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Am I The A**Hole? Should She Tell Her Friend
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Am I The A**Hole? Should She Tell Her Friend

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July 7, 2026 | 00:10:39 | Leisure

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It is time now for Am I the A-Hole on the Mojo in the Morning Show. If you have a situation in your life where you think, oh my God, I think I'm an A-Hole, we will judge for you go hit that talk back microphone it's the little microphone button that's on the iheart radio app under our radio station and then send us one of these hey mojo

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so there's this guy that my friend's been talking to and the thing is i have hooked up with him before so i'm wondering if i would be an a-hole if i didn't tell her about it

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uh let's talk to katie here katie what's going on how you doing hey i'm good how are you good so your friend is just talking to this guy or initially in like a beginning part of a

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relationship with this guy well they're just talking right now but i know where it's going somewhere for sure like she really likes him and i think he likes her and how long had it has it

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been since you've been in a relationship with him and how how big of a relationship were you in with

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oh my god it was nothing i mean it well i won't say that we hooked up basically for like a month but that was it we didn't have like a okay like a relationship huh yeah wow okay and how long ago was that that was a while ago that was like a year ago and i don't know a year is not a while a year ago is is like yesterday well yeah i mean it's it wasn't it wasn't yesterday really but it

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was like just a year ago um so you noticed that these two are liking each other has she been

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talking to you about him i mean obviously yes yeah yeah does he know your friends with

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her um yes that's my question like as a man would the guy not say something like if you were the guy would you mean like would you not say to the new girl like hey that's your friend like just so you

00:03:55 - 00:04:17 | Speaker 10:

know we used to talk or something um i've been in both situations where and i agree it is better if your current knows who they've dealt with because you never want to make her look like a fool right in front of the other girl or have that other girl give her the aha i got you moment and she looking at you like you didn't tell me you was with her i was gonna

00:04:17 - 00:04:32 | Speaker 12:

say also they're friends so like she should have her back and say like just so you have like the full story and you don't because could you imagine if she finds out later yeah And like you just said, then you're like, why did you not ever tell me?

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Who's it better hearing it from? I think it's better hearing it from your friend.

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Oh, friend.

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Yeah.

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Really? You say a million percent, I would want to hear it from my friend. Okay.

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844-MOJO-LIVE or text is 95500. Do you think that Katie is an a-hole because she hooked up with the guy that her friend is now starting to date? Like, do you think that she's an a-hole for not saying anything about that? Um...

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How was he, by the way, Katie?

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Oh, my God.

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I'm not saying anything about that.

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Obviously good if it lasted for that long.

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But I've got to tell you something. Did I miss how long have they been talking? This is like in the new stages, you said?

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Yeah, the new stage. I mean, like a couple, like a couple, like actually it's been like a couple.

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Okay, so you need to tell her sooner than later. What are you waiting for? I feel like it's already, I feel like she's already going to be upset.

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That's how I feel now. Like the worst, like it gets worse, like the longer I wait. For sure. Do it before they bake cookies.

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They've been together for a couple months. That's what I'm saying. It's too late.

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Let me ask this question of you guys. Would you date somebody that dated one of your friends or fooled around with one of your friends?

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No, I couldn't.

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Not and then serious. I think guys would have a harder time, but I wonder if girls would too. Would you guys?

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I think it would, like my answer right off the bat would be no. However, if I'm being really honest, I think it would depend like, you know, if if they dated that person like in high school or something, you'd be like, OK.

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And like how close of a friend was it? Like if it's like one of my best friends, heck no. But if it's like someone. Yeah, there are some factors there.

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Lexi, am I the a-hole? Is Katie an a-hole for not telling her friend that she one time hooked up with the guy that she's with?

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i think she is because just listening to it it kind of sounds like she hated a little bit because why why are you waiting until she start deeply talking to him and now she'd like him and then you still not gonna say nothing you're gonna wait for him to say what if you already told him that's what i'm saying i mean you said months you should have you

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should have been calling us for this months ago.

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I guess, yeah, I mean, I see your point. I just, like, chickened out a little bit, and now I'm, like, having trouble getting it going. So now I feel like I feel like I just need it. And now you're on the radio.

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She just brought up a good point, though. What if he already told her, and she's waiting on you to say something? That would be crazy.

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I don't think he did. I don't think he did.

