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Losing Friends
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Losing Friends

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All right, it's Mojo in the morning show. So you have a friend that is not too happy with you, huh?

00:01:57 - 00:03:05 | Speaker 4:

yeah for sure i had a friend who had an event the this past weekend and we're not this is not like my best friend but we are friends and i didn't attend the event that he had but the next day i called i didn't wait till the end of the day i waited you know it was like the middle of the day like noon or something i called him told him uh you know i pray for you super excited about your event how did it go and all this stuff we were having a good conversation i could tell him the energy though that he wasn't as excited that i as excited as i thought he would be to tell me about what was going on and he paused and he was like can i be honest with you i'm like yeah yeah like what's going on he's like i get it because the reason that i told him is i wanted to stay home with journey and sherelle and that whole thing and he's like i get it but i just feel like it's an excuse like you're trying to use your daughter as an excuse like you couldn't just pop by for a second and then go back home i'm kind of like i kind of understand what you're saying but at the same time i don't believe in my theory as all is like people who don't have kids don't always believe in your kid excuse quote air quotes and uh yeah that's just what that's just what it is a

00:03:05 - 00:03:23 | Speaker 6:

lot of times a lot of times there are people that uh that don't have kids that will say to you that you're spending too much time with your kids they'll have that but then there are some people that do use their kids as excuses and they won't do things because they say i got you know get home

00:03:23 - 00:03:33 | Speaker 8:

to the family and all the rest of that stuff yeah but i did notice when when i had kids that certain friends kind of fell off like they disappeared and it sucks but they just you know

00:03:33 - 00:03:52 | Speaker 2:

to be fair i know you're looking at it from one perspective to be the other perspective on this your priorities have changed rightfully so yeah but i'm not a priority in your life anymore and as somebody who doesn't have kids to be a priority as well i'm gonna find other people that make me a priority yeah yeah i think that's not a bad thing like that i agree i agree it's just life

00:03:52 - 00:04:02 | Speaker 4:

i don't i do not think it's a bad thing the only time that i think it turns bad is when you try to make your friend feel like they were a bad friend for having a child yeah that's the only time where

00:04:02 - 00:04:15 | Speaker 6:

i'm like i agree well he's he's actually saying to you that when you say that you had to be home with the kids that you could have found a little bit of time yeah you can't just come and i live

00:04:15 - 00:04:39 | Speaker 4:

in west bloomfield he downtown detroit so the event would have been like a 35 minute thing there's no popping in there's no i got a plan to do that it's gonna take me just an hour and travel alone to get there and get back and the reality is i just wanted to spend time with my daughter you know what i mean like it's when it's different you know what i mean and for some people their pets are like their kids and you understand what it's like to just cuddle up with your baby and that's what it

00:04:39 - 00:05:00 | Speaker 6:

is and i'm not gonna lie to you i think time of year is bad too because i think when it happens in the winter time you don't want to do things like you don't want to go out you don't want to get dressed summertime at least it's easier to kind of go out and do things the other thing too is it doesn't it has to do with the the event like if if somebody says hey i got something going on

00:05:00 - 00:06:22 | Speaker 3:

Can you meet me at B-dubs, you know, on a Saturday? Oh, good. I don't have to get dressed up. If I got to get dressed up for something, like if I got to wear pants, I don't like to wear pants. You know what I mean? Like, that's why summertime is so easy where if somebody, if a buddy says, hey, we're having, you know, this, like, but he was having a golf outing thing and he's like, I will not play in golf outings. So don't ever ask me to play in a golf outing because golf outings take 8,000 hours. like i love golfing but i hate playing in golf outings because it's just slow and it's long it's a whole day it's like you've got to you start at like eight o'clock in the morning you don't get home until nine or ten o'clock at night and so i say i'll just stop by and i'll say hey to you so what i'll do is i'll stop by usually get there for you know an hour after they're golfing say hey to everybody maybe have a drink do a you know a silent auction crap or whatever and then get going where if you say like what was this thing is this a big to do fashion thing oh christ A fashion thing Does he not know that you have no fashion I mean I'm just kidding I saw that you were I saw that you were slides to To the jingle ball I'm coming crazy I promise y'all I'm coming so crazy Sweatpants and slides on I promise you I'm coming so crazy to the jingle ball

00:06:22 - 00:06:28 | Speaker 2:

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00:06:31 - 00:06:38 | Speaker 3:

Megan, do you feel like any of the members of the show use their kids as excuses to get out of certain things? Or does that ever happen?

