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Is Bianca's Job Straining Her Relationship?
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Is Bianca's Job Straining Her Relationship?

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July 7, 2026 | 00:12:42 | Leisure

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this is a job for indeed sponsored jobs bianca is in with us this morning because bianca says that this job is getting in the way of her relationship yeah it is so um so since i do

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like all the social media i'm always editing videos and stuff i feel like my job doesn't always end when the show's over so i feel like my job kind of carries on throughout the rest of the day which i try to get most of it done here but sometimes it just doesn't always work that way so a lot of the times when i'm hanging out with bryce i'm always like you gotta give me a couple minutes but then it turns into hours of me like editing videos or some or like just other things but then i'm sitting on social media scrolling like it's just like something i do all the time i'm sitting on social media or i'm checking our mojo in the morning page and he's like you gotta give me some attention too like i feel like i'm always putting my attention on work

00:02:49 - 00:02:54 | Speaker 6:

and not always on him so he's actually said to you your job is getting in the way of our

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relationship yes he says that numerous times was this before or after the music video oh before way before the music video was like to make up for all this oh really you did the music video

00:03:03 - 00:03:09 | Speaker 7:

just to make up to show the love yeah yeah did he tell you this and then you made a change or is it

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like impossible for you to make it well i always try to make a change but then he keeps bringing it up to me and i'm like i'm changing i'm changing i'm doing better and he was like biaka you're on your phone the entire time we were hanging out today or sometimes we'll be sitting down and i'll just be sitting there scrolling and it's mindless sometimes i don't even realize i'm doing it so it's

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so it's not necessarily this job is your social media is getting in the way yeah but i feel like

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since i work in social media that this job is just like always on my mind anyways yeah tell him

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to join the crowd because i guarantee you every one of our spouses probably feels the same way too

00:03:41 - 00:04:00 | Speaker 3:

yeah well dig the club it's something i'm trying to work on so we'll try to do things that don't involve my phone but then the second we're done with the activity like we'll go play tennis or go to the gym or go swimming or something and then right after i'm on my phone again yeah or i'm always trying to look at my emails like i refresh my emails as if i'm getting a new email

00:04:00 - 00:04:16 | Speaker 2:

like i'm not but truly we do have a job that doesn't actually stop when we quote unquote stop working which many people would think is the end of the show you know like we're in constant contact with each other all day and you i mean you are like you said editing stuff so it is really

00:04:16 - 00:04:29 | Speaker 3:

tough or like sometimes i'll get texts i'm like you or tony hey can you post this real quick and i'm i'm out there and what does he say when our texts come in he's like oh mojo wants you to do something all right i'll stay here for another hour and wait until you're done i'm

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starting to not like this guy i'm starting to think that he's coming in the way of our

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relationship oh and that will never happen but i told him when i first started dating him i was like i always put work before you but i feel like that's kind of bad to say well you probably

00:04:44 - 00:04:59 | Speaker 7:

I'm sure a lot of people probably feel like how you yeah I stayed a girl who used to do something big around Christmas and like the first Christmas that we were like really together I'm thinking like we're gonna be together and she was nowhere near me

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And it was like, damn, bro, like, I get it. But at the same time, like, you can't find any time for me. Yeah.

00:05:06 - 00:05:16 | Speaker 5:

And it sucked. Whose job is coming in between their relationship? 844-MOJO-LIVE, 844-665-6548 is our telephone number.

00:05:16 - 00:05:30 | Speaker 4:

Bro, I hung out with a girl yesterday, and within the first 10 minutes, she's like, oh, so did you kiss your cousin at the wedding? I'm like, dog. She listened. All because we posted the video, and she listened. Yeah, because Bianca was working.

00:05:30 - 00:05:41 | Speaker 2:

Right. I'm hanging out with Bryce. But I feel like this actually happens, like thinking about it with my parents too. I think growing up with my dad, he was always gone. Like his work kind of overtook their marriage.

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Did your mom complain about it? Like Bryce is complaining about it?

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She complains to me about it. She'll say, Bianca never gets you a man who works too much where he never sees you. But then that's me now. You're the man.

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So then how does she feel if you are with a man that doesn't work and doesn't...

