what tinder was or um so i i ever since josiah was a young man i've always took the perspective of speaking to him like i would anyone now i'm not going to say that i'm explicit with him like there are certain things i say and certain things i scale back but i feel like as a parent you want to have the conversation rather than your child learn from the world. You can navigate it in a certain way and give them proper context because kids be thinking they know everything, and then once they hear it for the first time, that's reality. And it's like, no, Joe, this is kind of it. Now, when he, so we were watching, he's into this new anime. Don't ask me what it's called. I don't know what it is, but he's into this new anime. We're watching the anime, and I'm kind of like half watching it because I care, but, like, I'm not fully invested. So I pull out the old phone, pull up the old Fire app, And I'm on Tinder, giving some good swipes. And I don't realize how close Josiah is to me during this moment, but he kind of, like, is really close. And he looks over my phone. He was like, you're on Tinder? Don't know how he know what Tinder is. That's my next question. Now a light bulb is going off, or I have to ask more questions, because how are we here? But I also didn't realize, I found out a lot of stuff about Josiah this weekend. But, yeah, so he pulls, he looks at my phone. He's like, you're on Tinder? I'm like, at first I'm kind of like embarrassed. Like, I don't know if we want to have this conversation. But then I'm like, yeah, I'm on Tinder. He was like, uh, what's Tinder? I'm like, uh, a place to find friends. He's like, but it's only girls on there. I'm like, yeah, I got my settings set up that way. And then that was enough for him. And then he bowed out.