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Kevin: Can You Hit on People in Church?
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Kevin: Can You Hit on People in Church?

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August 25, 2025 | 00:12:36 | Leisure

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mojo in the morning show

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man got a question to ask you guys in terms of like when and where it's appropriate to hit on someone or to make a move on someone i need to know where the do's and don'ts are 844 mojo live 844-665-6548 now obviously this comes because i had a situation and i didn't act on it because i don't feel as though it is appropriate i was in church yesterday okay and shout out to motor city church amazing church amazing pastor josh hockey and amazing women who also attend this church i i don't know if these women it's like when they say that it's like the land of milk and honey and there are some beautiful some beautiful women that have chosen this place as the place to love the lord and I am in a position to where obviously like I'm not there for that I'm there to focus on being fed I'm focused on growing my knowledge you know in Christ my relationship and Josiah and that's what we're doing but it's hard because I'm not blind so I see what's around but I don't feel as though I can talk to anybody there because that just feels wrong I a million percent disagree

00:03:44 - 00:03:58 | Speaker 4:

with you actually okay because you are both there because you have a very foundational similarity in your love for god i think it's a great place to meet somebody now i've heard that

00:03:58 - 00:04:17 | Speaker 5:

like if you want to find your wife especially if you're a believer the church is the place to do it yeah you already know to your point the foundation yeah but also don't i feel like that's your time for your relationship with god like how do you like how do you even receive that like bro did you just not hear the sermon like now you're trying to talk to me you know what i mean like

00:04:17 - 00:04:59 | Speaker 4:

i just feel like that'd be a little weird i mean okay first off there is a church in royal oak that i don't know if they still do it well i know they have a sunday 6 p.m service and it's been dubbed the ass mass because so many because so many singles go to that particular service before starting the week and it became for a long time when i was single i remember people telling me I don't even want to shout out the church just in case they don't do it anymore. But you need to go to such and such church Sundays at 6 o'clock for the ass mass. Like people were meeting each other like crazy at this church. So it was a thing. I've gone to a church before when I lived in Atlanta that had singles.

00:05:00 - 00:05:12 | Speaker 1:

um small groups that had singles bible studies because they want like they they wanted to influence that now that i'm now that i'm okay uh-huh like if it's an environment that i don't

00:05:12 - 00:05:27 | Speaker 2:

want to say necessarily caters towards hooking up but fostering healthy relationships for those individuals that are single that maybe want to learn more about their single journey and their walk and then i find somebody who's also on that same path that i can feel is a more appropriate

00:05:27 - 00:05:37 | Speaker 1:

situation so what's the difference you just you feel uncomfortable walking up to one of these women after the service and asking her for her number or asking her out or why because we was

00:05:37 - 00:05:43 | Speaker 2:

just in church like in my mind when i leave church it's my time to meditate and chew on the word that

00:05:43 - 00:05:48 | Speaker 1:

i just received while the service is happening yeah i'm talking about afterwards my brain doesn't

00:05:48 - 00:06:20 | Speaker 2:

just when you know the final organ plays or the doors of the church are open when i walk out of there i'm shut it off and i'm back in the world like i'm still meditating and still digesting and downloading the experience that i just had yeah and to immediately leave out of that experience be like hey man i know this isn't like this isn't the right place and try to hit on somebody just feels like are you not connected to what just happened and you so connected to wanting to talk to me that you immediately are able to make that switch like i feel like that's just too close like i should still be in the mind frame of the sermon we just had i feel you on that actually

00:06:20 - 00:07:00 | Speaker 5:

um when i go to church there's a lot of cute guys at my church i'm not gonna lie you go to mass mass we go to 7 p.m mass not the 6 p.m okay but i am the same way as kevin i will never like try to hit on a guy well first of all i'm learning from lydia i shouldn't be hitting on a guy but i was at a church event like a couple weeks ago and a guy did ask for my number at church and he was like hey like we should start talking more and were you flattered and did you give him your number yes i did i thought it was kind of cute so it's a church event though it is a church event it wasn't like after a mass it was like a event we were having so i think that's a respectable spot but if someone were to ask me as I'm walking on a mass I would be like this is a little weird I'm not going to lie I think that is a little weird

