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Excuse for Getting Ghosted
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Excuse for Getting Ghosted

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January 28, 2025 | 00:11:32 | Leisure

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00:02:16 - 00:02:52 | Speaker 9:

terms at dkng.co audio mojo in the morning i just read this stat i thought it was crazy it says that more people go to therapy because they don't get callbacks from people they've gone on dates with. So literally people are going to therapy over being ghosted because they feel something's wrong with them because they're not getting the callback. And I found that to be so wild because I know we do second date update on the show, try to figure out why you're getting ghosted, but getting ghosted can be very traumatic for a person. It makes you start thinking what's wrong

00:02:52 - 00:04:13 | Speaker 3:

with me right yeah isn't that crazy i have a few girlfriends who are um single and dating right now and the the ghosting stories just blow my mind first off some of my girlfriends uh some more like family friends that are older like in their 50s 60s dating and the fact that like 50 and 60 plus year old men will ghost it's insane not have the emotional maturity and communication skills to just say I'm not interested anymore freaking blows me away but I love this story I have one of my friends went on a date with a guy and she said it was actually a really great date like if you thought it was he didn't call her the next day or the next day and she was like okay fine whatever so she like sent him a quick text asking if he wanted to go out again never said anything finally the next day so it's been four days since the their first date the date that they went out on and he responded that he was sorry he had been mia he had a stye oh my god do you know what a stye is yeah i'm okay with this he had a stye and she was like okay i could understand maybe that he doesn't want to see me face to face but to not actually even to use the stye as an excuse that you couldn't text is wild that's wild all right we got to have listeners

00:04:13 - 00:05:00 | Speaker 9:

call in and tell us the stupidest reason why they didn't call you back after you went on a date. I mean, these obviously we can go through old war of the roses and probably name a bunch of these, but I want to hear your story. 844-MOJO-LIVE 844-665-6548 and those that are dating that are in their 40s, 50s, or even if you're 60s, I don't know if you're listening to the show, but the fact that there are 50-year-old men that are ghosting women, that's insane. That's crazy that these guys can't even pick up, although it's insane that a 20-year-old does it. You know what I mean? Talk about how immature that is, you know? I know people just don't care these days. Well, the problem is- You really don't care. The problem is if you can-

00:05:00 - 00:05:12 | Speaker 7:

quickly get a date as quick as you can get a date you can quickly just move on to the next one and the back in the day before tinder and hinge and bumble and stuff you know you didn't you had to

00:05:12 - 00:05:32 | Speaker 2:

actually go out and physically meet people right i think this is why i get so mad at people who don't want to talk on dating apps and just go oh we psyched on each other let's meet up and go out because if you're not kind of forcing everybody to get to know you a little bit first then there is no incentive to not ghost people and just move on you haven't put any work into it i know but the

00:05:32 - 00:05:50 | Speaker 1:

ghosting and i go back to i said this to my girlfriend even at one date you've your lives have inner you've meshed you've interacted and so to just like there is a little bit of um god what's the word accountability yeah like i i do think so you at least owe them something although

00:05:50 - 00:06:00 | Speaker 7:

a stye might be legitimate i don't know like you don't want to come out madena what's up hey how are you good what was the craziest reason why you were ghosted

00:06:00 - 00:06:38 | Speaker 3:

um because i don't drink really so i get ghosted all of the time because i am almost a year and a half sober shout out to me wow but when i tell you what is the biggest the biggest hindrance on my dating life like i didn't understand how much people depend on liquor to have fun like i'm a ball when i'm sober like i'm a whole joke so i'm gonna keep you laughing regardless like we're gonna laugh at everything but yeah like and it's it's very very disheartening too because like you never get that connection with anybody it's sad that these guys can't see

00:06:38 - 00:06:56 | Speaker 7:

that as you're bettering yourself and you don't need alcohol to be fun yeah because they don't want to know the old medina because the old medina yeah i love that that's awesome uh what's up michelle how you doing i'm good how are you good why did you have a guy ghost you

00:06:56 - 00:07:24 | Speaker 5:

so i met this guy online and he lived across the state so we hadn't gotten a chance to meet yet but um he ghosted me um he literally talked to me the morning of and then he ghosted me after his son's birthday party that day and he came back months later to tell me that he ghosted me because he lied about his domestic abuse charges against his ex-girlfriend slash baby mama. Oh, boy. And he didn't want me to find out.

00:07:24 - 00:07:31 | Speaker 7:

Oh, boy. Well, you know what? He's probably doing you a favor. He dodged a bullet. Probably doing you a favor, exactly. Yeah, he dodged a bullet.

00:07:31 - 00:07:32 | Speaker 4:

Absolutely handsome, Fizz.

00:07:32 - 00:07:34 | Speaker 7:

Risa, what's up?

00:07:35 - 00:08:22 | Speaker 4:

Hey, I want to talk about getting gosed. I hope I don't cry when I talk about it, but I met a guy online. We were together for a few years. I got pregnant. Found out I was pregnant with twins. I was 39. He stayed around for a couple months or whatever. One day he left my house to go to work. Here we are, 2025, and I've never seen him again. Wow. Jeez. My kids just turned 14 on January 18th. And last Friday, I just found out that both of them got accepted to Reneson High School. Yes.

00:08:22 - 00:08:26 | Speaker 1:

Mama, for 14 years, you did this all by yourself.

00:08:27 - 00:08:49 | Speaker 4:

I did. I have not seen him since. They've never asked about him. I'm still kind of, it might sound stupid, but I'm still kind of dealing with it. I get that. I got four to get pregnant, and I'm so scared to get back into the dating world. I get that. Hey. Did you file a missing persons report?

00:08:50 - 00:08:52 | Speaker 7:

No. Did you ever go try to look for him?

