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It's Mojo in the morning show. So, Kevin, I did not know that you are kind of abstaining from having sex. I told you this.

And you said that I couldn't do it.

I said you couldn't do it. How long has

it been? It's been about three weeks. Three weeks? Yeah.

Really? I'm full. And you've been able to do it, huh? Yeah.

I haven't reached out to any old flames, which I feel like is the hardest part when you're not having sex is reaching out to people that, you know, are one call away. What is the reason for your abstinence at the moment? There could be multiple reasons. I feel like one of the reasons that I guess would be closer to the top of the list is I felt like I was living through lust and not really. I don't know. It felt like the wrong way to live my life at the time. it felt like i was only seeing people for that one reason and i wasn't comfortable with myself only having relationships with people to have sex with them without having an end goal like that being what the relationship was all about and it felt like i was being led by lust in that way and

i didn't like that having control over me what got you to the point that you realized i got to do

something about this that's what happened i like a light bulb moment when i was like damn like i feel like i'm being controlled and i don't want to have that controlling me was it like a it was

the just the light bulb popped up or was it over the couple of times that you were the you know prior to that where you started feeling worse and worse each time well i think uh i think it was a

light bulb moment that did pop off but even prior to that i think i may have mentioned it on the show i felt like god had told me not to deal with one person and then i kind of made an excuse of like no I've passed that test and then I realized that I didn't pass the test so it was like two of

those moments together in the three weeks that you have been going uh you know born again virgin have you been tempted at all or has it been hard no it's constant temptation really what what is

the most tempting well when I talked about the other week where the girl showed up at my house yeah when she texted me can I see you tomorrow and I was like yeah and then tomorrow came and I said, don't come. And she actually came. And she's so, yeah, I already knew what that was going to be if I opened the door.

It's funny because it kind of reminds me of, remember those old things where it's like you got the one side is the angel, the other side is the devil on your shoulders and stuff. What has been the most surprising thing, though, that has made you think of sex? Like, I always feel like sometimes when you haven't had it in a while, you know, everything all of a sudden starts looking good to you.

I mean, every scene in a television show or a movie where you just see a nice curvy woman or an attractive woman immediately, like just the sight of a beautiful woman or whatever the scene is on television immediately sends the brain into, oh, yeah, we need to hit up so-and-so or this is our moment to engage in activity.

What do you do in that moment when you feel that way?

but you want to stop yourself what's been your your method try to pray immediately wow yeah and it's it's becoming harder and harder do you think that are you bringing this up because you're thinking about breaking this yeah hell yeah like yesterday i was like you know i almost reached

out to somebody it's just getting harder you do you find your mood is different are you i do i

feel like i feel like i'm not myself in a way and i don't know like when you talk about the devil on one side of the angel on the other i don't know if like in my mind right now it's like bro you just need to release in order to feel more like yourself like i was telling you off air like i feel like depressed a little bit and my mind i feel like wants to trick me to believe like this is the thing that'll get you back to who you are but then you're gonna be back at square one feeling

this way exactly like can i tell you something and you're not in that you're not at that point yet i don't think three weeks is no offense not that long of a time to me well that's to you what i'm saying is what i'm saying is you you may get to a point where it's like out of sight out of mind because i know i felt that way like when my marriage was ending and then when i was going through my divorce and i didn't date anybody before i met west it was years of not having sex and mojo kept asking me don't you feel like don't you feel like horny don't you want to and i was I'm like, nope.

It was like nothing. My biggest thing was not sex with you. My biggest thing was, don't you want companionship? Like it was a, don't you like look at that?

Well, yeah, but that's a totally different subject. Like he's talking very specifically about sex. Right. I get it. And it was, I didn't, it wasn't even crossing my mind until I watched Bridgerton and then I had a, you know, a little bit of an issue.

Oh, really? The actual TV show turned it, made you want to go out again and do it because of the.

No, I mean, that was like, yeah, I was like, oh, I do, you know.

i'm still alive do you look at at female friends differently now like do you feel like you're looking at them less sexual or more sexual since you've had haven't had sex in three weeks i don't know but but going back to talk about you're talking about tv shows and stuff like that

everything being sexual i mean yeah i'm sure i'm looking at you know somebody walk by you know extra right look right where you normally wouldn't look though you said something about companionship And I feel like the companionship thing, yes, but then also I feel like the companionship could lead to sex. So I feel like it's all wrapped in one for real.

I wonder if you would still feel this way if you had only been hooking up with one person instead of several.

Like if I just had one buddy? Yeah. If you know, if you, or if you had a relationship, like if you actually had a relationship, yeah,

we'd be having sex.

Right.

No, no, no, no. That's not what I'm saying. I feel like you're feeling a little bit of shame, and that's why you decided to abstain from doing it. And, like, I wonder if you'd be in this place if you were just focused on one person.

No, I mean, if I was in a relationship, then I don't think we would even be having this conversation.

Marlene, what's up? It's Mojo in the morning.

Hey, good morning. Kevin, I am going to be a five-year celibate in July. I want to give you advice. Shannon's absolutely right. If you go too long, you'll eventually get to the point where you don't even want to be bothered. But when I decided to start giving one of the best parts of me to somebody who couldn't take my mental consideration just as much as he did my physical, it made me feel and find who I really am and what I wanted out of a partner. And now I know what I want because it's not physical. Now, when I do get physical, he better bring it. But it will really change who you are and how you carry yourself and the way your world is. It really will. But don't go too long because you're going to be like, man, I don't need it. I don't need you. And you just become the person that is.

