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Meaghan's Looking For a Dad
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Meaghan's Looking For a Dad

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So I thought Megan didn't like kids. And I don't understand this next topic here because she's going to talk about the fact that she is, are you willing to date somebody with kids?

00:02:47 - 00:02:53 | Speaker 3:

I think I've kind of changed my mind on this. I don't hate kids. I don't know where that came from.

00:02:53 - 00:02:56 | Speaker 5:

Wait, what did you say about people with babies and stuff?

00:02:56 - 00:03:22 | Speaker 3:

F them babies. F them babies. Okay, for people who don't know the context of where F them babies started, we were drunk in a girl's bathroom, right? New mom was out for the first time ever, leaving her baby at home with dad, and she wanted to go home. And I said, no, it's a girl's night. F that baby. It's not like I hate kids. I was just telling her to have a good self-care night with her girlfriends. But also, F them babies

00:03:22 - 00:03:24 | Speaker 2:

There it is

00:03:24 - 00:05:00 | Speaker 3:

So I don't hate kids I just don't think that I want any of my own And I have a few people in my life right now Who don't have kids Who just started dating people Who do have kids And at first I think they were both a little Are you ready for a big word? A little trepidatious But An educated woman man um i think they were a little on the fence about it at first and now both of them are loving it and here's the thing i don't think i would have liked this when i was like 21 but now that i'm 30 i learned that when you date somebody with kids there's so much structure and so many expectations of like time commitments and i am here for it like they'll be like nope i have the kids for the next four days it's free me time or oh uh next three days kids are with dad. I'm going to be spending time with them. Or the kids have school in the morning. I have to leave by nine o'clock, whatever it is. And there are so many just like healthy boundaries that are clearly communicated that they are loving it and don't feel like they're being pressured into anything. My only issue is like, if you're a single parent, right? And you're starting to date somebody. Do you have any expectations down the road at all for your partner to step up in a parental role and i'm i'm not talking about like you've dated for a month oh my god your dad i'm saying like four years from now it's still pretty serious do you expect your partner to be a parent because if i could be like the fun stepmom and not like the authoritative

00:05:00 - 00:05:08 | Speaker 2:

or the or like a nanny like an occasional nanny or something right i think i'm sign up for that

00:05:08 - 00:05:12 | Speaker 3:

way more willingly than i would in the past or the clown that comes to a birthday party

00:05:12 - 00:05:37 | Speaker 2:

that's what i'll be every now and again um okay so as a you know as you guys have gone through you know divorces spike and shannon uh and we all you know we have kids you don't want somebody that's just going to be like Shannon you date you're dating with young kids you want somebody that you know is going to be good to your kids and not your kids you don't want somebody that's

00:05:37 - 00:05:54 | Speaker 4:

just yeah oh my gosh of course like of course what I was when I you know knew that it was time to get out there put myself out there I knew that I wanted to date somebody who maybe not only had kids but definitely was was good with kids and was open to being around kids so are you saying

00:05:54 - 00:05:58 | Speaker 2:

that you would would you not have dated somebody that didn't have kids no not i mean i would i

00:05:58 - 00:06:09 | Speaker 4:

absolutely would have okay i'm just saying i i was open to both but definitely they had to you know be be open to me having kids and want to be around kids and want to be be good to my kids

00:06:09 - 00:06:15 | Speaker 2:

yeah and spike you you're dating some uh someone right now uh meg your girlfriend who has a young

00:06:15 - 00:06:51 | Speaker 1:

kid yeah he's just about to turn six and i had to really consider that was a big commitment because you don't want to bring anyone into your life and this i would imagine would be what my girlfriend meg would say too neither of us would want to bring someone in our life that doesn't put the kids first you know i wasn't going to dare date anybody that didn't understand that my kids come first but also that wanted to welcome my kids into their life and be a part of their lives and be a part of you know them as they grow because they're going to be around the house all the time and if you don't like my kids i don't like you forget it yeah i get that but like do you have any