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I don't think she would like that either. So it's like a lose-lose situation here.

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I mean, I know there's a happy medium. Like, you got to have your time together. And I think you have to be the one to do that. And I'll tell you, I'm a horrible person to take advice from because I still, to this day, don't do that. And I regret it. I wish I was better at that. But I think that, you know, I don't know. I think I was raised that that's what you did. Like, you know, like my dad wasn't home, you know, every single night of the week. He was working and stuff.

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Well, it'll be like even at dinners and stuff, though. He was at his other family's house.

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I was getting milk.

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Yeah, you getting milk again? It's the third time this week?

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My dad was a milk man. Actually, my dad probably was the milk man. My dad wasn't home. 844-MOJO-LIVE or text 95500. You know, I used to think I liked this kid, Bryce.

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Well, you should still like this kid, Bryce.

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I used to like him if he's all of a sudden complaining about Tony and I calling you

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are texting no no it's more on it really is more on me it's funny i thought when you were bringing

00:07:02 - 00:07:11 | Speaker 3:

this topic topic up about jobs getting in the way of relationships it would be like because we've all gotten in trouble for something we've said or talked about well sometimes that is the case too

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bryce will be like why would you say that yeah that was so extra you did not need to bring that up but um i don't know i just think it's like it's something that is like hard for me and i'm always trying to work on it with him but i'll be like sitting at the table we'll be eating dinner and i'm on my phone and i think about it like will i be this way when i have kids like i don't want to be so attached to my phone or thinking what i'm doing all the time when i have kids but then

00:07:35 - 00:08:03 | Speaker 1:

do you think maybe you need to switch your career up okay so you're kicking me off the show no no i'm just saying because like for me this is always a problem one of the reasons my relationship ended was because um he didn't like that i was filming everything like we even when we went out on dates i was filming it because i'm a vlogger and that's what i do so now i know when i go into a relationship like they have to be okay with me filming everything yeah that's so either he needs to be okay with it or you're gonna have to get out of social media yeah well no i'll never change my

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career for a man that's like really messed up but i i think that is messed up but i think i should never i don't know i'm trying to i'm trying to respect him and also focus on my job what does he do uh is he working yeah he works at apple oh yeah so he's okay he's a new apple bottom bean That's what I call him. Apple bottom. Which, oh my God.

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I just found out yesterday. I already hit him up with like three questions.

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Yeah.

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And then he like does stuff with sports too.

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Can you get us a discount? Yes, 15% off friends and family. Oh, I like it. You said you did the music video as like a way to make up for this situation. Did you tell him that's why you were doing it?

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No, I'm just saying it for me to make myself feel better.

00:08:43 - 00:08:48 | Speaker 5:

Okay. Wait, but now you're spending all this time editing the music video.

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I'm not editing it. I'm not editing it. Someone else is.

00:08:50 - 00:09:07 | Speaker 5:

I wonder if, and this is what we do for a living, but I wonder if, like, other careers have this. Like, do doctors take their job home with them, or are they always gone? Or, I mean, let's go from doctors to do professional entertainers, you know?

00:09:08 - 00:09:27 | Speaker 1:

I don't know about, like, a time thing, but, like, my dad, he owns a construction company. My mom always complains that our house is always under construction and never getting finished. it's not that he's not home but like he'll start a project and like there's drywall that still needs to be like finished because he's always i could see that you're bringing your job home with

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with him and he's got so much stuff going on he wants to come home and relax yeah but he'll start

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it and not finish it i can see like when you brought up the doctors like doctors and nurses working these long ass shifts yeah maybe they got patients that are dying or sick and they come home and it's like they're tired they're exhausted and you know they're not showing up quote unquote in

00:09:45 - 00:10:03 | Speaker 2:

the relationship well that's like me too like i'll come home and i'm so tired and bryce wants to hang out and go do things and i'm sitting here want to take a nap like i want to sleep until like five or six o'clock and he's like i want to hang out hey megan hi hi How are you? Does your job get in the way of your relationship?

00:10:05 - 00:10:19 | Speaker 6:

It does. So I'm a second grade teacher and every single day I bring things home with me, whether it's grading stuff or planning stuff or just being stressed out. And it drives my boyfriend great.

