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Am I the A-Hole? If you want to know, if you are, you've got to go to Channel 955 on the iHeartRadio app. That's our Detroit radio station, our mothership. And click on the little microphone button, which is the talkback mic, and send us your Am I the A-Hole talkback. Put your phone number at the end of it so that we can get you on the show.

I'm wondering if I am the a-hole because I have photographic proof of my ex cheating on his new girl, and I really want to send it to her.

Oh, that's an interesting one. Well, let me ask the question to Andrea right now who's on the phone with us for Am I the A-hole. Andrea, why is this person your ex? Did it end badly?

Oh, yes. Absolutely. He cheated on me, so this is why I feel quite passionate about presenting the evidence that I have.

Okay, so here's something interesting. I want to know, by the way, am I the a-hole? Is she an a-hole for if she sends the proof that she has of her ex cheating to the girl that he's now cheating with? How did you get this? How do you know that this is out there?

uh it was a friend of mine was out and i got a text saying you're never gonna guess who's here and you're also never gonna guess who he's with and sent me the photo i saw it and i was like okay i see he's still up to his old ways because that is not her girlfriend okay so

question for you because this is going to determine my answer do you know like are you friends or friendly with the girl that he is currently dating no i'm not and that's why like

we don't we don't really know each other i think we know of each you know i think she knows yeah that i'm the ex and you know obviously i know who she is but there's no connection there but to me

She's still in love

Since I went through this with this guy It feels like I'm not being a girl's girl If I don't But also That has nothing to do with it

Y'all try to hide behind that And look I don't know you

I ain't trying to be disrespectful at all, but you sound hurt. Like, this is not your business. Move on.

Amen to that. I think you are. I do think you're the a-hole if you get yourself involved. And I also think you're doing yourself a disservice because then it just keeps you, like, sucked into that cycle of anger and resentment and hurt. And you're still in this weird way attached to him. Just move on.

Oh, I totally disagree.

This is not a girl code situation.

Oh, I totally disagree. And if you don't want to get wrapped up or involved in it, which is probably the best and healthiest way to handle it, create a fake profile and send it to her. Oh, my God.

No, absolutely.

I would want to know. I would want to know. First of all, my friends are out there watching him, right? If they run into him somewhere publicly, we're all going to be talking about it, by the way. If you ever run into my friends, I'm going to get a photo of you, and I'm going to get a recap of what is going on, whether we ended amicably or not. But I would want to know if I was the girl, if my boyfriend was cheating on me. Absolutely. Even if it was from his ex.

especially if you don't know if this is the girl that he cheated on you with and she was a part of

it well that's no andrea you know for the fact that this is not the girl that he cheated with

or or is this no no it's not it's not because i know that's why i that's why i have you know this feeling of like i would like to help her because she's gonna end up being a victim just

All right, 844-MOJO-LIVE, 844-665-6548 is Andrea an a-hole for wanting to send video of her ex cheating to the girl that he's now with. Lauren wants to comment. What's up, Lauren? What are your thoughts? Hi, Lauren. Lauren, are you there?

Come on, Lauren.

It sounds like she's trying, but she's not like, it's the Bluetooth thing. I don't know what kind of car company makes that Bluetooth, but I know it ain't one of our big three. Hold on. Wait in a second. Sloan. What's up, Sloan? Hi.

Hello. Hey, what's going on? It's Sloan. Can you hear me?

I got you, Sloan. I can hear you. Yes. Loud and clear. What car are you driving?

Kia.

Oh, see? There you go.

I'm on the regular phone.

I love it.

But I was calling to say she's definitely the a-hole. There's no girl code involved here. She's not trying to do this to make up for anything. She's doing this because she wants to hurt him, and she wants to hurt that new girlfriend because he hurt her.

Yeah. So you don't think that if there was good reason of why she was doing it, then it would be okay, but you think that she still has vindictive reasons?

100%. I think that if this was something where, you know, she truly felt bad, then sure, go ahead. But this isn't. You can tell by the whole context of it. The friend texting her, look who, you know, look who's out with who and all of that. This is vindictive, mean girl, let's hurt them all stuff.

Oh, I disagree. I could not disagree with you more. If anything, it's a friend trying to be like, see, it's not you. He does this to everybody.

Anna, what are your thoughts?

I think that she should send the picture to the ex-cheating boyfriend.

Send it to him saying, I know that you did this.

Yeah, make him look like the idiot he is.

No, have zero contact with him. You are done with that relationship, and that's why I say do nothing. It makes him sweat.

Dominique, what do you think?

I think she is being an a-hole only because hurt people hurt people. and that happened to her and what happens when the doctor is going to come to the light. She's going to find out eventually. So that's not her problem moving on from it and yeah.

Let me ask this question. Is her friend an a-hole that sent her the video? Because she's over this guy and all of a sudden now he comes back into play.

Well, just kidding. She could put that in and he's just the same. He's the same person. So he has him.

