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Do I Give My Ex-BFF Her Stuff Back?
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Do I Give My Ex-BFF Her Stuff Back?

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March 2, 2023 | 00:10:34 | Leisure

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All right, Mojo on the morning show. So Lydia is the friendly voice that answers the phones when you are calling into 844-MOJO-LIVE. And Lydia, I want to hear about this. I always like to hear Lydia's friendship stories. Um, the, uh, the question is, do I give my ex BFF her stuff back? Did you, are you, did you guys, uh, have a little disagreement or what's the story?

00:03:04 - 00:03:14 | Speaker 2:

Yeah, we had a bit of a falling out, but it wasn't like a dramatic falling out. It was just that we both were growing into different places and we decided we weren't going to be friends anymore. And I think it was mutual.

00:03:14 - 00:03:20 | Speaker 5:

By the way, that's no fun. Can't you guys have pulled, could you have pulled hair or something like that or anything?

00:03:20 - 00:03:24 | Speaker 2:

Yeah, I mean, she probably wanted to pull mine when I severed the ties first.

00:03:24 - 00:03:30 | Speaker 5:

How do you sever ties with somebody? What I do as a guy, I just don't answer their calls anymore.

00:03:30 - 00:03:36 | Speaker 2:

My icing on the cake was that I stopped sharing my location with her, and I think she got the hint at that point that we're no longer friends.

00:03:36 - 00:03:38 | Speaker 5:

That's not even a hint, right? That's blatant.

00:03:38 - 00:03:38 | Speaker 2:

Yeah.

00:03:39 - 00:03:42 | Speaker 5:

So you guys stopped being friends. How long has this been?

00:03:42 - 00:03:42 | Speaker 2:

It's been a year.

00:03:43 - 00:03:46 | Speaker 5:

Wow, it's been a year. And you still have her stuff? What kind of stuff do you still have?

00:03:46 - 00:04:12 | Speaker 2:

So I still have a couple of items of her clothing, And we used to share clothing quite often when we would go out and about. And this past week, I was texting Shannon, Megan, and KP because I want to donate all the clothes I've been having for spring cleaning. And so I noticed I had a bunch of her stuff still, and I wanted to know what I should do with it. Like, I can't donate that, can I? Or can I give it away? Or do I keep it? Do I burn it?

00:04:12 - 00:04:15 | Speaker 7:

Because you don't want to reach out to her and say, hey, do you want this stuff, right?

00:04:15 - 00:04:22 | Speaker 2:

Yeah, like I thought about just dropping it off at her house. Is it still in fashion? Yeah, and it's cute clothing, too. Really?

00:04:22 - 00:04:27 | Speaker 6:

You know her friend or her family or somebody, a mutual friend, you can say, hey, can you give this to Blink?

00:04:27 - 00:04:33 | Speaker 2:

Her sister's my neighbor, so I had thought about, and I'm still on good terms with her family, I feel like, because we like each other's stuff on Facebook.

00:04:34 - 00:04:39 | Speaker 5:

What size is she, and is it any closeness to anybody else on the show?

00:04:40 - 00:04:42 | Speaker 2:

Shannon would probably fit in some person. Really? Shannon, you want it? Really?

00:04:42 - 00:04:43 | Speaker 6:

No.

00:04:43 - 00:04:43 | Speaker 5:

No.

00:04:44 - 00:04:45 | Speaker 2:

No, just kidding.

00:04:45 - 00:04:51 | Speaker 6:

Why don't you sell it to, like, one of those stores that take it back, like, uh, like, Is that morally wrong, though? Yes.

00:04:54 - 00:04:59 | Speaker 7:

I don't know. She, you don't want her to come back for that stuff and then tell you, oh, you owe me money for all the stuff that was mine.

00:05:00 - 00:05:04 | Speaker 5:

But see, this is hard because I would just say, box it up and give it, or put it in a

00:05:04 - 00:05:08 | Speaker 4:

bag and give it to her sister. But that is opening the door a little bit.

00:05:08 - 00:05:08 | Speaker 5:

Yeah.

00:05:08 - 00:05:16 | Speaker 4:

Well, no, and say, I don't want to talk to her. So you take this. Make it clear, I don't want to talk to her. You'd have to have that conversation, which would be super uncomfortable.

00:05:16 - 00:05:18 | Speaker 5:

No, I don't want to do that either.

