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Hugging Etiquette
Mojo In The Morning

Hugging Etiquette

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December 5, 2022 | 00:10:48 | Leisure

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00:00:00 - 00:00:30 | Speaker 5:

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00:00:30 - 00:00:56 | Speaker 3:

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00:00:57 - 00:01:17 | Speaker 7:

Hey, everybody. I'm Tarika Foster-Brasby. What's up, y'all? I'm your girl, Cheryl Swoops. When you tune in to a new episode of our podcast, Levels to This, you're definitely going to get some spicy WNBA analysis. But we're more than just hoops. And the real conversation is what we actually bring.

00:01:18 - 00:01:28 | Speaker 8:

It's been really, really cool seeing kind of these women just really step into their power off the court and understand that they aren't basketball, right? and they're not asking for permission?

00:01:29 - 00:01:38 | Speaker 7:

Listen to Levels to This with Shroes Hoops and Tarika Foster-Brasby on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

00:01:39 - 00:01:58 | Speaker 1:

I'm Mange Shatikular and I'm back with a new season of my podcast, Skyline Drive. This time I talk to scientists, biopunks, curmudgeons, blues owners, super seniors, and Goa's top cryotherapy lab to try to understand this obsession with living forever and what it means for all of us. And I get into a bit of trouble along the way.

00:01:59 - 00:02:04 | Speaker 6:

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00:02:04 - 00:02:10 | Speaker 1:

Listen to Skyline Drive, How to Live Forever on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

00:02:11 - 00:02:25 | Speaker 2:

All right, it's Mojo on the Morning Show. So, Spike, you were told this, but you don't know if it's true and you want all the women associated with this show, from Shannon to Megan to KP to Lydia to Katie to give us some advice.

00:02:25 - 00:03:40 | Speaker 4:

Yeah. Thank you to everybody who came out Friday night to bar crawl with me through Plymouth. It's been a tradition now for like three or four years that I throw the Santa Hat pub crawl. And thanks to Tom, my buddy at Westside Beer Distributing, who, along with the whole team there at Stella Artois, like helped me arrange it because it's not it's a big undertaking to actually walk into these small bars with like 70 people wearing Santa hats, being obnoxious. but it was a lot of fun and I love hanging out and drinking with our listeners every time I get the chance and in this group was a little gaggle of girls that came after work and joined me for the pub crawl and among the other womanly secrets these girls were sharing they told me and this is what I want to ask the girls on the show if this is true they told me that you can tell how much a girl likes you based on how hard she presses her boobs against you when you get a hug oh come on And I was like, excuse me? And they said if you hug someone hello or goodbye, many women, you know, especially if someone you just met, they're leaving space between bodies or they might just lean forward, contact shoulders. But they said if they press their entire torso against you and their chest against you, they really like you. That's a little flirting going on. So is that a thing? Or are these girls completely out of left field with this?

00:03:40 - 00:03:52 | Speaker 9:

Well, I have no boobs. I have absolutely no boobs, so it's like I don't really know how to answer that question. But I feel like if you're pulling away from a guy, yeah, you don't really want to touch him. You're just doing like a courtesy hug.

00:03:53 - 00:03:59 | Speaker 4:

I never really thought of the contact zone of what was touching. I thought more of lingering how long you're hugging before you let go.

00:03:59 - 00:04:04 | Speaker 2:

So both of you guys are saying that you don't have large boobs, so you don't do this.

00:04:04 - 00:04:08 | Speaker 9:

No, we have zero boobs. Okay. I'm speaking for you. I mean, you can see, so you guys.

00:04:08 - 00:04:12 | Speaker 2:

Megan's not here to talk from the boob perspective, I guess.

00:04:13 - 00:04:16 | Speaker 9:

Correct. This is the wrong day to do this topic. Yeah, it really is.

00:04:16 - 00:04:21 | Speaker 2:

Megan took the day off. Lydia, not that I've noticed, but Lydia.

00:04:21 - 00:04:21 | Speaker 4:

We've heard.

00:04:22 - 00:04:26 | Speaker 9:

Some people might say. Lydia's got enough for the two of us.

00:04:26 - 00:04:28 | Speaker 6:

Come on. Yeah, and I even had a reduction, low key.

00:04:28 - 00:04:36 | Speaker 2:

Wait, so Lydia, question for you. Is this a thing? If you press your boobs against a person, that means that you actually are interested?

00:04:36 - 00:04:40 | Speaker 6:

I think more of a good long embrace, but I don't know about the boobs.

