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uh it's mojo in the morning i feel like i gotta meet this barber of yours because your barber is one of those guys cav that he he comes with good topics bro he is a legend shout out to daryl
exposed barbershop that's that's the boy right there um how do i want to go about this so it's always a fun time in the barber chair and it's even better when he starts to tell me about what's going on in his life and yesterday i got a fresh cup for the game and we're having a conversation and he starts to tell me about his rules for a relationship and what a female will do that will immediately cause for him to say we're not going to be together anymore or i'm going to stop seeing you he said one of those rules is his girl cannot be friends with his female friends that's one he she definitely can't befriend one of his guy's girlfriends he doesn't want one of his guy's girlfriends to be friends with his girl why red flag why is there
a red flag why wouldn't you want the girl you're dating to be friends with your friends
one of the major reasons that he said that is because what ends up happening is our drama becomes their drama and now when you're going outside of our relationship to have conversations with my friends now i have to hear about our drama with my friends when i just want to have friends i don't want to have my friends be well what's going on with our girl i heard this i heard that i just want my friends to be my friends so stay on this side and let them stay on that side but
couldn't you just ask her to keep what like the conflict that's happening between the two of
of you between the two of you i mean you've been in relationships it doesn't always work out that
way right but i've also learned my lesson in like yeah there are some things that i'll confine in my friends in but i also know that there's a line because i want them to like my you know my my partner and not create opinions when i'm in the the thick of a storm with that person so he's not
even allowing it to get that far so where the relationship is worth being at that moment so he said he went out with a girl and he already like he says already laid the groundwork already laid the foundation this is what i expect don't be friends with da da da da see i would already not
want to date your friend because you are not going to tell me who i can't be friends with so he goes
out i don't know if they went bowling or somewhere let's just say bowling they went bowling and he met his boy and his girlfriend was there and he saw the girl that he brought talking to his friend's girlfriend and he said he could tell like they were it wasn't like a normal like he's not saying sit in the corner and don't have a conversation with them but like exchanging numbers and all of that he said that's not necessary like definitely be friends and be he said he didn't say anything when he saw them talking but when they got back to his place he They had a conversation. She was like, so y'all exchanged numbers, didn't y'all? She was like, yeah. He was like, okay, it's time to go. And that was it? And that was it.
That's weird. Can I...
Can I just ask, does he have a lot of stuff that goes on at home that's drama that he doesn't want his buddies knowing about?
I mean, I'm not in his life like that. I mean, I think he has an average level of drama if I had to.
Okay. Because I think sometimes this might not be a bad idea, though. Because then.
Listen.
Because I always hate when people know your business before you know your business, too, especially if the girls are talking.
And that, ladies, can we be honest? If it's problems in a relationship, y'all go run to y'all girls and y'all talk about it.
Well, that's why I'm saying I learned my lesson with that. Because that is not helpful.
And I think there's like general bitching that is like a surface level. We can all relate to this, right? Yes. Versus the down and dirty, here are the explicit details of what's going on and why I'm angry, I think is off of the table. but then to me it's like so you want to invite me over to say it's a house party or bowling or whatever it is and now I can go but I can't connect with anybody or have a good time because I'm not allowed to build relationships with anybody that's important to you is a weird red
flag to me you brought up two very beautiful levels as a man both of those levels suck I don't care about the down and dirty conversations you're having I don't want you to have those and I damn sure don't want you to have just those little bitchy conversations because what's little and bitchy to you and insignificant is a headache when i get home to even have to hear about that if i if i have a my friends are my safe space i'm not in a relationship with my friends we have good friend conversations it's a fun area if that has to turn into well i heard what you and sherelle
like no bro what are we doing all right question 844 mojo live 844-665-6548 anybody else share Kev's Barber's opinion that your girl should not be friends with your buddy's girlfriends and you know outside the relationship friends because that would make it very difficult for like I'm sorry you guys cannot share phone numbers like what does she do does he tell the buddies of his girlfriends hey you can't ask for the phone number or something like that I would think something was suspicious if that was the case.
