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i feel horrible because i'm bad with names but i always have been so it's nothing to take personal but um who is this nice uh girl that is filling in for bianca her name maddie is that maddie so maddie's her maddie has been filling in so bianca is our uh social uh show director she is taking some time off she had time off planned like this trip plan before this job became available so she took the time off which is interesting because she was so nervous to tell us that that she had this time off that she was like first let me accept the job and make sure that i get it right and then let me see if i got the insurance on my travel and we're like no no no take your job you got or take your uh your trip but uh then we also realized we need to have a backup when any of us are gone we need to have backups and so maddie hi maddie i met you before maddie maddie i get you confused because there's another uh person that looks almost like you guys

could be sisters what's her name um maggie maggie maggie has blonde hearing glasses as well on the

promo team that look a lot alike you guys seriously that everybody looks like uh i feel like uh i'm watching that mormon wives show or something like that where all the wives look the same or something we're all twins it's wild so thank you for doing this what's your background what do you do um i

work a lot in video a lot in photo i've been a video editor for a few years yeah it's just fun things like that did you go to school for this i did where uh school craft community college i graduated with my associates in 3d and video graphics okay video editing it's funny i actually

They got a great program over there. They also have one of the best chef programs in all of Michigan.

They do. I was a student ambassador, so I had to talk about it all the time.

All right. Well, Maddie, it's funny because I'm not going to know you as that because Kev ran into the studio during one of the commercial breaks.

Quite literally ran.

He goes into Lydia's producer's room, which is where you've been hanging out, which is for those who don't understand, it's not connected to our studio here. It's literally like five doors away. Like it's that far away. And he comes running in here with his big old fricking hoofs on. And he runs in here and he goes, you're not going to believe this. We got a topic that we got to talk about today. And I go, well, what's that topic? And he goes, have you ever heard of asexuals? And I'm like, what's this all about? First off, are you okay with talking about this?

I'm totally cool with it. All right.

So I want to be, so Kev came in here because, and Shannon will attest to this because she was in here too.

I never heard of an asexual before.

You talk with an accent now. Very proper accent. You never heard of a person that's asexual? And I told Maddie this too. The first time that I heard the term asexual was somebody referenced that's what Michael Jackson was.

Is that true?

That's what I heard. I heard that Michael Jackson was asexual. He didn't like either. First of all, can you give a proper definition of what asexual is?

It's a spectrum of not feeling like sexual attraction. It's different from romantic attraction, which would be like aeromantic, which is where you don't feel like romantic attraction. But sexual attraction is like separate. So it's just like the lack of feeling.

So like you have and you identify as asexual. Which is why you're in here, obviously, if people have not connected two and two.

No, no, no. That's not why you're in here. You're in here because you do great video work.

I'm in here because I'm amazing, obviously. I don't want it to sound. So you just don't feel any need to have sex. with a guy or a girl ever can i ask like a personal question go ahead do you do you ever feel any need to like pleasure yourself no nothing so there's nothing there's just nothing okay

different people on the spectrum like feel differently so some still participate and some don't but it's i personally don't feel anything when you say on the spectrum i'm thinking of the

show love on the spectrum which has now become my new favorite show not that spectrum is a different

spectrum it's a different spectrum so okay the spectrum of asexuality so it's like basically like a hundred percent is where like you feel like sexual attraction there's like zero percent

where you feel nothing yeah by the way all of this uh considered here like in all this i can't

how did it get to that conversation with kevin yes it always leads some way but in my mind like my mind is blown and i'm more inquisitive and curious because i've never had the opportunity to have a conversation about this and if you ate if you asexual please a for formal joe lie We got to like, let's talk about it.

Are you thinking that if we get a bunch of asexuals together, we will actually make them some kind of a sexual?

I don't know. I ain't think that deep.

Do they have like a group, by the way? Are you in any Facebook groups or anything like that?

No, I am not.

I think that would be an interesting group. I don't know if necessarily I'd be entertained by it. Everybody's just talking about nothing sexual.

It would definitely feel great to like not be alone. So do you date? I do, yes.

So you make, like you want companionship. Companionship you want a connection with somebody and do you make it very clear right off the bat that that's just not part of what you're

Interested in I usually do just to be upfront about it because a lot of people like that's what they're looking for Obviously, and then that's just not me. Is it in your profile? It is yes

What is it like where does that fall in the profile like under usually it's like part of the sexuality

So okay, you can like click it you can also like add it obviously like under like your bio or whatever

Sorry, let's get into who are you dating? Are you dating men or women men? Okay. All right. You kiss people?

I do.

