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participating stores see ever full terms uh shannon i think we should open this up for a

little discussion now with the listeners okay uh and we have a judge in the studio we got the

wait a second i might judge laura uh i'm by the way uh syndicating her show uh we're going to syndicated to people all over the place. All right. Well, Shannon, Shannon has a relationship issue type of a question. What is, what is it, Shannon? Okay. So my husband, Wes, and I have a

little disagreement right now, and this is actually very much a testament and a compliment to him. He, I don't know what it is. He has been looking so amazing, yummy, whatever word you want to say, very good very hot lately in my opinion and I can't stop very genuinely complimenting him um it's the hair it's the way he's dressing he's like really taking the time to like work on his wellness and working out and all those things okay and I love complimenting him because I know that it builds him up and as his wife I like you know being the person to build him up well here's the problem. He says compliments equal sex. So if we don't have sex after a day full of me complimenting him, he says that I have basically given him false hope. And my argument is that I am not giving him compliments to like build up something that's going to happen later in the day. I'm giving him compliments because I genuinely mean all of the compliments about those specific

things i'm not trying to like butter him wait first off he can't just leave this may be the most uh interesting relationship ever you want sex more than he wants sex is that what he's saying or no no because most guys most guys compliment their wives to try to get sex preach but i'm not

complimenting him to get sex but i know he's saying him to compliment him and he's like well if you're giving me all of these compliments then then he's gotta give it up then i have to give it

Oh, then you have to, oh. Do you see what I mean?

You guys are not speaking the same love language. Yes, yes, yeah.

So he's saying that if you're going to give all these compliments, it's getting him excited. Yes. And he still wants to have sex.

Yes, and I'm saying I'm giving you the compliments because I want to give you the compliments. Like I genuinely mean what I'm saying to you.

Okay.

But it's not like I'm giving you the compliments because there's some like underlying like I'm trying to get him in bed. You're making him feel good?

It's interesting because compliments do make you horny. You know what I mean? They make you excited. And so as a guy, sometimes compliments are even better than sex, right? I mean, I don't know. I'm not going that far. No, you're not going that far? But I think it's nice that you compliment the guy. I still say you're just newlyweds, and that's why it's still at this point. But, you know, and Wes, take him. But that's a very interesting thing. I get where Wes is coming from. when you give

someone a compliment it ignites some type of flame inside of their body yeah and for wes the flame is burning lower what do you mean he's getting excited when you say he looks good and probably in his mind it's like oh how good do i look i must look that good where you want to you know

rip these clothes judge you've been married for 10 years do you still compliment your man absolutely does he still give you compliments all the time too yeah okay so do you give it up then after the compliments, or what do you guys do?

I really wasn't prepared to talk about my sex life on the radio, but we have a great relationship.

Everything's good. Do you leave the robe at work, or does the robe come home?

Yeah, well, I have one at home and one at work. Bring the gavel out.

I like it. By the way, she's still a judge. We've got to treat her with respect,

Kevin. Thank you, Kevin. Respectfully.

But we'll talk to Vito later. Go back to Wes and Shannon. here for a second so shannon when you give him all these compliments your intention is you want to make him feel good right or you're being truly honest with him right both both of those things yeah but does it do you find yourself then pulling back the compliments knowing that you're gonna have

to have sex well that's what i said to him i go then i'm not gonna compliment you anymore oh you can't hold out because then i don't want it like i don't want it to be an expectation Right. Like if I'm going to compliment you all day because I really mean what I'm saying, but then I don't want you to feel let down if I fall asleep at 930 watching The Perfect Couple because I'm exhausted after the day. Do you know what I mean? Yeah.

844 Mojo Live, 844-665-6548. If you in your relationship have something like this happening to you where you throw out just a nice little compliment, because Chelsea will do this sometimes. chelsea will say something to me that like well she'll be like she'll be like oh my god you look really good in that shirt i'm like i'll take my pants off right now you know how are you saying

it because tone matters and physiology matters if you're walking past because this sometimes we're like you know i don't walk past or whatever like that she's like damn okay now if you say it like that to me that's that's an invitation that's more than a compliment yeah how are you How are you saying this? What do you mean, how am I saying this? I mean, are you rubbing his chest while you're saying it? Pinching his ass while you're saying it? Or are you just like, oh, I like how your hair looks? Both.

All right, then.

