That's really sketchy. And I don't say that, you know, in a negative, from a negative perspective. But it's, you know, you both have to be ready. If he's still with you, at least I think that he needs to make a commitment. And in my situation, my fiancé, well, I mean, now we're, he's my fiancé. He proposed to me a few years ago, but we just had, you know, life was happening. There was a point where I was in college way back when I was working two jobs. His job was really demanding, but we made a commitment. So I think that that's the biggest thing that people have to look at at first is, well, is he committed to you? Is he invested in the relationship? And just allow the time, allow it to organically happen.