00:06:51 - 00:06:57 | Speaker 3:

expectations for that partner right no i know what you're asking i'm missing my question no no i got

00:06:57 - 00:07:26 | Speaker 4:

what you're saying talked about this at great lengths because you know obviously as we move forward in our relationship the plan is to one day get married i would hope so um and please um but if you could put up with me for that long but you know his whole thing is he is not going to replace Andrew he's never replacing dad but he's on the sidelines and when he needs to be you know when we need help with the game we can we can bring him into the equation yeah and he is like

00:07:26 - 00:07:33 | Speaker 2:

ready and willing to do that so so are you starting to open up Megan to your dating profile to be

00:07:33 - 00:08:21 | Speaker 3:

I'll date single dads yeah but here's the other thing though I do feel like me not wanting to have kids is an absolute deal breaker for people so I I actually think it would be better if but I don't want to be a mom like not that I don't like kids I know we joke about that a lot I actually love kids I want my brother to have a kid so bad I would make a fantastic aunt let me spoil let me have fun let me return you know what I'm saying you'd make a fantastic like you said you don't want to be a mom you'd be a fantastic stepmom you would but I don't want to be the the mom role but I feel like if I dated somebody who had kids already then there's no pressure on me to continue to have in case it just takes one thing off of like the red flag list if it's not a priority in the relationship you don't like does that make sense well i know your dad's been real

00:08:21 - 00:08:35 | Speaker 1:

secretive with his dating life but he has he ever had long-term girlfriends yes and were they in your life were they welcoming or did they kind of keep to themselves um fun question um i think at

00:08:35 - 00:08:51 | Speaker 3:

first they're welcoming and then they get to learn more about my brother and i and then they hate us No, I'm kidding. No, not super involved, but we were also adults. My dad didn't seriously start dating until I was like 22. So at that point, you're not going to be a parent to me anyways.

00:08:53 - 00:09:46 | Speaker 1:

Because I asked that question because I know people who also they would start dating later in life. And they had the spouse that was not involved at all in their kids' lives. And I think that's so weird to me. Like, I don't understand how you can bring someone into your life that's not going to be fully immersed in your kids' lives because why should you have to choose which one you're going to spend time with each night or whatever, you know? Like, I'm totally there in Meg's son's life, but I don't act like I'm replacing his dad. His dad's the most important. I'm there to support, help however I can. Obviously, he's living with us part of the time, so I'm there to help out however possible and however you want me to. But I couldn't imagine Meg bringing me into her life if I wasn't into her son at all. Like, if I couldn't be bothered because it's, oh my gosh, these are the developmental years for him. So, obviously.

00:09:47 - 00:10:00 | Speaker 3:

I feel like a lot of times when you are dating somebody and you say like, oh, I don't want kids, especially guys, we'll be like, yeah, me too. And they'll like easily go along with it. But then once things get a little bit more serious, they change their mind and then the pressure.

00:10:00 - 00:10:09 | Speaker 7:

really changes so i just i think it would actually be easier if i dated somebody so you're saying you're you're like on the lookout specifically for a guy who has kids i just think it would be easier

00:10:09 - 00:10:16 | Speaker 4:

uh stacy yes what's up it's mojo in the morning what you want to say hi i just wanted to tell

00:10:16 - 00:10:41 | Speaker 6:

megan that i never wanted kids either and now i have a stepson he's literally the best thing ever I am the stepmom role I'm also the cool aunt role Like all rolled into one He's like the best thing that ever happened to me So don't exclude somebody with kids Because they could really bring A really special place in your life That you didn't know that you wanted

00:10:41 - 00:10:49 | Speaker 4:

Nice, nice to know Trucker Brian Megan's got a lot of trucker fans out there What's going on?

00:10:50 - 00:10:53 | Speaker 5:

Yeah, I got a 10 year old daughter That Megan would adore Megan?

