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Break Up Or Make Up
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Break Up Or Make Up

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February 21, 2023 | 00:10:55 | Leisure

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America's social casino. Time now on Mojo in the Morning for breakup or makeup. Give a little advice here. jc is on with us right now so we got jc who's dating jack which is actually kind of interesting because you guys have like a a perfect situation if you guys ever should keep your relationship going for a long time because you got jc and jack it's like the like the perfect names for each other but the problem is you are after dating for a while now starting to feel like this relationship is going through a little bit of a struggle exactly um so we have been

00:02:30 - 00:03:08 | Speaker 2:

together and dating for about a year and he really is an amazing guy so it saddens me to say this but i just don't think he's for me because he seems to have absolutely no friends or life of his own and it's just becoming more and more of an issue the longer that we're together um he literally i mean if i'm going somewhere it's like i'll come and meet you if i'm doing anything with my group of people he joins which would not necessarily be a problem if he had his own group of friends every now and again but i literally in the year we've been seeing one

00:03:08 - 00:03:13 | Speaker 1:

another i've never seen him and it's always been this way uh or is it just recent because of the

00:03:13 - 00:03:42 | Speaker 2:

times it has always been this way and that's why it's becoming more of a concern i've been very patience and over the course of the year I've just been observant and you know when we hit the three month mark I noticed it but I was like okay well maybe it's just honeymoon phase we're really enjoying one another's company he enjoys being with me that's not obviously that's not a bad thing but then we got to six months and I was just like hmm and by nine months I was really concerned and now we're at a year and it just seems like this is how it's gonna be. JC do you

00:03:42 - 00:04:00 | Speaker 1:

think that he has friends and he's just kind of blown them off for you because sometimes you you do that from time to time guys and girls do that when they get into a relationship because they they start really loving being around the person that they're dating maybe but i mean for me to not

00:04:00 - 00:04:19 | Speaker 2:

see anyone i mean not even once in a year has he just went to go spend time with his buddies and been gone all day i mean it's he's always under me he's always with you and what do your friends think when he's always trying to be with you always always it's the strange i know what what

00:04:19 - 00:04:23 | Speaker 1:

what do your friends think when uh he's always trying to be around you have your friends made

00:04:23 - 00:04:47 | Speaker 2:

any comments they're starting to notice it as well again when it was three six months no one said anything but when it started to get towards the latter part of our relationship i've had i had one of my girlfriends that i'm particularly close with so i guess she felt comfortable to just say like what's going on he seems that we literally can't go anywhere anymore without him coming and it's just really strange he's a really lovely guy he's so sweet but he just he's always

00:04:47 - 00:04:59 | Speaker 1:

with me okay so 844 mojo live 844-665-6548 is this unhealthy to have somebody that always wants to be with you and doesn't or doesn't have friends is it bad to

00:05:00 - 00:05:18 | Speaker 3:

date somebody that doesn't have a lot of friends jack is uh agreed to go on the air with us jack you're you're okay with that uh yeah yeah hi so you were just listening uh to your girlfriend telling us that this uh and is there a truth to that do you do you have other friends

00:05:18 - 00:05:50 | Speaker 5:

well yeah yeah i actually have a lot of friends to be honest with you um i'm a little surprised But, you know, the thing is, is, you know, I'm at the age now where, like, most of my friends, they're, like, getting married and they're having kids and all my buddies, you know what I mean? They're, like, they're literally on a first kid or a second kid or something like that and they're getting married and they kind of don't have time for me.

00:05:50 - 00:06:07 | Speaker 1:

But you can always make time. That time is so important to spend with your friends. So, in the length of time that you've been in a relationship, you haven't even had, like, a get-together or a guys' night one time. I mean, I feel like that's a little bit of a red flag. It's a big red flag.

00:06:08 - 00:06:20 | Speaker 5:

Well, the thing is, I mean, honestly, I met her in a transitional period of time, and all my friends are literally married.

00:06:20 - 00:06:26 | Speaker 3:

So, you're saying your friends can't get together with you. It's not that you don't want to be with your friends. It's just that you're friends

00:06:26 - 00:06:33 | Speaker 5:

I've actually hit up I got two of my good friends They just had a baby I don't know if any of y'all

00:06:33 - 00:06:41 | Speaker 3:

No, we have kids There's changes in your You kind of go through changes Have you thought about going to make new friends then?

00:06:43 - 00:06:54 | Speaker 5:

Yeah, well I just never The thing is we got into each other And I just kind of rolled with it And I didn't know it was a problem But it's not like we did that

00:06:54 - 00:07:07 | Speaker 2:

space i mean it's important you have time apart in any relationship you need to have your own life as well and maybe if you don't have any friends to hang out with it shouldn't hinder her from being able to go out their girlfriends without you tagging on it's important she has her girl

00:07:07 - 00:07:48 | Speaker 3:

time too i like by the way some of these texts are coming in here 734 says i think it's fine my fiance just met my best friend after us being together for two years another person here says 516 says get him a playstation So he has something to do And then there's a couple texters here right now That are saying that Jack you got to go meet some friends Saying hey this girl's guy Needs to go find some friends It's not healthy for him to always want to be around her What happens if something happens To their relationship He's going to have nobody to be around

00:07:48 - 00:07:56 | Speaker 1:

Plus I just feel like you always need people around you To challenge you and inspire you and just to have fun with. And you laughed when you said maybe you need some new friends, Mojo.