00:04:40 - 00:04:48 | Speaker 2:

Yeah. So it has to do with the amount of time more so than the actual, like, pushing harder, so to speak.

00:04:48 - 00:04:58 | Speaker 3:

You know how you can tell when somebody doesn't, when you don't really love someone, is when they do the pat, pat, pat during the hug. That, I don't know why, gets me going.

00:04:58 - 00:04:59 | Speaker 2:

And the bro hug, too.

00:05:00 - 00:05:06 | Speaker 5:

It doesn't even matter if I'm hugging a girl or if I'm hugging a guy. If I get the pat, pat, pat, I'm like, oh, they don't like me.

00:05:07 - 00:05:10 | Speaker 4:

Some people don't know how to hug either. They were never hugged as children.

00:05:10 - 00:05:19 | Speaker 3:

Or if they're going in for a hug and they're like, no, their arms are to their sides. They're just like, oh, yeah, how are you? And they're not reciprocating the hug back.

00:05:19 - 00:05:22 | Speaker 5:

What if they hug you and they sniff your hair at the same time?

00:05:22 - 00:05:27 | Speaker 4:

Well, I was going to ask you. What about the girl? She also cupped my butt cheeks while she was hugging me. What does that mean?

00:05:28 - 00:05:54 | Speaker 7:

Mines are short. My thing that bothers me, you talk about bad huggers. My thing that bothers me is my kids were all grown up to be great huggers because my dad was a great hugger and he used to always say, come in here, I want a big hug. And then they go through a period of their life, which I like to call the preteen to just starting to be a teenager time, where they don't want to hug anymore. Yeah. And I got to like, get in here, come on. I love a good hug. Got to give them good hugs.

00:05:54 - 00:06:13 | Speaker 4:

But also, poor teenagers always have to deal with the aunt coming at them. they're going to make a big sloppy wet kiss with their hairy mustache, aunt mustache. It's just nothing's worse when you're a teenager. You don't want physical contact, let alone aunts and uncles giving you hugs. You had an aunt with a mustache? Oh, yeah. It would tickle every time she would kiss me.

00:06:13 - 00:06:23 | Speaker 7:

By the way, this does not play for guys and them pushing their junk up against you, too. Yeah, that's called assault. Yeah, that right there, you call 911.

00:06:23 - 00:06:26 | Speaker 4:

I'm sorry, boys. There's a double standard, and it's in place for a reason.

00:06:26 - 00:06:56 | Speaker 7:

I'm trying to think of people that have done this, because we were out last week. We did that fundraiser at Red Robin. I got more hugs that night. I'm going to tell you this. We were definitely not socially distancing at that thing. No. Thank God, because I had more people hugging me. I gave a hug to KP's grandparents, not knowing it was her grandma and her grandpa. You lifted her off the ground. And her grandma has gone through some health issues. And I feel like such an a-hole right now that I did that to her.

00:06:56 - 00:06:57 | Speaker 5:

She was okay.

00:06:57 - 00:06:58 | Speaker 7:

She was all right with that? She was fine, yeah.

00:06:58 - 00:07:10 | Speaker 5:

I smelled like a Macy's counter when I walked away from Red Mountain. I know. I'm serious. I smelled like everybody's body spray and perfume and shampoo because we hugged. By the way, I love hugging. But we hugged so many people.

00:07:10 - 00:07:15 | Speaker 3:

I smelled like armpits because my deodorant stopped working. Helena, what's up?

00:07:16 - 00:07:32 | Speaker 1:

Hi. So I heard you guys were talking about, you know, like having big boobs and like the predictor there. I have size F And it's like Whether or not I'm into the person You can't even tell because my boobs are just Against them all the entire time

00:07:32 - 00:07:42 | Speaker 4:

Ah okay so Megan's not here To speak for the larger chested women but She may say it might be read Wrong because obviously to give any hug She has to press her boobs into you

00:07:42 - 00:07:53 | Speaker 6:

Yep okay See I've always thought it's just been how many arms do you use Do you use one arm do you use two arms Because the one arm how do you know like you definitely know Yeah they don't like it Yeah, that is a good one.

00:07:53 - 00:08:00 | Speaker 3:

Jed gave me a one-arm hug this morning. Who did? Jed. Oh, really? But was that the first time you guys were meeting? Yeah, that is the first time we met.

00:08:00 - 00:08:02 | Speaker 5:

So maybe he's just trying to be cautious.

00:08:02 - 00:08:06 | Speaker 3:

Yeah, yeah. He doesn't want to be like two arms means it's too friendly.

