All right, it is Mojo in the Morning. Good to have you guys here. Phone number 844-MOJO-LIVE, 844-665-6548. The text is 95500. We are your home of the War of the Roses. Second date update. Dirty on the 30. Five lies tell your mom. am I the a-hole and the throwback throwdown and coming up here in less than 10, no it's not going to be 10 minutes, it's going to be like 20 minutes or so, 22 minutes we're going to be doing the second date update, why are you not getting a call back after you went on a date and why can't you just be honest and call the person and tell them well this morning we will help out another couple figure out what's going on with second date update here on the Mojo in the Morning show All right, it's Mojo in the morning. I was talking about the podcast I do with my wife called the We Don't Podcast. It releases on Mondays, and today is another one of those podcasts. We kind of get into this a little bit on the podcast, but we're going to get into it even more on the radio right now. And that thing I want to get into is I have like a weird thing going on with Chels and I right now. And the weird thing is, and I don't know what it is, maybe I'm just so clingy because I, I don't know, my wife looks great and I feel like I don't look as good to be with her. She's like the trophy wife with the non-trophy. I give her tons of compliments. Like anytime I am with Chelsea and I've been spending a bunch of time lately, like we've been kind of hanging a lot lately with each other, I will compliment her on how she looks. And it's gotten to a point, and I don't know if other people have ever experienced this, especially women. I want to hear from women. Can you be over complimented? Can too many compliments be a bad thing? I never thought that this could be the case until Chelsea kind of pulled me aside and basically said, cause she always will. Like at first you would say, Oh, thank you. And then now she's gotten to a point where she's kind of like pushing my compliments off from me. And it was kind of bumming me out. I'm like, why is it that I compliment you and you don't like my compliments, But yet other people will compliment her and she'll be, oh, thank you so much. That's so nice. And I'm like, she likes a stranger complimenting her more than her own husband. And then I did a little bit of digging on this one. Or actually, she told me what was going on. It really wasn't digging. I just said to her, finally, I just said, you know, it really bums me out. Like, it makes me sad that we've been married a long time. And I feel like a lot of people that I know that have been married a while don't necessarily look like they are doing well in their relationship. I see a lot of times where people over the years will struggle and we have struggled. We have had some bad, bad moments in our, our marriage, but this is actually a good time that's going on in our marriage right now