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Woo! I love doing that. Y'all gonna make me lose my mind. Up in here, up in here. Y'all gonna act me or act a fool. Up in here, up in here. Mojo in the morning. I cannot look at a friend or friends the same anymore after what I found out yesterday. Ooh, I love these stories. No, these stories aren't good. They're not good because you can't just say this. You can't just let the cat out of the, what is it? The bag? The cat out of the bag, yes. You can't just let the Pandora out of the box. You can't just tell you something and then think that you're going to look at this person or people, in this case, the same anymore. I just can't do this. I just don't like it. I don't like when you find out that friends of yours are freaky. Like, I want to think that my friends are all just nice, normal people from Oakland Township or Oakland County, you know? And when I say this to you, I say this to you not ever trying to slut shame because I love sluts. So I just want you to know that there ain't nothing wrong. I love sluts. So I got to tell you this. And I was hanging out with a friend, and we were having a conversation, and I was blown away to find out that she and her husband had one of these crazy nights. And you tell me if you would ever want to know your friends did this. They were hanging out with two other friends, very good friends of theirs, and they're hanging out drinking, and one thing led to another. and then they ended up in the shower. The girls, I guess, ended up showering, okay?

Together?

Together, yes. Yeah, like not going to separate showers, but showering together.

Okay.

And then she's telling me that the guys were just sitting and watching like a game or something in the other room while the girls are going to shower. I don't even know what. Like if Chelsea says, hey, I'm going to leave, and Jessica and I are going to go shower, I'm following. You know what I mean? Like I'm just going to see even if I can be a perv and watch. You know, like, I'm like, okay, I've never heard Chelsea say I'm going to go shower with a friend. I'm like, I want to see what's happening here. These guys, I guess, were just hanging out. They were just hanging on the couch. So the girls were like, oh, this is fun. And I guess they didn't do anything with each other or anything like that. They just showered. Then they went and got the guys and said, hey, let's bring the guys in here. And they went and said, hey, you know, why don't you guys come in here? And I guess there was a little bit of reticence to doing that. and then they finally I don't know if grabbed their hands or whatever and said let's go and then the guys ended up going into the shower which might be a little weird I don't know if I want to see my buddy in the shower like I I went to an all guys catholic school I never wanted to shower in front of the guys that were my teammates like I hated that I actually was the guy that brought the towel all the way into the shower Huh?

and, like, hung it up on a fake hook that was in there because I just didn't want to have it, like, far away. I didn't have anything to show off, but I just didn't want anybody to know that. So one thing leads to another, and the next thing you know, the girls and the guys convinced the guys that they should swap and they should all go and do this. And I said, all right, you guys are swingers. Because I hear these stories about swingers. They're like, she promised, they're not swingers. We are not swingers.

This was just like a one-time incident.

Yeah, they're not a one-time. So it ended up turning into a swap, like a wife swap type thing or a husband swap type thing. And after you say that, I'm like, all right, I don't know if this is crazy. To me, that's like, albeit, seems really interesting and fun, but albeit, I don't think that I could ever participate in that. And the reason I don't think I could ever participate in that, there's twofold. Number one, I would be so like really having a hard time if my wife was with another guy and enjoying it because I would worry that, oh, God, she's enjoying it more than she's enjoying it with me.

Yes.

And then second fold, I don't want my friend's wife to know how disappointing I am. You know what I mean?

But also because they were, like, in the same room doing this. Like, then you're watching, like, the whole, there's so many different parts of that that I couldn't do. Holly, what's up? Hi. You guys, I just want to know how big is the shower.

You know, that's a great question. I didn't ask that question. I should have asked that question.

Big enough for four.

Yeah.

Right. It's a good question.

Like, that's a great question to know. Like, what's the square footage of the shower, you know?

Right. Yep.

Like, I would love to know. Um, I, I don't know. Uh, let me see. Hold on a second. You about the X? Yeah. How do you spell voice disguise? Uh, voice disguise? D-I-S-G-U-I-S-E. Uh, yeah. Like, I, I, I don't know. I just did it. Uh, it's actually, if you want to know how to spell it, it's V-O-I-C-E and then a separate word, D-I-S-G-U-I-S-E. Yeah, that's what I said. That's all right? Okay. That's how you spell it. I was seventh in the state in the first grade. Were you really? Yeah. I went to States, bro. I was out here. All right, spell. I lost on breathe, bro. I don't know what I was thinking.

Let's not talk about you and your spelling bee in this topic. It's the same thing. It just feels very weird to me.