Yeah, but why is her friend

that's at the bar even bringing up the past? Why? Because her friend know that she's still in pain and it's like a girl it's not you type of thing i disagree you

disagree with everything no i disagree wholeheartedly with this one because i have my friends send me like photos of my exes when they're out especially if they're being idiots and we all laugh that doesn't mean i'm her or i want to get back together vicious cycle

i don't know why you do that though i like that to me it's like everybody's moved on everybody's happy we've all lived our life it's a history you don't need to keep sending pictures it's not like you're it's not like you're sending a historic picture of a monument or something like that you're sending a guy that's no longer part of your life just because she's been hurt in the past does

not mean she's hurt now and we can all laugh and make fun of him and feel better about it

lee what's up your thoughts period it's not hard that's crazy

um hey so i don't think she's like a bad person for wanting to let somebody know that their partner cheats on people i was cheated on for seven years and like i just don't think that

that's a big deal so if she sends it if she sends it to this girl that she's not friends with you

think she's doing her a favor yeah i mean as long as she has proof i mean if you just text somebody or message somebody and say like hey this person cheated on you like that's not enough and that's just stirring up the pot in my opinion but if you have proof send it i want to know i want to know

what these people are doing this is from somebody who's been cheated on so like when does this stop though like is it okay now like 10 years from now if you get a picture do you still feel obligated to let that person know like when when do you stop being involved in this situation i don't know well

How long has it been, Andrea?

It's been, like, a year, approximately.

Okay, so that's still fresh. LaSan, what do you think?

She's still hurting. Let it go. Move on with your life, baby. Don't worry about it.

This is so wild to me. I like you, LaSan.

There are times in your life, though, Megan, where, like, there comes to a point, especially after you've been hurt so bad, that you just need to start protecting yourself. And that's what I want for her, is to, like, put this behind you. like i would get that if she sounded even a little bit upset but she doesn't sound upset she's just like should i do this still wrapped up in it and that's what i'm saying she needs to remove herself

from the cycle victoria what's up hey um i just i 100 agree with megan okay 100 because i've been in a situation to where people knew and nobody told me and i was in a situation where i stayed way longer than i needed to if people would have just said it i want to know yeah but what if this

girl that she's going to send it to is still fresh in the relationship and maybe he's dating a couple of people maybe he's not dating you know i mean like maybe i mean well the thing is he's making

his own bed right let him defend it he's making his own bed that's not her problem that he's sitting here juggling many of girls right exactly it's not her problem okay let me ask you this question

In your situation, who was the person that, or who were the people that knew that didn't tell you?

People that we both knew. Right.

She don't know this girl, though.

Yeah, but still, even if it was a stranger, they told me, showed me this. I mean, I can make the decision, man, to walk away in a better, healthier place than investing more time in someone who's clearly not investing in me. Okay, then here's... That's how I feel.

Here's my question then to everybody I hear on the show. If a listener saw one of your spouses out with somebody else, would you want them to send it to you or not? Because you can confront your partner or know that it's a sister, friend, coworker, whatever, but wouldn't you want that information? But they don't know you.

I think that it's, but I think it's a different thing. It's not, it's not, it's not.

How is that different? It's not like cut and dry.

Because, because it's more, because what it is, is this girl's doing it. Andrea wants to do it because I think she still wants to be vindictive towards him.

The listener's helping you. But she didn't say that at all. She didn't say, I'm upset, and I think this would ruin their relationship. You know, though. You have to read between the lines. No, I don't think you do read between the lines here. I think all of you are saying after a breakup, I'm super upset. She must be, too. And I don't think that's the case. I think she just has the knowledge because she knows

this guy. Mary wants to be voiced to this guy as Mary. Or not Mary, I'm sorry. A wants to be voiced to this guy as A. Mary is somebody that doesn't want to be voiced to this guy. What's going on, A?

Ah, yes. So I do not think she's an a-hole. I am in kind of the same situation.

Explain to us.

I was in a marriage for over a decade. I was cheated on numerous times and none of the girls ever came forward with it. I always had to find out on my own. And I wish somebody would have came to me and told me. It would have saved me from years of trauma bonds and everything like

that so people people that were friends of yours are you called friends because this is not she's

not friends with this girl she that she saw that's the big difference for me this is a complete stranger to her different if that were the case yeah no so the one he's cheating with is

a stranger to me and yeah okay so so you explain again you got cheated on by this guy but you said your friends knew that he was cheating no just people knew that he was cheating

people knew like they knew that he was married they were in my marital home with our family photos oh interesting and they still continue to do it um but now i'm on the other side yeah and these girls are reaching out to me asking me if my ex is single and i'm like no he lives with his girlfriend in her house so the so the ex-husband of yours

that cheated on you. These girls know you because they know that

You were part of his history and you tell them, no, he is with another person.

Yeah. That's very similar. He's been with this girl for two years.

So this guy's got an issue keeping his D in his pants, huh?

Oh, heck yeah. There's no doubt about that.

Does, does it make you, when you see that, when you see that he didn't just cheat on you, but he's cheating on everybody. Does it make you feel better?

It actually does. And I'm in therapy for all the trauma that I've been through. and I talked to her about that, and I realized that it is not me. It happens to everybody he's with.

Wow. That's got to be really, really tough. You guys have kids together?

We do.

God, it's just got to make you just feel awful that that's part of the genes that you gave birth to, you know?

Why I try to explain to people what is going on, because he's introducing my children to all these new women, and my kids are like they don't know what's going on yeah that's got to be tough that's got to be a

that's a it's a really tough one uh that you're married have kids with him and you know that he's out there doing this whole thing um thank you for the call i appreciate it uh comments you can make them to us you can text 95500 of course am i the a-hole hit us up send us a dm maybe even give us

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