Listen, I have to pull this together Because listeners don't want to listen to the view on the radio was screaming and talking over each other, all right? Yeah, we do. All right. No, but I have to bring this all together because I will say this, as a guy who has kids, I regret that I didn't do a lot of this with my two younger kids. Now, I did do it with Luke, and I learned a lesson. And actually, to be perfectly honest with you, I was exactly where Megan's spot was, where I was like, you're going where? You're doing what? When people that were on the show had said, hey, they wanted to leave to go to their kids. things because i looked at it like you know what i'm sorry we can't go to dad's with donuts day you know what i mean like i never got to go to a dad's with donuts day or donuts with dad's day or whatever the hell it was but i also will say this to you that my kids now are in high amounts of therapy and taking lots of medication because of it so no i what is the lesson you think you learned after doing it with luke but then not doing it with your kids that i that i screwed joe and and jacob over by not doing it honestly can i tell you something i didn't screw them over i screwed me over i screwed me over for not experiencing this and honestly i put a lot of extra pressure on chelsea to be yeah to be like you know single mom going to all this stuff now we were very fortunate that chelsea could be a stay-at-home mom but i will say this that, uh, as a dad, I didn't have those memories. And Luke just graduated from high school. And when he graduated from high school, they had picture montages and things of all the years that Luke had been going to school. Cause he went to the same school that he went to high school with when he was in kindergarten. And there were some days where I'm looking at like field days and things, and I was never there. And I'm looking at some of the guys that were there, some of the dads that were there and I'm going, man, that I, I really missed out. So, so here's the thing i get it but now i want the people to fight okay who has it better in the office i want you to call us up right now 844 mojo live 844-665-6548 i want you to call out better i want 10 times better i want you to call us up right now if you're team megan or team i like my kids