00:05:18 - 00:06:10 | Speaker 3:

You know, it's such a difference. I always learn this when I'm hanging out with you guys. I always learn that women are so different than guys. Guys don't keep their buddies' stuff. like we've a don't do it and if we got it if we have it there we just put it on and wear it you guys don't really share clothes either no but occasionally like i've i've had friends that have left you know like a hat or something in my car you know what i mean that was theirs and it just becomes mine and then it's all my girls don't you know you guys and then you guys also you guys go to each other's homes and bring your stuff and like make it's kind of like you become part of their home we don't do that like you don't go to your guys friends right in in like guys you go play poker with and stuff like that spike and leave your clothes there no no like you don't have changes of clothes at your friends but i'm different than you i would never wear another guy

00:06:10 - 00:06:31 | Speaker 4:

stuff either oh really yeah after i've had parties for games and stuff people always leave behind hats scarves all kinds of stuff i just can't wear it it belonged to somebody else and it's it smells like some dude i don't know they might have head lice yeah i don't i just don't i can't wear something that someone else i don't understand how people wear used sneakers like i don't care if they're Jordans. I don't want them. Somebody else's stinky feet, and we're in there giving me athlete's foot

00:06:31 - 00:06:33 | Speaker 3:

for two days. I wear other guys' slides

00:06:33 - 00:06:43 | Speaker 4:

all the time. Oh, God, that's gross to me. Really? No. You kiss them on the lips? Because I don't... It's not very similar. Hold on. It's the next step. It's a slippery

00:06:43 - 00:06:49 | Speaker 3:

slide slope. Kevin's still in with us here. Kevin's hanging out with us. Kevin, do you ever do this with guys?

00:06:49 - 00:06:52 | Speaker 2:

Never. I've never in my life done anything remotely close. No? No.

00:06:53 - 00:06:57 | Speaker 3:

Have you ever had guy friends leave stuff at your place? Yeah, but

00:06:57 - 00:06:58 | Speaker 2:

Just come get your stuff.

00:06:58 - 00:07:01 | Speaker 3:

Okay, so give Lydia then advice.

00:07:01 - 00:07:05 | Speaker 2:

It's been a year. I don't even think she cares anymore about the stuff. Right.

00:07:06 - 00:07:11 | Speaker 5:

It was one of her favorite hoodies. Like one of the items of clothing was one of her favorite hoodies.

00:07:11 - 00:07:15 | Speaker 4:

Well, either it's not one of her favorites or she hates you so much she doesn't want that hoodie.

00:07:15 - 00:07:16 | Speaker 5:

It's option two, I'm sure.

00:07:16 - 00:07:19 | Speaker 2:

Well, just return the favorite hoodie and sell everything else.

00:07:19 - 00:07:19 | Speaker 3:

Yeah.

00:07:20 - 00:07:20 | Speaker 5:

Okay.

00:07:20 - 00:07:22 | Speaker 3:

Ash, you wanted to say something?

00:07:22 - 00:07:44 | Speaker 8:

yeah so someone mentioned like if she came back and all the stuff was gone she tried to make you like pay her for it legally she abandoned that stuff it's been over a year so she can't make you pay for anything selling is boring burn it burn party but it but it wasn't that kind of a

00:07:44 - 00:07:48 | Speaker 3:

end of a friendship though it was just that we are different types of people right what's up lisa

00:07:48 - 00:07:59 | Speaker 6:

good morning hey i figured that friend still has lydia's stuff too if they're sharing clothes that friend has a lot of her stuff after a year it's just a wash call it quits you know

00:07:59 - 00:08:14 | Speaker 5:

lisa's on to something because actually she helped one of my ex-boyfriends christmas shop for me once and he got me a jacket and she bought it for him and she ended up keeping the jacket but that's not why we're not friends she's just that kind of girl well then you don't even have

00:08:14 - 00:08:21 | Speaker 4:

to worry about her stuff then forget a lot to unpack with that you are good to go yep that

00:08:21 - 00:08:37 | Speaker 3:

changes everything but can't you use the items that you have as as ways to call her up and say that you you know want no you don't want to call her up though uh sam what's happening hey how are you good we're trying to figure out what do you do when you have your ex-friend's stuff at your

00:08:37 - 00:09:01 | Speaker 7:

place so i've done this before um i would just put it in a box um label it i know it's already been a year lydia but you know just in case she finds your stuff and says hey i really want to give this back or anything like that at least it's in a box labeled in the back of your closet you don't got to think about it she's trying to clean out her closet yeah she doesn't want more

00:09:01 - 00:09:05 | Speaker 3:

she's saying don't get rid of it because there may be a time where she might call you back with

