Yeah, there it is, there it is Now, if you're wondering, okay, why was this a secret date? Well, the guy that she went on the date with, she had met through an online dating site. And one of her friends had already matched with this guy earlier in the year and had also gone on a couple of dates with him. But it didn't work out. Not that it was bad or anything. They just realized it maybe wasn't going anywhere. Not a match. But it wasn't even, I asked her, I was like, so did they end it? And she was like, no, they just kind of stopped talking to each other. And then I wondered, well, is that breaking girl code or not? Because they didn't actually say, I'm not interested, sorry, move on. It just kind of phased out, which doesn't always mean I wasn't interested. Could you just met? It wasn't our time right now. So is it breaking girl code that she went out with him? Because she didn't tell her friend she did. And she's not until she, like, decides if she likes him or not.