okay pretty much pretty much every day he comes out out of his room because we don't have the same room and wakes me up she just wanted something else to mark on her checklist as to why it didn't work out deep down wait so you think that she was vindictive and did this on purpose i mean yeah it sounds like she wants something else to mark on her list because deep down she's she's over him not providing and being the husband that she

wants i guess wait but but she's together with him do you guys have a happy marriage brooklyn

yeah i mean of course i'd be happier if he got his craft together and i didn't have to baby him

so so do you think do you think that this job would have bettered him or do you think that this

job it's just more work for you would better him is if he took responsibility and and and grew up in this area of his life and this job is indicative of a lot of other things in his life that he needs to take responsibility of.

This ain't gonna lie.

So I'm not mad he didn't get the job. I'm mad that he didn't set an alarm and then had an expectation that I was gonna care for him. I'm caring for all the other things. The least you can do is wake your ass up and put on your shoes and go to the job.

Nikki, what do you think, Nikki? Am I the a-hole?

No, I don't. I think everybody's coming down on her a little bit too hard because it's two sides to every story. The fact is that, yeah, it seems like she's tired that doesn't mean she don't like him that just means that she's tired you understand that

um two it might it i mean the thing is like she wants to stop being his mother she's looking at him it makes you look unattractive it what if she's sick what if she can't make it to work herself one day and you're depending on her to wake you up like come on man like everybody has to pull their own weight we're grown and i don't know if they have children or not but um you know it's stressful already and then you adding stress to it and then uh you're trying to blame me and then i'm supposed to look at you like you're big daddy like come on man all right you know it's not gonna go like that i'm not gonna look at you like that i don't love the blame that he

blamed her for not getting the job like i don't love that part of it but and i also don't blame

I don't like that, you know, I think it was a miss, you know, moment. The guy overslept. He should have been up. He wasn't. It's not her responsibility to go upstairs and make sure that you're up. She doesn't know. She's got her job to do. And I think that pointing fingers like this, hopefully the guy learns. She does know.

You can't say that she didn't know. She knew. She admitted she knew. She was not awake. It's not a responsibility.

She was going to let him sleep. When you love someone, you go beyond. That's not love right there, bro.

Brooklyn, did you purposely let him sleep through his alarm?

Or you just didn't know that he wasn't up?

Tell the truth. I wasn't like, oh, it's 7.57. His alarm should be going off right now. I'm not going to go wake him up. It wasn't like that. It was like, I'm doing work. It's like, you know, 15, 20 minutes past the time he should have been up. And I'm, like, clocking in my head, like, is he up? Is he going to this interview? But at the same time, like, I'm thinking maybe they moved it, maybe this or whatever. And then hours, you know, an hour later, he comes rolling down. She let an hour go by.

Kat, last comment. What do you think, Kat?

I think she's the a-hole. Truly, what if he was sick or maybe he, like, what if he was dead wake up in the morning yeah exactly what if there's a lot of what ifs could be's and maybes but if that was my spouse and he was lazy or wasn't doing anything i would have enough courtesy to say hey babe you all right um your alarm's going off yeah well you didn't set your alarm why did you know it's time to get up and then i would have gone back to my room or my office and done my job five seconds simple courtesy she don't love the guy she's being spiteful

By the way, that's so mean to say that she doesn't love the guy just because she didn't wake him up in this one particular incident. What woman wants to be the only breadwinner in the entire house and doesn't want this guy getting himself a job? That's why you wake him up.

Well, I get it, but she's got other stuff to do. She's got responsibilities to do. Come on, bro. We all watch TV when we work from home. Stop playing.

What are you talking about? Why, are you thinking that she's not, you don't think she's working? Brooklyn, he's calling you out saying that all you do is watch TV at home. Is that true?

Whatever. You come to my house and hold down everything, and then you don't want to hold down one more thing.

Exactly. All right, Brooklyn. Well, thank you. I apologize for all these people attacking you. I don't think you're an a-hole.

Well, thank you. I guess that's why I was calling to find out, and I hear y'all, but I'm bitter about it, but okay.

All right. Take care. Hope it works out. I like the people, by the way, that are saying that she is the wife Karen. And by the way, Brooklyn, if he needs a job, we're looking. We're looking right here. I don't know if you know that.

He ain't going to wake up. He's got to wake up real early. Yeah.

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