I think one of the things that she said, though, and I have to try to identify, like, her why was very clear. like she was tired of dealing with guys and maybe only wanted her for one part and she wanted the fullness of what a relationship truly is my body and soul for me i'm not abstaining trying to find my mind body and soul person so my why isn't like truly connected to that yeah but you had

you had the whole kit and caboodle with cherelle you know what i'm saying i don't know the the reasons why y'all not together and even your first baby mama um you guys uh had all of that just something was missing so you your inner core wants that whole family vibe but it's just you got to figure out what was missing i believe you got to figure out what was missing in that relationship so that way you'll learn yourself even more and when that girl comes along it's I'm going to be fired, but don't wait too long because you're going to be like me. Like, uh-uh, I'm cool. You bring up a very interesting point, though.

where i talked to my best friend about this because we was trying to get biblical and really identify like where does this like i was trying to when she brings up jasmine who's my son's first mom or my son's only mom um i was trying to identify where are the origins of my lustful spirit coming from like when did i start to feel like looking at not necessarily every woman like object for sex but like when did that start happening and i'm still trying to uncover that because i feel like if i give that answer then it will unlock all these questions well i think

you know a lot of it too is you went from a very committed relationship to all of a sudden we're no longer together and you're like okay it's like a it's like a bachelor all over again so you kind of had your you kind of had some fun for a while but now you're kind of regrouping going i don't know if that's what i want you want to find the one tiffany what's up it's mojo in the morning

oh my god i'm on yes tiffany oh my god i listen to you guys every morning by the way when i have

sex with women they never sound that excited first uh long time what's up is that also no it never happens and yeah what's going on tiffany so listen these guys out here

they made me go celibate there's like dating polish trash yeah so so how long have you been

celibate um it's going on three months okay so kev's going three weeks uh and thinks that's a

long time three months can get kind of long huh yeah yeah but honestly like it's just there's nobody worth it there's nobody out here worth it have you come close at all in the three months yeah my baby daddy but god that he actually maybe turned off on by all men so that's the thing kev

that's an interesting point to make. It is there been anybody that you actually feel comfortable with that you thought of, let me just do this. Cause it's comfortable in the three weeks that you've been doing this.

Of course. Like I said, the girl who showed up at the door, this was somebody I was having consistent, you know, sexual conversations with, so to speak.

It's interesting because I guarantee you most of the, including that girl, when you say, no, I'm not doing this. This is what I'm doing. They all think that you're lying to them. You're probably with another girl. Don't they? Like when that happens, when you don't answer their door, get that far. Because I'm telling you, I think that what ends up happening is they all go, that's a bunch of BS. I'm not doing this. And then they all just show up at the door because they think they're going to catch you doing something. What's up, Jeff? Hi. Oh, by the way, hold on a second. If you think that three weeks is a long time, Jeff, how many years have you been going without sex?

It's been 10 years, which is one reason. Jeff,

you're the 90-year-old virgin or whatever, the 50-year-old virgin. What's up?

no my wife developed breast cancer um and was in too much pain to do anything she actually told me to go out and have my fun as long as i came home and i told her no i said my bowels and i meant it she passed away four years she passed away four and a half years ago

and i still have to build it wow we got to get jeff laid jeff are you have you come have you

have you come close jeff no i tried to get into where i got to be off work so i can bring you guys some donuts from point michigan um to uh meet megan and try to talk to her but now she's

done yeah yeah well drive a little further yeah yeah definitely so but uh well as i give you props it's gonna get harder when when like i say as hard as it could be when when does it uh when

does it get the hardest for you jeff uh when my friends decided to take me out and try to get me didn't get laid and took me to a strip club.

Oh, that's the worst. Yeah, you don't want that. You want to find a good lady like your beloved widow, buddy.

That's going to be hard to find. I just fight with her to spend money. She wouldn't spend money.

That's a dream. That's a dream come true right there. Jeff, I wish you nothing but the best, buddy. Somebody will come your way. Pray for it, buddy.

Oh, I am. You guys have a good one. You too, Jeff.

All right. Oh, man. This is interesting. So, Kevin, three weeks.

What's the longest you've ever gone?

I don't know.

Months or weeks? Like, is this up there?

Consciously, I don't know, to be honest with you. I can't answer that. But I just don't want to give in. That's my only thing.

Any temptation of porn or anything like that?

I don't watch porn. I haven't done anything to myself or to anybody.

Do you want us to put up a sticker chart in the studio? So like every week goes by, you get a star, you get a little gold star. We'll see how long you can go.

It's like going on a diet. This is a sex diet. Toya, what did you want to say to Kev?

Hey, Sam. I love y'all. So I want to say, Kev, I went through this a couple of years ago.

By the way, you can't talk to Kev in the way that you can. you're talking right now listen to her hey talk talk talk talk in a voice that doesn't make him

attracted to you go ahead but kev is attractive so that's gonna be kind of hard mojo but anyway um i went through this a couple years ago and what i did is i just really put my focus on me and i know it sounds cliche but i started doing things like i have a i work but i have a business. I started putting more time in my business. I got back in the gym and started doing consistent workouts. Um, I started hanging out with friends and family and things of that nature. And by the time I got home at the end of the night, I was so exhausted from being busy all day. I mean, y'all get there at what, five something in the morning. And so I'm not saying it's easy, but I think if you really try to focus, I know you said there's a lot of things, Josiah's like, uh, his, his interests are growing, um, in his gaming and things of that nature. So I think if you strategize your time and really put the effort into those things that you love your kids love and that sort of thing it helps take the focus off the physicality of sexual interaction and again it's been two years for me but i do think look i'm not gonna all i'm gonna say is you hot you sexy and um that's all i'm gonna say she wants to break hers with you can i tell you

though that's actually an interesting thing that you say this a lot of people are texting this saying that they put their focus into taking care of their health, their physical health, and mental health, and it will help with that. That's good to tell you. And I've got to get her off the phone before she gets any more tempting for you. I'll have to tell you.

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