00:08:06 - 00:08:08 | Speaker 4:

No, his other hand was stealing your wallet.

00:08:08 - 00:08:19 | Speaker 7:

Probably. I wouldn't let that guy hug me at all. I gotta tell you, there's been many a times where I'm like, did you brush your teeth this morning? Come on, man. You get away from me here right now, Jedediah. What's going on?

00:08:19 - 00:08:27 | Speaker 4:

The pastor's saying that it's okay if seniors give you the 2-3 pat, like seniors pat you like a child, and it's a very southern thing someone else is saying from 8-4-3.

00:08:28 - 00:08:29 | Speaker 7:

Interesting. What's happening, Kim?

00:08:31 - 00:08:32 | Speaker 8:

Hey, guys. How are we doing this morning?

00:08:32 - 00:08:39 | Speaker 7:

Fantastic. We're wondering if when a woman hug you and they linger with a hug, does that mean they like you more?

00:08:40 - 00:08:48 | Speaker 8:

I don't think that, but I'll tell you what my wife does. She's got bigger boobs, and she does that Christian side hug thing.

00:08:49 - 00:08:55 | Speaker 4:

The side hug? What do you mean? The Christian side hug. You're like hip checking, so you're not making contact? You're leaving room for your guardian angel? What's that mean?

00:08:56 - 00:08:59 | Speaker 8:

You're kind of like hunched over hugging, but not really.

00:08:59 - 00:09:07 | Speaker 7:

Oh. Yeah, you're leaving room for the Lord. That's what you're doing. Right. Okay. And she does that with you? Not with me. Okay.

00:09:07 - 00:09:09 | Speaker 8:

That's with people she kind of sort of likes.

00:09:10 - 00:09:19 | Speaker 7:

Oh. Wait. I was just joking, and everybody agreed with that. Yeah, you're leaving room for the Lord. Fill the tea, Tim. No, that's true, though. That's what they said. They would say that in school. Oh, really? They would say leave room to make the sign of the cross.

00:09:19 - 00:09:22 | Speaker 3:

Tim who does she not like Spill the tea

00:09:22 - 00:09:29 | Speaker 8:

Basically everyone And who does she like

00:09:29 - 00:09:36 | Speaker 7:

That she's been lingering more with Me of course Nobody else though thank god What's up Doreen hi

00:09:36 - 00:09:38 | Speaker 2:

Good morning guys

00:09:38 - 00:09:40 | Speaker 7:

Good morning what's going on

00:09:40 - 00:10:00 | Speaker 2:

So Shannon was saying how she can tell When somebody doesn't like her When they give her the pat on the back When they give her a hug i won't even hug anybody i don't like um but i do i mean if i don't like someone i won't even give them like a wave but i every time i hug someone i like pat and like kind of

00:10:00 - 00:10:05 | Speaker 4:

rub their back. That's just what I do and that means not that I like you, but I

00:10:05 - 00:10:09 | Speaker 3:

mean. It's not a pad. It's a rub. You actually will rub.

00:10:10 - 00:10:14 | Speaker 4:

I get what you mean. I can't give somebody a hug. Yeah, not in a

00:10:14 - 00:10:20 | Speaker 3:

creepy way. I like that. I like that you won't even hug you if you don't like you. What do you do to turn down? How do you do that? How do you turn it down?

00:10:21 - 00:10:25 | Speaker 5:

Hey, maybe like a wave or like a uh, maybe not.

00:10:26 - 00:10:27 | Speaker 3:

Okay. Alright. I like when a woman

00:10:27 - 00:10:28 | Speaker 2:

burps me.

00:10:30 - 00:10:34 | Speaker 3:

Jasmine, you actually say you don't like the pats. Is that right?

00:10:34 - 00:10:47 | Speaker 4:

No, my dad does that. He's like the awkward person. He literally, when we depart each other, will pat me. And I will tell him, do not pat me like I'm your friend. I'm your child. Hug me. Embrace me. It drives me crazy.

00:10:47 - 00:10:50 | Speaker 3:

Give me love like you actually care.

00:10:50 - 00:10:54 | Speaker 5:

I love when I get a really good hug and my back cracks. That's a good hug.

00:10:55 - 00:10:57 | Speaker 3:

Really? I'm serious. Like a Tony Travato hug, our boss.

00:10:57 - 00:10:58 | Speaker 5:

Just like a good squeeze.

00:10:59 - 00:10:59 | Speaker 3:

What's up, Bailey?