00:07:57 - 00:07:57 | Speaker 5:

Yeah.

00:07:57 - 00:08:10 | Speaker 1:

But, like, perhaps there's something to that. Like, if you, Jack, are the one that constantly feels like you're pursuing and you're the only one that is trying to get everybody to get together and spend time with one another, that's a huge issue.

00:08:10 - 00:08:44 | Speaker 3:

Hey, you know who needs a friend? And we can say Ellen from our show. JC, are you okay with Jack being friends with an attractive 20-something? um i'm not sure about that no ellen didn't you say that you're looking for a friend hold on we might have a we might have a possibility of a of a friendship for you jack you might want to do this buddy and then you'll see jc wanting you to hang out as much as possible isn't that right that you were looking for a friend i'm looking for many friends i only

00:08:44 - 00:08:49 | Speaker 4:

have guy friends so usually i'm looking for some girlfriends okay well jc that's uh i guess not

00:08:49 - 00:08:59 | Speaker 3:

going to work in your situation so we need to find if there's anybody that's listening that's a girl that wants to be friends with uh with ellen hi is your name really can uh it's can

00:08:59 - 00:09:37 | Speaker 4:

or candy or candace depends on what you want to call me i like it what's going on can uh nothing much on my way to work i thought i'd time in um i would say breakup and i am a sweet nice person but um my husband which i'm about to have a finalized divorce was the same way chose um to blend right into my life, my friends, my everything, even my work, got so attached to the point where having my own life wasn't allowed anymore, and it became a huge hostile thing in our household to the point where I couldn't do it anymore, and I had to say, we've got to get a divorce.

00:09:38 - 00:09:43 | Speaker 1:

Wow. Did you just feel smothered all the time, like you couldn't come up for air?

00:09:44 - 00:10:00 | Speaker 4:

It was, and here's the thing. he's the sweetest guy and he just wanted it was it really came off sweet but other people in my life my friends said look this is kind of weird little control why does he tag along everywhere to the point where i do some depositions and i do legal work for my class

00:10:00 - 00:10:06 | Speaker 8:

He would tag along to, like, client meetings in a sweet way to be with me all the time.

00:10:06 - 00:10:11 | Speaker 5:

Wow, JC, JC, do you ever find that Jack will try to come to work with you?

00:10:13 - 00:10:20 | Speaker 8:

No, he definitely has not crossed over into work. So far, it's just been leisure, it's been hangouts, but it's still smothering nonetheless.

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So, Ken, when your guy would do this and come with you to these things, did clients ever think it was weird that he was doing this? can candy

00:10:32 - 00:10:58 | Speaker 8:

but it is yeah can you hear me okay yeah one of my clients after the fact did make a polite comment but understand I run my own business and I have a very free lifestyle with my career so my clients just kind of go along with it but it was getting really weird to the point where like I have to have like a girl weekend girl's night and my husband would say that's not normal

00:10:58 - 00:11:06 | Speaker 5:

normal married people don't do that oh what that's good and so even my sister her husband

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they have girls weekends guys weekends apart and my family would say hey no this is normal and he would say nope nope in his eyes it wasn't normal so it's not okay and i must be doing something wrong where it almost shames me makes me feel like i couldn't have a real life because Because I have kids with him.

00:11:25 - 00:11:29 | Speaker 7:

So just because I get married and have kids doesn't mean I lose who I am.

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Right. That's crazy.

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So he was controlling and manipulative.

00:11:33 - 00:11:34 | Speaker 5:

Listener Megan, hello.

00:11:35 - 00:11:51 | Speaker 7:

Hi. So I would say make up against new friends. My boyfriend encourages me to go hang out with my friends all the time. He told me last week that he feels like I don't see them enough. But I also moved about two hours away from them for him.

00:11:52 - 00:11:55 | Speaker 5:

Oh, okay. Yeah, he probably feels guilty too about that

00:11:55 - 00:11:57 | Speaker 7:

Oh yeah, he definitely does

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Listener Mike, what's up?

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What's going on, guys?

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How you doing, man? What do you think?

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I think breakup for Jack Because Most women in this day and age I find in my personal experience Want a guy that has time To dedicate to them So I feel like if he was out spending time With all his buddies Then her feelings would be totally different She would want him to be at home in order to be with her.

00:12:24 - 00:12:34 | Speaker 5:

Well, there is definitely the happy medium, though. You don't want to be smothered. You know what I mean? Correct, correct. Yes, exactly. But she's feeling like she's being smothered on this one.

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J.C., I hope you like wine.

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So you need show friends. That's what you need, right? So friends from the show, and you can have them here.

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