What I'm saying is the intent, even not doing it for them, the person you're with, your intention would usually increase. Dwight, you make a lot of sense. For instance, Mojo loses weight, and he talks about the attraction with his wife all the time. He talks about getting himself together and taking the testosterone shot, and all he wants is her. Now, imagine if he was doing all that, and he never mentioned her. That distance would make you think.