00:07:00 - 00:07:09 | Speaker 1:

you hang out and stuff like after church I go to Kensington and after church a lot of people always hang out in the lobby there's coffee there's donuts there's you know

00:07:09 - 00:07:11 | Speaker 5:

like that's an event I think that's

00:07:11 - 00:07:17 | Speaker 1:

a respectable spot sometimes they have a food truck whatever you wouldn't you wouldn't ask you wouldn't go talk to somebody then

00:07:17 - 00:07:26 | Speaker 2:

when I leave the sermon my brain and my energy is still locked on to what i just experienced so you're telling me you're in a very

00:07:26 - 00:07:36 | Speaker 1:

good clear state of mind which is so different from you being out at a bar intoxicated asking for somebody's number true i just i don't know you know i don't know and your brain is foggy and

00:07:36 - 00:07:54 | Speaker 2:

yeah eight four four six six five six five four eight is it right to ask for a number after church or is that an inappropriate place and are there other places that are inappropriate to ask or hit on someone as well. Let's go to Michael on line one. Michael, good morning, man. What's up? What's up, Kev?

00:07:54 - 00:07:55 | Speaker 3:

How you doing, man?

00:07:55 - 00:07:57 | Speaker 2:

I'm good, man. What's your take on this?

00:07:58 - 00:08:10 | Speaker 3:

So I would say an appropriate time and place would definitely by themselves. You don't want to do it in front of their friends. Ever. You said by yourself.

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Say that again?

00:08:13 - 00:08:16 | Speaker 3:

Don't hit on women in front of their group of friends.

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Oh, so if you see a group of women, don't single one out.

00:08:22 - 00:08:23 | Speaker 3:

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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You know that they're going to laugh at you once you walk away.

00:08:26 - 00:08:29 | Speaker 3:

Right, right. They're going to be clowning, and it's just not going to be a good team.

00:08:29 - 00:08:32 | Speaker 2:

Okay, you sound like you had some experience with this. Did this happen to you?

00:08:33 - 00:08:39 | Speaker 3:

No, no, no. I've been out bar hopping a lot and stuff like that, and I just see my friends make fools out of their selves.

00:08:40 - 00:08:48 | Speaker 2:

So talk to us, man. If you see a woman who's in a group, How do you get her away from the group in order to talk to her? You just let that one go.

00:08:48 - 00:08:59 | Speaker 3:

No, you just do. Sometimes if you're smooth with it, you can just walk up and be like, hey, can I talk to you for a second real quick? It's like, oh, sure. You know what I mean? If you're, you know, look good, smelling good, just pulling up with straight confidence.

00:08:59 - 00:09:03 | Speaker 1:

No, I am not walking away with you. Nope. Big no.

00:09:05 - 00:09:16 | Speaker 2:

See, you're going to end up on a TikTok. Creep on the TM. Hey, Lauren, good morning. Good morning. What do you got to say?

00:09:17 - 00:09:35 | Speaker 4:

So recently I was hit on at my apartment gym. And it's like an 800 square foot gym. There's like two treadmills and some free weights, but there's not a lot going on there. It's a really small space, so it's really uncomfortable. And I have a partner. Oh, okay. To put it in contact, yeah.

00:09:36 - 00:09:38 | Speaker 2:

You should see Shannon's face.

00:09:38 - 00:09:51 | Speaker 4:

I rolled out of bed and I was like, I'll just shower after dinner. It's fine. some clothes, I'm wearing my glasses, like, it's Saturday morning, I'm like, this is the worst place, what about me is attractive right now?

00:09:51 - 00:09:59 | Speaker 1:

Not even that, because I'm sure you look beautiful, and I mean, you're working out, you know, you're not made up to, like, go out, but it's the fact that then you are trapped in this little teeny tiny space.

00:10:00 - 00:10:10 | Speaker 2:

the rest of your workout with this person right and i will like run into him every so often and i'm like hey like what do you say i said like you're a good i have a partner but you're a good

00:10:10 - 00:10:24 | Speaker 6:

gym buddy like what you're a good gym buddy that's hilarious all right i want to talk to josh uh because we i think josh may have some advice for me on this about talking to women in church josh What advice you got for me?

00:10:26 - 00:10:29 | Speaker 5:

Hey, guys. So that's what I'll say. First time, long time.

00:10:29 - 00:10:35 | Speaker 4:

Hey, Josh. What's up, Josh?