00:10:54 - 00:10:58 | Speaker 7:

Wow, you're throwing your name into the hat. Yes. Daughters scare me.

00:11:02 - 00:11:06 | Speaker 5:

She's a very good girl, and she will talk your ear off.

00:11:06 - 00:11:07 | Speaker 8:

Okay.

00:11:07 - 00:11:15 | Speaker 5:

Okay, does? She loves to cheerlead. Okay. She's been cheerleading, actually. Does she like Harry Styles?

00:11:16 - 00:11:19 | Speaker 4:

Yeah. Go ahead. Does she like Harry Styles?

00:11:20 - 00:11:21 | Speaker 5:

Yeah. Okay, then we're good.

00:11:21 - 00:11:28 | Speaker 4:

Question for you, Trucker Brian. Are you using your daughter to try to get laid? No. Okay.

00:11:28 - 00:11:30 | Speaker 7:

Oh, well, don't shut me down so quick.

00:11:31 - 00:11:34 | Speaker 4:

He lied when he said that. What's up, Laura? How are you doing?

00:11:35 - 00:11:37 | Speaker 7:

I'm good. How are you guys? Good.

00:11:37 - 00:11:43 | Speaker 4:

What do you think about this? Megan's now open to dating single dads or single moms. Who knows?

00:11:44 - 00:12:23 | Speaker 7:

So my dynamic is a little bit different. My son's never met his father. so anyone that I date that comes into our lives it's not like it's like Spike and Shannon where their children have the other parent involved right and they don't want to step on anyone's toes in my situation there really isn't anyone to step on their toes um and I kind of let my son um guide the relationship and decide for himself how much he wants like a partner to be involved I mean I haven't dated it almost three years now um but my last serious relationship I kind to let him guide it and and make the decision on how much he wants that person that's like the

00:12:23 - 00:12:47 | Speaker 4:

healthiest thing to do that's what you're supposed to do yeah but what if your son says i don't like him and you really like him like what if the son's irrational about it in uh and uh he's not though that's i mean if my son was like i understand he's not but what would you do literally loves everybody would you cut off every guy that he didn't like yeah okay because because sometimes Sometimes kids get jealous and they want to see you single.

00:12:48 - 00:13:05 | Speaker 7:

No, my son doesn't want me to be in a relationship by any means. Sometimes he'll be like, Mom, you should get a boyfriend because, like, I don't have anyone to hang. Like, my mom has all sisters. I have all female cousins. It's like a whole family of women. And he's sometimes like, you should get a boyfriend so I can, like, play video games with someone.

00:13:06 - 00:13:15 | Speaker 4:

Oh, that's how well. Okay. Megan plays video games, too. Are you opposed to that? Megan, you didn't say in the beginning. Are you looking for a single dad or a single mom or both?

00:13:15 - 00:13:16 | Speaker 8:

Both.

00:13:16 - 00:13:19 | Speaker 2:

I don't care. Anybody that doesn't want to pressure me into having my own kids.

00:13:19 - 00:13:25 | Speaker 7:

Honestly, I'm not into women. No offense, Megan. Love you. Oh, my God. I'm just getting rejected left and right today.

00:13:25 - 00:13:27 | Speaker 4:

No, Trucker Brian texts back saying he's India.

00:13:28 - 00:14:02 | Speaker 7:

I would be looking for a partner exactly like, Megan, I don't want any more kids. I don't want someone that has a child and we have to navigate the kids getting along. It seems really, really difficult. i would want someone that is open to you know loving my kid in a small parental ish type of way you know where if my kid acts up and they're alone he's gonna be like don't do that he's not gonna be like yeah let's not tell mom yeah but doesn't want more kids and doesn't have kids themselves so i i think it's an option for megan i don't think it's too far-fetched to even want

00:14:02 - 00:14:07 | Speaker 4:

that megan it sounds like she's looking for just a babysitter if it's you though that's what it it sounds like.

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