00:07:10 - 00:07:12 | Speaker 1:

Rochelle, what's up? Am I the a-hole? It's Katie

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an a-hole good morning guys good morning so i don't think that you're an a-hole however i think that you definitely need to tell her before he does and tell her exactly how you told us it was for about a month it didn't mean nothing to me it didn't mean nothing to him it was what it was i didn't want to say anything because i i didn't know it was going to get serious but this and even if he didn't tell you it's because it didn't mean nothing to neither

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one of us that kind of comes off actually really good to do that yeah okay i just want to let you

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know if you can you know that's how i did mine yeah you did exactly just so you know it was a one-time thing but i know y'all know each other y'all work together whoa uh i guess well there was some shock but they appreciated the fact that i told them and Because, again, they don't want to walk into a room and somebody has not necessarily a one-up on them, but they just don't. They want to be aware of the situation.

00:08:14 - 00:08:18 | Speaker 5:

She continued talking to you after that? Oh, for sure. Yeah, we was locked in.

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What's up, Alex? It's Mojo in the morning. Am I the a-hole?

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Hey, I don't think she's the a-hole. I mean, she hooked up with her before her friend knew her. If she's trying to get back with the guy or does stuff with the guy, yeah, that would make her an a-hole. but she should absolutely tell her friend and be like, Hey, just so you know, we used to hook up. We're not a thing anymore. We won't be a thing again, but she should tell her friend because it's going to come out eventually.

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Hey, do you even talk to this guy on a casual basis anymore, Katie, or you guys just completely?

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No, not. I mean, no, not at all.

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Okay. So, so it's, at least it's something where you're not in his life still. Ashley, what's up?

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Do they hang out as a group?

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Well, that was, I asked her if they hang out, but it sounds like they don't. But do you guys ever go out as a group together, like you and your friend and this guy?

00:09:12 - 00:09:18 | Speaker 9:

No, I mean, we haven't yet. But, like, if they, you know, if they get serious, you never know. So, like, but we have not yet.

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Why? What do you want to say about that, Ashley?

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But, like, he knows she's, like, they're friends, right?

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Yeah. You're saying that he knows that. Does he know that you're friends with her, Katie?

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yeah he knows he knows um have you guys had like a conversation together when you're going to tell this girl or like are you just equally avoiding it no i think we're equally avoiding it but now like the more i'm hearing about this i'm like i better say something that's how i'm starting to feel i think i think you should say something because realistically would you want her to say something to you?

00:10:00 - 00:10:07 | Speaker 3:

yeah totally i absolutely would then i would sit down and have a conversation

00:10:07 - 00:10:13 | Speaker 7:

yeah how would you take it if you found out that your friend was with the guy that you want to be

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with i mean i don't know ashley sorry ashley yeah i don't know i think i think it might be a hard pill to swallow depending on how deep in i would be with him but at the same time it was also a

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year ago so yeah so it was over and done with right um monique what do you want to say yes

00:10:34 - 00:10:58 | Speaker 10:

i don't think i don't think she's a hole but i probably would have waited just to make sure they were serious i wouldn't have made a month like she did now but i would wait a couple of weeks maybe a month once she starts saying that they're getting serious and i'm like hey look we did hook up back in the day i didn't tell you immediately because i didn't know where it was going but now that i see it's going in that direction i just wanted you to know that we did I had a thing. It was a thing. Nothing serious. I wouldn't have even waited that long.

00:10:59 - 00:11:10 | Speaker 9:

As soon as my friend's like, hey, I met this guy, shows me a picture of his social media, I'd be like, I actually hooked up with him. I did. Immediately. I would.

00:11:11 - 00:11:20 | Speaker 10:

I get that, but then what if they like, that might have turned her off and they might be like the perfect couple. It might be Cinderella, Chris Star. Great point.

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Great point, but also if that turned her off that says something about like you know that she wouldn't she wasn't interested it wasn't meant to be i don't know darian you had a question yeah so i was curious because

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how long have they been friends for because if that was the case why didn't a friend know when they were together for that month great point she said they were just hooking up though yeah do you guys never tell your friends about you know the people that you guys hook up with I mean, I guess depending on how close they are as friends, though.

00:11:55 - 00:12:00 | Speaker 7:

Yeah. No, I got some best friends that don't know what I'll be doing. And Katie, you did not share this with her.

00:12:02 - 00:12:05 | Speaker 11:

No, I mean, we've gotten closer since then anyway. Okay.

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All right. That makes sense. All right. Am I the a-hole? I don't know what you're going to do, but you have any idea? Are you going to tell her?

00:12:12 - 00:12:21 | Speaker 11:

Yeah, I think I came on here for a good reason. You guys have, like, made it clear I need to do it. Sooner the better.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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All right. Thanks for the call.

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