00:10:35 - 00:10:36 | Speaker 5:

Yep. I just want to add.

00:10:39 - 00:10:41 | Speaker 6:

Go ahead, Josh. I'm listening to you.

00:10:41 - 00:10:49 | Speaker 5:

What's stopping you from just asking nice young ladies out and digesting you together over a coffee or something?

00:10:49 - 00:11:24 | Speaker 6:

I mean, yeah. I mean, that's the point. i just i just want to be respectful of the moment we just had and i feel as though if i'm immediately i guess silencing the experience that we just received to say hey you look cold as hell you know obviously not seeing it like that but i'm attracted to you do you want to talk further about this i just feel like that's i would look at that as slimy like you just are you just using what just took place as an entry point or are you not as connected spiritually and you just here looking for women like i feel like it's just not the right it's not the right time and i can respect

00:11:24 - 00:11:29 | Speaker 5:

that but it's not like you're asking her to go bake cookies or nothing you know right yeah we're

00:11:29 - 00:11:40 | Speaker 1:

just baking bibles even you saying i don't want to be disrespectful of you like digesting what we just heard yeah you starting with that yeah i think to me it would be amazing okay okay i want

00:11:40 - 00:11:49 | Speaker 6:

we heard from josh well received than you think yes you're right maybe i'm i could be overthinking You're right. Let's get another female's point of view on this. True, you there?

00:11:50 - 00:12:20 | Speaker 3:

Yeah, I'm here. What's up, True? First time caller. Long time listener. True, what's up? What's up? So, yeah, I had an experience like that. I was trying to find a church home, and my first time ever visiting a church, after service he walked up to me and asked for my number and it like instantly like turned me off and I never went back to that church again

00:12:20 - 00:12:23 | Speaker 6:

now how did he approach you do you remember what he said

00:12:23 - 00:13:01 | Speaker 3:

um so his initial question was uh did you enjoy service and then after that he was like yeah so you want to go out I'm like what like no I'm just trying to get the word was he attractive maybe see if he was attractive this would be a different story he was ugly true he's ugly no but still I think it's all in timing if you keep going link up with her it's all in timing

00:13:01 - 00:13:10 | Speaker 6:

I appreciate that true thank you alright Sean good morning Sean Yes, how are you doing? Good, Sean. How are you?

00:13:11 - 00:13:16 | Speaker 4:

All right. My thought was you could strike up a conversation with a girl.

00:13:16 - 00:13:17 | Speaker 6:

Mm-hmm.

00:13:17 - 00:13:24 | Speaker 4:

And over like a week or two, you just talk to her. And afterwards, you could probably get her number.

00:13:25 - 00:13:30 | Speaker 6:

Got you. So try to see her again. Maybe sit in the same section. Or if I see her.

00:13:30 - 00:13:46 | Speaker 4:

Yep, sit in the same section, start conversations. maybe like after church y'all can you know talk to each other a little bit both y'all go y'all separate ways and after like a couple weeks you can probably ask for her you you breaking up man

00:13:46 - 00:13:53 | Speaker 6:

i feel more uncomfortable having this conversation i did with her i want to talk to jesseline jesseline

00:13:53 - 00:14:23 | Speaker 2:

good morning what do you got to say to hi good morning so i met my husband in um church we've been married 14 years and um i would say make a decision not on lust but like pray on it you know don't be creepy like some of these guys like true was talking about um but just think about it pray about it and let it happen naturally yeah i feel you because that's one of the things i'm focused

00:14:23 - 00:14:28 | Speaker 6:

on too like i don't want to just approach her because she look good you know exactly yeah so

00:14:28 - 00:14:35 | Speaker 2:

But have the right motive. Don't be so quick about it. And then it's not going to come off as so, like, unnatural and freaky.

00:14:35 - 00:15:00 | Speaker 6:

I feel you. Because one of the ones yesterday, her Bible was thicker than her ass. And I was like, I kind of like that. Don't say that. I would never say that. I would never say that. But that's a good gauge, though. If the Bible's bigger than the booty, you're heading in the right direction. All right, never mind. Just in a second. I ruined the whole thing. I ruined it. Hey, this is Ryan Seacrest here. And if you're looking for some serious fun, head over to Chumbot Casino.

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