00:09:05 - 00:09:11 | Speaker 7:

that jacket yeah you know and be done with it what are you talking about the xbox is that what

00:09:11 - 00:09:17 | Speaker 3:

it is yeah i have an xbox oh no that's your xbox yeah you have like an xbox with like ex-guy

00:09:17 - 00:09:22 | Speaker 5:

friends uh ex-boyfriends yeah really so should i put her stuff there i got all excited yeah i

00:09:22 - 00:09:28 | Speaker 3:

thought she had the xbox console i was all excited wait what's in the xbox of the ex-boyfriends um

00:09:28 - 00:09:34 | Speaker 5:

there's like polaroids jewelry stuffed animals just little things like that when you and uh

00:09:34 - 00:09:39 | Speaker 3:

the gas station guy get together are you going to burn that box i don't know we'll have to find out

00:09:39 - 00:10:00 | Speaker 1:

it's fun to go through all that stuff what's up chris hey guys good morning um so i had a comment about guys sharing clothes and you know for the most part i agree with you except i had one circumstance with two guys uh best friends since uh high school forgot my gym shirt one day and we actually

00:10:00 - 00:10:10 | Speaker 5:

We actually exchanged this cutoff. Obviously, we washed it after Jim, but we exchanged it between the three of us all the way from high school through college until we all outgrew it.

00:10:10 - 00:10:12 | Speaker 7:

Oh, that's gross. Why are you wearing cutoffs?

00:10:13 - 00:10:17 | Speaker 5:

I mean, listen, this was 20 years ago, so.

00:10:18 - 00:10:35 | Speaker 7:

Okay. I didn't have sleeves 20 years ago. Kaylee, you actually did burn the box. You had a burn party? A hundred percent, I did. And it was all your ex-BFFs friends, your best BFFs stuff?

00:10:36 - 00:10:50 | Speaker 4:

Yes, and it was very fulfilling. It was awesome. It was clothes. It was pictures. It was a bunch of items. It was very soul-lifting.

00:10:51 - 00:10:57 | Speaker 7:

Orgasmic. Yeah. Did you take a picture and post it or send it to them?

00:10:58 - 00:11:26 | Speaker 4:

um i posted uh something on my instagram story um and just said burning the past away a couple people knew what it was because and i'm still friends we have a lot of mutual friends um and some people did reach out to her she knew um we live in a small town so um but it was it was fun to do just letting go of the past not really caring i see burning pictures and stuff like that

00:11:26 - 00:11:30 | Speaker 6:

But other than that, make that money. Sell this stuff. I agree.

00:11:30 - 00:11:33 | Speaker 3:

I think I might throw it in Shannon's donation bag. Oh, yeah.

00:11:33 - 00:11:35 | Speaker 4:

Just throw it in the back of my car. There's always donation bags.

00:11:35 - 00:11:42 | Speaker 7:

Yeah. All right. Thank you. By the way, Kaylee sounds like she's a little Craig. Are you crazy?

00:11:43 - 00:11:57 | Speaker 4:

Oh, no. No. You sure? I mean, it was just, I've known this person that it happened with for 18 years. I mean, she was a part of my wedding, came up when my son was a part of my – a lot of different milestones.

00:11:58 - 00:12:00 | Speaker 7:

And what did she do that caused you to break?

00:12:03 - 00:12:26 | Speaker 4:

Well, it was just – it was a lot of different things. Like, the final straw, kind of like with Lydia, was just, like, not really so much sharing locations, like, that we didn't do that. It was just, she just, one day I woke up and deleted me off social media and just said, I don't like you, I don't like your husband. And then I found out she was talking about me, my child, and others.

00:12:26 - 00:12:28 | Speaker 7:

Okay, all right. You're not crazy. She's crazy.

00:12:28 - 00:12:29 | Speaker 4:

She can't talk about my child. Yeah.

00:12:30 - 00:12:36 | Speaker 7:

Okay, I get it. I take back what I said. Luba, what happened?

00:12:36 - 00:12:44 | Speaker 3:

So when my best friend Broke up with her living boyfriend He stole one out of every single pair of shoes

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That's actually kind of funny So he took one shoe Was it specifically a right or a left Or did he mix it up

00:12:55 - 00:13:00 | Speaker 3:

He mixed it up She had like no matching shoe to wear She had to get all new shoes

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That's vindictive right That's crazy

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It's a crazy genius

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like yeah i guess they weren't a match so

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