00:08:52 - 00:09:00 | Speaker 4:

I tried to do everything. Even to this day, I can't even get. Reese. I don't know where he is.

00:09:00 - 00:09:00 | Speaker 1:

Yeah.

00:09:01 - 00:09:01 | Speaker 4:

Reese.

00:09:01 - 00:09:08 | Speaker 1:

My confidence is gone from this. Hey, let's not focus on him. What a testament to you. Right. Yeah.

00:09:08 - 00:09:09 | Speaker 7:

Reese.

00:09:09 - 00:09:10 | Speaker 4:

They are the best kids.

00:09:10 - 00:09:29 | Speaker 7:

We want to meet them. I want you to hang on the phone for a second, and I want you to tell Lydia when you can come in studio so that we can meet you and the kids. We want to celebrate them. Okay? Yes. We would love that. So I want you to hang on the phone for just one second. Congratulations, Mom. You did a great job. And you know what?

00:09:30 - 00:09:31 | Speaker 1:

Yeah, Risa.

00:09:32 - 00:09:41 | Speaker 7:

You know who it is, but there's somebody that is making sure that they're not part of your kid's life because your kids are better without him.

00:09:42 - 00:09:46 | Speaker 4:

Yeah. I'm like, if he did that, do I really want that type of person around my team? Right.

00:09:48 - 00:09:58 | Speaker 7:

Hold on one second, okay? We love you. Hold on one second. Lydia, get some information. Hold on. T, initial T wants to be voice disguised. What were you ghosted over? What happened?

00:10:00 - 00:10:09 | Speaker 5:

So the guy that I was talking to, he would tell me two weekends in a row that his mother took his phone after visiting him.

00:10:10 - 00:10:13 | Speaker 4:

So the reason he didn't call you was his mom had his phone?

00:10:15 - 00:10:15 | Speaker 5:

Yes.

00:10:16 - 00:10:16 | Unknown:

Oh, God.

00:10:17 - 00:10:19 | Speaker 4:

These guys are... How old is this dummy?

00:10:21 - 00:10:22 | Speaker 5:

He's 41 now.

00:10:22 - 00:10:27 | Speaker 4:

Oh, my God. What a... Maddie, why were you ghosted?

00:10:27 - 00:11:13 | Speaker 8:

um i actually did the ghosting myself and why was that um so i went to go like actually go on a date with this guy i had already met him previously in person but then i ended up finding out that he was a virgin i thought i could get past it we i go and meet him and like i said it's the first date and he had me meet his parents okay i'm the first date we go out to eat he's a virgin and he then expects not even expect because anyway he wanted me to take his virginity and i couldn't i pretend like i was sick and i went home and never talked to him again

00:11:13 - 00:11:24 | Speaker 4:

wow so you were the ghoster on that case he introduced you to his parents day one and then And he asked you to take his virginity on the date. That's a second date update right there.

00:11:24 - 00:11:25 | Speaker 7:

Did he offer money?

00:11:26 - 00:11:32 | Speaker 4:

Wait, how about if his parents said, will you take my kid's virginity?

00:11:32 - 00:11:34 | Speaker 7:

What was that Jennifer Lawrence movie?

00:11:34 - 00:11:35 | Speaker 4:

Is that what it was? Yeah. Oh, yeah.

00:11:35 - 00:11:36 | Speaker 7:

What was that?

00:11:37 - 00:11:37 | Speaker 4:

Oh, my God.

00:11:38 - 00:11:42 | Speaker 8:

I'm telling you, it was like so crazy. I was just like, oh, my goodness.

00:11:43 - 00:11:44 | Speaker 4:

Unreal. Oh, wait.

00:11:44 - 00:11:45 | Speaker 8:

No hard feelings.

00:11:45 - 00:11:54 | Speaker 4:

No hard feelings. Hold on. Elena's got one. Elena, are you there? yeah hi why did a guy say that he couldn't go out with you anymore and he ghosted you

00:11:54 - 00:12:22 | Speaker 9:

um so i met this guy off hinge and we had a really good first date and i told him that i want to see him again didn't hear from him for a couple days i'm like okay what's going on i was like you know like if you're not interested i keep texting him like just if you're not interested you can just tell me it's fine i don't hear from him still and then i get a text from him saying that he was so sorry he had to take his dog to the vet oh that took a couple days do you think

00:12:22 - 00:12:43 | Speaker 7:

it was wait was it legit though did he have a dog yeah like he had a dog but like you couldn't just text me in between right before after the like why is that wait did he put his dog down oh my god oh the dog is still alive and well i'm gonna say like i get it if it's that but

00:12:43 - 00:12:55 | Speaker 4:

not if he's fine hold on initial l i'm gonna end on you and you gotta tell your story quick for me why what did a guy do to ghost you or how who ghosted you so i good morning first off

00:12:55 - 00:13:33 | Speaker 6:

so i ghosted the guy because i went to chicago where my brother lives met him and we hung out had a good time and a day later when i was still in chicago i get a call and i was trying to figure out like who it was and she told me that she's his wife and he has three kids and i was like oh he said he's divorced she's like no like he's not divorced oh my god i dropped him off at his i dropped him off at the corner of his block oh geez i'm just gonna walk and i was like okay like We did just eat a, you know, nice, but I was like, that's weird.

00:13:33 - 00:13:42 | Speaker 4:

That is craziness. Well, you know what? You should have noticed when you dropped him off at the corner of his house that that was the case. Yeah. All right.

00:13:42 - 00:13:48 | Speaker 6:

He called me, and I told him, like, no, your wife called me, and it was a big thing, and I just deleted his number.

00:13:49 - 00:13:51 | Speaker 4:

Oh, my God. These guys are fools.

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