See, to me, I would get fearful that then he would be, like, monitoring everybody that I'm hanging out with. You know what I mean? Because, of course, I'm going to go talk to my friends about, like, my friends that I had in the relationship before. I don't know. That's just very messy to me.
You can't be friends with them. What's going on? It's Mojo in the morning. Jessica, hi.
Holy crap. Is this real life right now?
Yes. Yeah.
Kevin, if you go back to that barber, I swear to God, I will cancel you.
Why? Wait, you can't. Come on.
I can't even get my hair cut. This is the most misogynistic, unrealistic thing I've ever heard in my entire life. Well, I had to call because I was screaming at my radio.
So what do you think about the mixing business with pleasure?
it's not business of pleasure it's a relationship if you have any thought of wanting to be in a long-term relationship with this person then i mean yeah you would want their friends to be your friends and and the outcome to everybody be it is funny because like when you get together
you ever notice at a party or when you're hanging out with each other do you ever notice that couples will all go off in their corners the guys will go into one area the girls will go guys are usually on the couch the girls are around the kitchen counter and then you guys gossip about each other the entire time yeah what's what's up mojo in the morning hi what's going on oh i lost you what's going on mojo in the morning hello hello i'm wondering if you're still on the topic of who you can be friends with yes we're we're on it right now we're knee deep in it what's
going on okay all i have to say to gavin is do you want to be your person's father or boyfriend because when it turns into you telling her what she can and cannot do then you turn into a father figure guess what nobody wants to have sex with their dad oh okay i want to call you dad now now now it gets weird when you say it that way she's not she's not gonna say that well yeah
Like, telling them what they can and cannot do is definitely acting like you are their parent. What's up, Nina?
Hi. I was just going to say that I have friends who have broken up with boyfriends for this exact reason. Like, they thought they were getting too close with their friends or, like, their friends didn't like when they hung out with other friends. And I just thought that was weird.
Yeah. So you have had it because they didn't like the idea? that everybody was hanging out with each other outside of their relationship?
Yeah, like outside or even like when we would hang out as a group, they wouldn't like that their girlfriends were coming to like talk to me and when we were like doing group activities and stuff too.
See, I always thought that you want everybody to blend together and mix, but I also get the idea that he doesn't want his business out there on the streets. I think that's all about the girl. We're going to call the barber, by the way, here in a second. Barber Jim, what's his name?
Call him D.
Barber.
I don't know.
Okay, D. D the barber. D barber instead of D nuts.
D-barber.
D-barber. Ahmad, are you there?
Yeah.
We got a guy that is on the phone, our first guy caller. Let's see if he agrees or disagrees with D-barber. What's going on?
I agree with the barber.
You agree? So you don't like the idea that?
No, I don't like the idea because I have a wife, and I don't like her to have guy friends or exchange numbers or talk about my business with other people before I understand about it and stuff.
So you don't, when you mean guy friends.
But why not just ask that of her instead of making a demand?
It's not like being, it's not being controlling or nothing. They just have to be submissive to you and only you and not other guys.
That's controlling. What you just described was controlling. No, no, no, that's not controlling.
Here's the thing. It's not just the guys. His thing is he doesn't even want his girl being friends with his buddy's girlfriends because he doesn't.
Okay, that I disagree. Well, that's what we're talking about. No, no, no, but the part because it's kind of like saying. No, no, no, no, that's what we're talking about.
But he's saying this guy on the phone is changing it to say he doesn't like his girl to be friends with his guy friends. He doesn't think it's right for them to do that. That's a totally different topic altogether.
That's a totally different topic.
Hold on. We're calling the barber. We're dialing him up. Did you tell him that we were...
Your call has been forwarded to voicemail.
Oh, boy. Maybe he doesn't want to talk. Nah, he wants to talk. What's going on? Hold on. Let's see. Your call has been forwarded to voicemail. He's forwarding my call to voicemail.
Hold on.