00:11:00 - 00:11:14 | Speaker 5:

Yeah, I just wanted to say I don't think it's the whole boob thing either Because I have to agree with one of the callers Previously, I have a size F So I totally understand Like, you can't judge by that It is definitely the length of the hug

00:11:14 - 00:11:21 | Speaker 3:

Okay Okay, the length Greg says it's not the boob hug Is that right?

00:11:22 - 00:11:26 | Speaker 7:

Well, it's not the boob hug It's the boob touch

00:11:26 - 00:11:29 | Speaker 3:

The boob touch I'm sorry, what?

00:11:29 - 00:11:40 | Speaker 7:

Yes, like, so if a girl's talking to you, you're not hugging, and she all of a sudden touches you with her boobs accidentally, then that's flirting.

00:11:40 - 00:11:43 | Speaker 2:

How close are you getting when you're just talking? I mean, it's a close talker.

00:11:43 - 00:11:51 | Speaker 7:

Well, how close is she getting? Really? It depends how much she wants to flirt with you, and if you feel her boobs touching you, then that's the flirting.

00:11:51 - 00:11:56 | Speaker 3:

How many of these women have come up to you that were strangers, complete strangers?

00:11:57 - 00:12:01 | Speaker 7:

Oh, well, this is a long time ago, back to my dating days, but it happens.

00:12:01 - 00:12:03 | Speaker 3:

It happens. You must be a good-looking guy.

00:12:03 - 00:12:06 | Speaker 1:

Yeah, where are you going where girls are like, hey, come here a second?

00:12:06 - 00:12:11 | Speaker 2:

Yeah, let me just rub up on you. I don't think that's a hint, really. That's just, she's, yeah.

00:12:11 - 00:12:18 | Speaker 1:

I heard if you touch your collarbone, that kind of shows that you're interested. Like, if you're playing with your hair or if you're touching, like, your chest. Body language.

00:12:18 - 00:12:21 | Speaker 2:

Or if you dial 911, I know you're not interested.

00:12:21 - 00:12:22 | Speaker 3:

Dion, what's up?

00:12:23 - 00:12:25 | Speaker 6:

What's up, man? How y'all doing this morning?

00:12:25 - 00:12:28 | Speaker 3:

We're fantastic, Dion. What did the ladies do to you, Dion?

00:12:29 - 00:12:50 | Speaker 6:

Oh, man, I worked at a restaurant I used to serve at. Every time there was this particular girl who I liked, who I thought was pretty, and every time I leaned in for a hug, she would lean in one arm and give me that little rub, that little pat on the back, like the ladies were saying, kind of like, you know, I don't want to give you no hug. Like, you're a creep. Like, stay away like I was a germ or COVID. That's mad.

00:12:51 - 00:12:53 | Speaker 3:

She didn't like Dion that much, did she?

00:12:53 - 00:12:57 | Speaker 6:

No, no, no, she didn't care for me. I think it might have been my cologne.

00:13:23 - 00:13:51 | Speaker 1:

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00:13:52 - 00:14:17 | Speaker 2:

A home World Cup only happens once in a lifetime, and we are not missing a second. I'm Castle 1021. On the 1021 podcast, me and the crew break down every match like it's personal. The drama, the upsets, the debates you'll be having all day. Soccer, culture, and chaos in one place. Pick a side, we already did. Listen to the 1021 podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

00:14:19 - 00:14:39 | Speaker 9:

Hey, everybody. I'm Tarika Foster-Brasby. What's up, y'all? I'm your girl, Cheryl Swoops. When you tune in to a new episode of our podcast, Levels to This, you're definitely going to get some spicy WNBA analysis. But we're more than just hoops. And the real conversation is what we actually bring.

00:14:40 - 00:14:50 | Speaker 8:

It's been really, really cool seeing kind of these women just really step into their power off the court and understand that they are basketball, right? and they're not asking for permission.

00:14:51 - 00:15:00 | Speaker 9:

Listen to Levels to This with Shroes Hoops and Tarika Foster Brasby on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

00:15:00 - 00:15:20 | Speaker 1:

guess. I'm Mange Shatigular, and I'm back with a new season of my podcast, Skyline Drive. This time, I talk to scientists, biopunks, curmudgeons, blues owners, super seniors, and Goa's top cryotherapy lab to try to understand this obsession with living forever and what it means for all of us. And I get into a bit of trouble along the way.

00:15:20 - 00:15:26 | Speaker 2:

I'd say probably start bone smashing. That doesn't work. Make it look more defined. They say it works. I don't know.

00:15:26 - 00:15:32 | Speaker 1:

Listen to Skyline Drive, How to Live Forever on the iHeartRadio app. Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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