Do y'all touch and stuff?

I suppose.

But when you touch, there's no arousal that takes place.

No. It's like I am just there. That's how I always describe it. Like, it's, like, not a negative thing, but it's not a positive thing either. Like, I'm literally just there.

So your partner can get all the things. You're good with that. But for you, it's just not. You're just doing it for your partner.

Yeah. Oh, see, that's where I misunderstood. I thought it was, like, nothing. Like, you didn't partake in any of that because you're just not interested.

not sex but you know anything other things other things yeah okay this is really interesting i

would think as a partner of yours as a guy that's there i'd be like this is not fun she's not interested at all she's just doing it yeah just uh yeah you know as as being nice to me happy

yeah yeah have relationships not gone the way that maybe you would hope for them to because

you're asexual they usually have like a rough patch because that's obviously always like a conversation unless it's someone else who's also feels like like they have a lower libido or they have like a lack of attraction but you know it's been overall fine but you know you obviously that I talk about it at the beginning so that's something that people realize up front and that it's not changing. When did you realize this about yourself? Um about a year ago actually I was I never really like thought too hard about it I never thought that it wasn't like normal that I wasn't feeling this I thought it was just like my lack of socialization growing up because I was homeschooled okay so i was talking to a friend and we were like relating on something and i said something and she was like oh are you asexual and i it just kind of clicked right then and there that i was like oh maybe i am maybe this like fits me yeah uh what's up shay it's mojo in the

morning we have maddie the baddie here in the studio with us right now good morning maddie the

maddie good morning what's going on well i have kind of a question and statement type thing so let me ask you and please don't take offense in any way but they've come out with all these all these labels okay in the last few years that didn't exist i'm 57 so these things didn't exist when i was younger and i can say like As a woman, I've gone through hormonal phases where I don't want to. Absolutely. It doesn't. Same. And so I'm wondering, have you had your hormones checked to make sure that there's not, I mean, maybe your hormones are just out of whack.

That is a possibility. That is something that I've considered. But it's also just never something that I've really, like, wanted to partake in. It's never something that I've been interested in or even, like, wanted to enjoy, I guess.

Do you talk to your parents about that?

I do not, no.

Do they know you're asexual?

They do not. Oh, until now.

Well, we should have told them before you went on the radio with us.

Well, maybe they're not listening. Okay, let's hope not.

It's interesting. The last caller's comment, Shay's comment, I think is something that there was a generation where nobody ever talked about stuff like this. So it didn't happen. But also, I wonder if doctors, if they have a reasoning for this, like of why you have never felt the pleasure of this or you've even you've never you've never felt like there's been

any pleasure at all no i usually tend to describe it so if you're straight you obviously like don't feel sexual attraction towards a man or if you're straight you don't feel sexual attraction towards women that's just kind of how i feel towards people in towards people yeah yeah um because

it's because we know and shannon actually was open with this when she first started the show she was like i never really had an orgasm like that was one of the things so it's not like

But there are a lot of, you say damn, that is not uncommon whatsoever with women. There are so many women that they probably don't want to admit it, but they cannot orgasm just by having sex. Like something else needs to be happening.

Will, what's up? It's Mojo in the morning.

Hey, Mojo. How's it going?

Good, buddy. What's going on?

So I would assume that I am also asexual. I just, I'm at the point in life where I don't feel the need to bake cookies. Um, even, even bake alone. Uh, and I don't know. It's, it's kind of, uh, have you always been that way? No, I actually have five kids under the age of 10.

Wow.

Okay. So are you currently in a relationship?

And with a baby mama, we are engaged. Um, and I think it's at a point where it's actually dampering our relationship. I don't know if it's like low testosterone or what, but I just, I don't, you know, I don't, I don't feel the need for me to have to do anything. But then it weighs on my mind that I feel the need to help, you know, her. It might be where she needs to be.

It might be like with that last caller saying, go get tested and see, or tell your doctor, your medical doctor and see what their recommendation is. I mean, I don't, I don't know what, I'm not a doctor. I just talk on the radio, but I think that it might be, there you go. I'll take a doctorate from anybody that wants to give it to me.

Uh, but I will, my mojo is gone mojo.

Well, can I be honest with you though? Uh, it could be a testosterone thing. Like you said, it could also be, you got five kids under 10. I mean, you don't have much time for anything at that time. You know what I mean?

And that's another thing is I think that by the end of the day, I'm tired. So worn out.

Yeah.

And yeah, just, just that.

I get it.

But can I also say one more thing?

First time, long time?

No, no, no.

Oh, okay. Go ahead.