You dial him up. Hold on. Why is he doing that? Oh, here we go. He's calling back. What's up, D-Barber?
What's going on, man?
What's going on? Kev's telling your business on the radio. you may not want you to be friends with Kev.
And I say your real name, though, so that's why we go with D.
So Kev just told us, and clarify this for us, if you're dating a girl, you don't like your girl getting phone numbers and being friends with the girls that your buddies are dating or married to.
Yeah, most definitely.
Why is that?
because see when they when you um intertwine friends like that they promise become your problems and affect your household so let's just say your buddy cheating on on his girl she about to call your girl with them with those problems and now it's gonna be problems with y'all being friends so you just never want to bring outside problems into your household okay so
that which by the way is always uh bad when you know that your buddy's cheating and you don't tell your girl about it because that that's a bad one i've learned i've learned that i've learned the hard way i don't keep any secrets from chelsea because they always come back and come back up
so uh i was still some type of bro code too you just got to kind of like like hey there's no bro
code when you you lose half of your your uh your life do you put these your friends above your
partners at all times no it's not putting your friends above partners it's about it's it's about like it's just placeholders you have your friends you have your family and you have your relationship now everybody to me my opinion is everybody together on some level but you have different relationships with each with each partner I mean with each uh place or whatever so I may have loyalties to my friend on a level that I don't have loyalties to my uh my spouse but I have loyalties with my spouse that i don't have loyalties with my friends i'm intimate with my spouse so that's a different relationship than i have with my friends so you know it's just it's just being able to separate the two and i intertwine them all because everybody can't be everything
everybody and do most of the girls that you're with understand these rules that you have or
have you lost relationships because they always they always look at it like you being sneaky but you just you just trying to keep the mess down as much as possible okay so you know it's It just levels to everything.
All right. Hold on one second. Somebody wants to stick up for you. You may not be able to hear him because you're on my phone and not the radio station phone. What's up, Abel?
Hey, I just wanted to say, the barber's just saying, hey, these are my standards. This is what, you know, if a woman said, I have standards and this and this and this, everybody would be cheering. But because he states his standards, oh, he got me.
I'm sorry.
I totally disagree with you. There is a difference between standards and demands.
She sounds exactly like you just said.
There is a difference between standards and boundaries and demands.
I think one of the big differences here with Dee is like if it was not I'm going to defend my dude from cheating, right? And it was just other stuff I would say, well, why wouldn't you just have the conversation don't talk about our business? Yes. Because I think that's a big problem is if I'm not getting along with your friends, significant others that reflects negatively towards me and i'm not going to take that on just because you have an insecurity with me having friends but when you say cheating now i feel like that brings a whole other aspect into it now because you're saying there's things i want to hide from my girl so you can't be friends with other girls because i'm hiding things from you and i don't think
that's healthy in a relationship no that's not what he said that's not what i'm saying what i'm saying is is not allowing somebody else's issues become your issues because when y'all become friends what happens in y'all y'all bond your own little sisterhood right and but y'all sisterhood has been only a year a few months i may have been friends with my friend since seventh grade and he always going to be my friend he's like a brother to me but what he does doesn't necessarily reflect on our relationship and i just don't want you to have loyalty to her to where it's becoming a problem and it's like yo that's what he does that is not what i do but i just I'll leave his house.
So find an emotionally mature woman to date. And you don't have to make this crazy rule.
As my dad said, you can pick your friends. You can pick your nose. But you can't pick your friend's nose. You ain't got to laugh at that. No, come on. By the way, hey, real quick. Real quick. I've always wanted to hang out at a barbershop with a bunch of guys that are cool like you and Kevin. Can I just come? That means he want to come to a black barbershop. Can I come to a black barbershop? I go to Sixth Salon and hang out with Katrina. I get more stuff for our show. I want to hang out with you, too.
Come through. Yeah, come on down, man. You're going to get more than you're working for.
I'm going to bring Shannon and Megan and that guy that just did an imitation of them, too, just a second ago.
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