00:10:19 - 00:10:26 | Speaker 2:

Oh, wow. Yeah. So do you ever talk to him like you're talking to a second grader in your class? Has that ever happened?

00:10:28 - 00:10:32 | Speaker 6:

Sometimes I find myself shushing him. When he says something, I'm like, shh.

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Do you do the clap?

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You're right. Clap one time if you can hear me.

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Yeah. Exactly. Does he ever grade papers for you?

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No. I've quizzed him on things before, and sometimes my second graders are better than him.

00:10:48 - 00:10:53 | Speaker 3:

Oh, my gosh. Oh, I bet. It's like those timetable sheets where you've got to do the multiplication super fast.

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That's funny.

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No, I was literally, I timed him on it and I was like, Ooh,

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you just barely made it.

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That's funny. Thank you for the call, Megan. Thanks for the example there. A school teacher. What's happening, Brittany.

00:11:07 - 00:12:20 | Speaker 5:

Good morning. Um, so I am a realtor and my husband is a teacher and a wrestling coach and we had to find balance. Um, it's super duper important and I feel bad because like, as I was saying, I'm like, Oh, like I know my busy season's coming up, his busy season's coming up and like we know so like we'll put things on the calendar and like I have time blocks in my phone that like no one can get through this just him because sorry I'm not a president um because it's so important and it sucks because when you look at that other person and they're like all you're doing is sitting on your phone and I'm like well yeah because like this is how I bring in money right but I'm like also you're not wrong because I'm wasting time and like when I'm at work I need to be at work I need to be in the office and focus on that but when i'm at home i need to be focused on my home life and like no offense to mojo and tony sorry guys but like i worked a job too that was a lot of social media and like i had a boss too that would text me at 12 o'clock in the morning and be like hey can you post this no no i'm sleeping so like there has to be a balance and there has to be boundaries and i really hope that like bianca can find that because like is the relationship worth losing over social media you you know? Yes, it is.

00:12:21 - 00:12:31 | Speaker 2:

It is, it is, yeah. Her relationship with, it's two versus one. It's Tony and Mojo. No, I love your relationship with Bryce. You'll figure

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this out. And you know, Mojo set us up, so it's all his fault if I start slacking.

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Yeah, Bryce. Come on, if it wasn't for that. What's up, Genevieve? Hello, good morning. Good morning. Thanks for coming on with us. What's going on, Genevieve? Is your job getting in the way? Hey, Genevieve!

00:12:49 - 00:13:35 | Speaker 4:

my job has always gotten in the way i sometimes i think it's just work ethic if you're a hustler and you give it your all and especially if you love your job it's just you have to figure out boundaries because eventually you're just gonna put it in interesting what do you do for a living well i have my own photography company now but before that i worked in automotive tech okay and especially when i was like moving from one position to another i just was working all the time all the time yeah so it's one of the reasons i left that job but now i do this and because it's my own business i'm just i'm attached all the time but i have figured out ways to kind of you have to set some boundaries you got to put the phone down because it is true yeah are attached

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all the time have you broken up with i guess a significant other because the time that you were

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spending on your job no but you know i was a new mom so i had two kids and i think it's one of the reasons that i left my last job is because i just couldn't figure out how to how when i became a new mom i just felt like i had to do even more to prove that i could be uh you could do it all

00:14:02 - 00:14:14 | Speaker 3:

yeah yeah well good thing i'm not going to be a mom anytime soon i'm not going anywhere anytime soon Bryce isn't going anywhere anytime soon so we're all chill did you do the whole I'm not

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going to be a mom anytime soon as something to send to your family members and that's why you're

00:14:18 - 00:14:30 | Speaker 3:

saying because they're stressed out because at the Chris Brown concert I think his mom was like really nervous something's gonna go on because he was playing some inappropriate songs and his mom was like we are not doing this at home guys we're not doing this yeah some inappropriate nothing's

00:14:30 - 00:14:36 | Speaker 2:

going on all right well we love you Bianca and now can you do me a favor can you put this up this

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I'll make a post for you at 8 o'clock, don't worry

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Oh, come on Lydia, you're going to be the one contacting from now on

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