Mojo. Yes. I want to congratulate you for being nominated.

Oh, that's very nice. I was hoping that we'd be nominated.

For the Radio Hall of Fame.

That's right, baby! I'm a two-time loser and a three-time nominee. Let's hope this is the... I know how you got through. Third time's a charm.

Thank you. 25 years.

Thank you.

Running Mojo.

And the best testosterone I've had in years. Hence... Well, I hope mine will... I take testosterone. I'm going to tell you something. I had no drive at all. Now I'm chasing my wife around like crazy. She actually wishes she was asexual. I don't need any more kids. But I will say this. Go talk to your doctor about it. Seriously. And Maddie, for Maddie, I'm not going to tell you what you should do too, but I would actually have this conversation also if you feel comfortable with your closest people to you. like i actually you know like my my kids don't talk to us about their sex lives very much i would assume but when my son did tell us that he was gay and this is nothing i'm not going to try to compare or anything like that but i'm saying when he did tell us it made our conversation so much easier where he didn't have to hide yeah how he felt like i want i want my kids to be open and honest with me like when we're having conversations of things not to ask and things to ask right you Do you feel like you're hiding that from your parents?

I wouldn't say hiding it, but it's not something that I would go and tell them.

Yeah.

And a lot of people have different relationships with their parents, too. That that's just not a comfortable thing to talk to, you know, mom or dad. I talk about it with my close friends. Sure. They all hear all of my voice notes rambling.

Do they find it to be odd or they are understanding?

They all tend to be very understanding. They all at least, like, have empathy and understand, like, where I'm coming from, even if they don't relate.

A lot of people like myself are ignorant to asexuality. If I'm saying that right.

what's like one of the biggest misconceptions about it um that's a great question i i'm not sure actually i feel like a lot of people just assume so much like the moment you say it and then i'm like not big on assumptions so people always assume things like no matter what i say so then like you know it's always inaccurate like me to a different person like they're gonna we're different people so it's gonna be different things you know so i feel like that's like the biggest things people just assume yeah yeah i i and that's the thing today i assumed that there was nothing happening whatsoever and you saying that you do certain things but you know kimberly says

that she's asexual and she loves it is that right kimberly i do i don't even talk to guys no women either that's just gross but well i don't know if it's gross but i like it but but well you're a man so but i i but kimberly so you what do you love about it well i don't have to worry

about like seizing anybody and it's not worth it to me a man has never got me off anyway so what's

the point well how long when did you realize you were asexual probably about two years ago

and it what was it that made you realize that was it a another bad experience well yeah i mean

And you can only have sex so many times before you realize that you can do it better yourself.

Okay. Well, so you're at least doing it better yourself because Maddie's not even doing that.

Well, I mean, sorry, Maddie.

You're good.

Hey, can I? You need a Naughty Nubby. That's what you need. Oh, Kevin. Kevin just opened up his laptop so fast.

Wow. How do you spell that? Naughty Nubby.

Naughty Nubby. They sell them at your favorite sex stores. Go to Adam and Eve. Can I say something real quick to you, Kimberly? Hearing all the bad dating stories that the others bring around here to this show, honestly, would make me asexual. Like, to hear how bad these guys are out there right now these days on dating apps, and how un, I guess, romantic it is nowadays to date.

It's awful.

That would make me asexual. I feel like a lot of people are going to call themselves asexuals because they've had such bad dates, you know?

I will say I was feeling that way before I did even start dating it was just something that like it was always like Just this lack of feeling and I never related to people talking about it So it's like something that's kind of always been there and now you put a name to it

It makes sense. Yes. And now yeah, you never had one of those moments like in school where you saw somebody I was homeschooled Oh, that's right. Yeah, never saw a neighbor

You know, I wasn't allowed to my neighbors much

are you part of a cult or were you locked in your room or something no i didn't live in a

great neighborhood so you know got the the neighbors that were crazy you know selling

stuff and oh gosh yeah you probably live near me quick quick quick question for you out of all the people in this room asexual maddie who are you most attracted to shannon kevin or myself

I would obviously say Shannon. Thank you, Mary. She went into the asexuals.

She's number one with everybody. The men, the women, and the asexuals. Uh-oh, wait a second. Maybe you're not asexual. Look at her, you said.

There's a difference between aesthetic attraction and sexual attraction. And romantic attraction, all the things. Okay, now what about the producer studio?

Hold on.

I think it's a tie between Lydia and Shannon. Oh, the women always. She's got a good taste.

By the way, I just want you to know that if I was a girl, I'd be a lesbian too. There's nothing nice about hairy asses.

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