00:06:40 - 00:07:41 | Speaker 5:

I don't think so. I try as much as possible not to ask you guys to do anything because why would I hang out with you? I will say I do get frustrated sometimes with my friends that are parents because and hear me out before you jump to conclusions I know a lot of the time my friends will bend over backwards so that their husbands can go out and do things and they don't get reciprocated that same treatment so when I do ask you to do something as a friend I understand that you can't get a babysitter I understand that it is a big ask which is why I don't ask often I only ask when it's important and when your significant others can't meet you at the same place you meet them then I get frustrated because not only is your wife's time not valuable her friendships aren't valuable as well which makes me feel even more less than which again priorities understandably should change when you have kids but it is it hurts it does in a selfish way it

00:07:41 - 00:07:54 | Speaker 3:

hurts I I like to stay connected with my friends of mine and my kids are older so I don't have to worry about this so much i've disowned them already and i like just to invite people to

00:07:54 - 00:08:32 | Speaker 1:

my house and say let's just hang out it's so much easier yeah that's kind of the phase or the stage of life i'm in right now too of like even the lions game last weekend um god it still hurts my heart to talk about that um but even the lions game last weekend like i had my kids and it was so much easier for me to have people over because then i'm like i don't have to like rally them to go somewhere if they start acting crazy or tired or whatever they can just go upstairs to go to bed i don't have to leave somewhere you know it's so much more convenient uh 844 mojo live 844-665-6548

00:08:32 - 00:09:03 | Speaker 3:

texas 95500 i'd love to hear your perspective on this one about you know people who have kids using their kids as their excuse to not have to be friends with you or do things with you that friends should do um and then people who don't have kids you know feeling like hey you know you chose the kids over me uh mojo in the morning what's up anisa how are you good how are you good we're talking about how friends get upset at parents or especially new parents because they

00:09:03 - 00:09:45 | Speaker 4:

never hang out with them anymore after they have kids right so i have two under two um and so going out and even like with the kids and stuff like that it's kind of hard because they have specific nap ways so like my daughter right now she only really likes to fall asleep with a bottle and bean rock and not everybody has a rocking chair to at their house so rock my daughter so it's kind of hard going out with them um especially the like family events and stuff like that because like my family will always have us over yeah for like they want to see the

00:09:45 - 00:10:25 | Speaker 3:

kids what are your so your single friends that don't understand this and how old are you by the way say that again you got cut out i'm 23 okay so that see that happened to chelsea night chelsea and I had Joe, our son. when chelsea was uh 20 years old and i was 23 just about turned 24 years old and all of our friends had no kids they were dating or they were you know uh hanging out whatever partying and stuff and so it became an issue where you end up finding like people i we our friendship base grew so much older you know because we started like hanging out with like 35s and 40s and stuff

00:10:25 - 00:10:31 | Speaker 5:

like that people who are on the same stage exactly different stages yeah but i will say this a lot of

00:10:31 - 00:10:39 | Speaker 3:

our friends loved being around our kids because our kids were kind of cool and it made for for a lot of fun and they were good birth control for our friends but i also but i talk about that all

00:10:39 - 00:10:59 | Speaker 5:

the time i i cry about moving to detroit away from my friends and her kids and missing those things i get that i just wish there was a balance yeah you know like i i want to be around your kids i want to go to your space i want to make things easier but every once in a while i want go get smashed go judge people in public trust me so do we

00:10:59 - 00:11:21 | Speaker 3:

i have to tell you the funniest is though please come get me the the funniest are friends who are not parents come hang over you know with you and we'll be like vaping right in front of your kids kind of doing their thing and you're like oh okay well if i take that away from them they I mean, they may not show up anymore, but.

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