That's why he expected me.

So you understand that if you're saying it in a tone of voice that sounds like you want to have sex, you've got to be careful of that. So you almost have to do it like, hey, you look great today.

I really like your hair, too. More monotone. It looks so good. Like, just give him a fist bump. Yeah, a fist bump. those pants are by the way

this judge is getting kinky talking about fist bumping here in the studio Ashton what's going on Ashton

hi I just wanted to comment on this I truly feel like men take compliments in a sexual way whereas they are getting like to the point where women just are like oh yeah thank you for this compliment

that men are they want to get in bed everything equals sex to a guy it's very interesting food equals sex to a guy mowing the lawn equals sex to a guy exactly i totally agree with that i'm telling you i think if i see chelsea walk into the room and just look at me it makes me think

maybe i might be getting some so exactly my husband is the same way i don't know what that

is though i like why were we born so different and why why is that why is it that us guys like we get excited when the wind blows yeah no you're absolutely correct you know it's something

psychological because i think i think every woman is hitting on me at times well i'm listen in my

brain is something crazy my brains are just completely different like they just view they

can be with trees sexually i don't know it's some thick ass trees on here all day every day great example kev today i complimented your blue jacket i don't want to have sex with no no no but

i don't so perfect example i didn't think you did like because it was your tone and the way that you said it if you had said it differently then i would have been like oh yeah shannon trying to you know yeah why are you married so i'm not trying to get out like joanne uh joanne

What's going on?

Well, I was married for 20 years, and my ex-husband used to pet my hair. Like, I'd be in bed, and he'd come and pet my hair like a little puppy. And I'd be like, don't you ever want to have sex anymore? Because we had a lot of kids. And he goes, yeah, I came and pet your hair the other night. Didn't you know that that's what I was?

That was his indication to you that he wanted to have sex? That's horrible.

He's got no moves. I guess that's why we're not married. Wait, can I? Can I?

I came and pat your hair the other night.

Who are these guys that are like this? I hear these all the time from different listeners of ours where the women will say that they've been married to a guy that does not want to have sex. I don't know who these men are. They've got to be getting it from somebody else or they're possibly, maybe they're confused. I don't know.

Maybe it's low testosterone. They've got a lot of stuff going on. Their libido ain't hot no more.

Stick some testosterone in his morning scrambled eggs or something.

Or just go grab his balls and see what happens. It don't take too much.

I don't know if you guys necessarily do that. If Chelsea just randomly grabbed my balls, that would not feel good.

Listen, if you're in the kitchen and Chelsea just come up to you and get a handful, you're not going to get rock hard?

No, I get the reach around and I don't like it. What's going on, Brett? Hi, how are you?

Good, how about yourself?

Good, what's going on?

My wife can tell by my toe. okay um if i tell her hey you look good she knows it's time but if i'm out in public and i just tell

someone hey i think that looks good they know that nothing is gonna happen so so the tone changed a little bit there i noticed it the tone was hey you look good too you look good right exactly okay tone plays a significant role question for you do you understand when you hear a woman say that their guy won't give it to them?

No, my wife gets it whenever she wants.

And how about you? Do you get it whenever you want, or do you have to beg sometimes?

Nope, it's a two-way street.

Where did you find this woman?

I found my wife here in Grand Rapids, Michigan. That's it. I actually went on a dating website after a bad relationship.

It's the west side of the state. You guys on the west side of the state, you guys have more sex than the people on the east side of the state or Toledo.

Hey, that's got to be an east side thing.

I'm telling you, I think that that's the problem. We look for the west side girls. All right, well, thank you for the call. I appreciate it. Yep. All right. Shannon, do not stop complimenting your man. That's when the relationships all change, you know, when you stop. Seriously, it's true. Compliments are nice. It's nice when the compliments come out. I have a problem sometimes where Chelsea doesn't take my compliments. like i'll give her i'll give her a compliment and and she and we talked about this on our we don't podcast and one of the reasons that she brought up which i thought was extremely valid was she says she listens to me on the radio and i compliment everybody so she started realizing that the compliments didn't mean much and i i started having to check myself you know what i mean like it's it's i mean it's a work in progress yeah but she says sometimes she goes you know you'll give me a compliment then i'll listen to your show and you'll give 10 other people that

same compliment so wow when everything's important nothing's important yeah very uh very well said

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