So they did this. And here's a question I'm going to ask. I'm going to throw this out there. I would love to know, I would love to honestly know, who are not swingers but have done this with their spouse and have never told anybody about it? Because honestly, I would love to know if you are somebody that has done this and done with your spouse like how do you convince each other to do this but these are swingers this is

like saying i'm looking for a virgin who's had sex but you're a virgin you can say you're a virgin

but you've had sex um i i get it but if you're not practice how about this a non-practicing swinger you know what i mean you don't identify as a swinger i don't yes you well i don't know because that also you could be identified as but i guess it oh yeah yeah um man that is to me it was just it's wild because when i see people that do this like these people are good looking nice

people like they're you know they they pay taxes with a big shower they pay taxes usually the

people that i think that do stuff like this i honestly think that they you know they're wild Like, they're, you know, they're like hippie, long hair, you know, stuff like that. I don't know. Why do I always picture that? Because I've seen people, and no offense to you because you're probably some listeners, I've seen some of you that say that you guys swing or do this. Oh, hold on. This is great. She said I don't have to voice this geyser. Oh, I'll own that, girl. That's what I'm talking about. Stand on business. Hold on a second. Let me read it first to make sure. You don't have to voice this geyser. Okay, perfect. All right, here we go.

Oh my goodness, really?

Yeah, this is craziness. I'm going to tell you guys something right now.

Do we know who this person is?

I don't think so, because I don't think you guys have ever met.

Okay.

But it's somebody that is close to our family. We go to church together. I know, I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding. By the way, people who go to church do this too. I'm telling you, the people that...

They might.

Yeah, people who go to church.

Hey.

Anonymous friend. I won't say your name, though. She said, no voices, guys? I don't need a voice, guys?

No, it's okay.

Okay. So I was, first off, I can't ever look at you the same way again. I'm like, you know, now I'm like sitting there, I'm bashful. So this, you say that.

In the text that you just sent me, this was a one-time thing? You've never done this ever after this?

Never again.

It was one time. And what was it? First off, how big was the shower? Holly wanted you to know. How big was the shower that you guys went into?

It was a very small shower.

And this was all happening in that shower? There was nothing that happened?

Oh, no. It started in the shower very briefly and made its way to a guest room. And that it was just, it was, it was a free for all. Everybody was having a great time.

How did you guys decide that it wasn't going to be the spouses staying together, but it was going to be you guys going with the other? Oh, good question.

Well, we, I, we never really all separated. It wasn't entirely a swap. Everybody was definitely involved. I mean, the men were not involved with each other, but we were all involved with each other at some point.

Okay.

And it was spicy. The men were a little surprised. Everybody was pretty boozed up. And it was just a fun, one-time, spontaneous thing. And it made for great stories and great conversation later. And it never was weird. You know, we saw the friends again plenty of times after. You're kidding me.

That was my next question. Did you wake up the next morning and go, oh, crap. Like, that should not have happened.

No. But I woke up and it was, like, funny. We all went out to, like, a brunch, like, a hangover brunch the next day. No way. Okay. And it was, I mean, it was funny, and we still see them to this day. And it's never, every now and then maybe a joke will fly, but there's never been, like, a line crossed. And never really, I don't necessarily care to do it again, but I'm glad that we did it. It was fun. It was spicy.

What do you mean by you're glad you did it? Just because, did it do anything for you guys personally as a couple?

yeah it's for me it was more what it did for our marriage and our sex life together after um it like it like like woke up the beast a little bit more um it made us way more fiery

with each other that's so interesting has your husband ever brought it up again to try and do it even though you say you weren't you know that interested um it's nice i mean we definitely

i would be open to maybe again but i it's hard to come across a spontaneous experience like that that's also with a person or people that you can trust yeah i just think that that's so rare what

would you have done and maybe you know there is a little bit of this but what would you have done if you looked over at your husband and he had a look on his face that was happier than the look

that he has when he's with you question well that's the thing i think that a lot of it was actually that he was he was happy that I was enjoying it too it was very wow reciprocal wait

so were you so did you ever worry about how your look was so that he didn't think you were enjoying

it too much yeah um no definitely wasn't thinking about anything besides holy crap we're really

doing this that is nuts wow well I gotta tell you you guys have uh you gotta you know it's a it's a fun little thing that you do Shannon you and Wes got any friends hanging out this weekend do you have any friends that you would think of it with at all or no no wouldn't can you imagine if all your friends are going to come over now from now on and they're all going to think of this phone call here right now um all right well thank you for sharing with us and and would you call yourself a swinger because uh what you did was swinging but would you say you're a swinger

i'm not a swinger it was a one it was one time so it's a one time one and done that's it That's what they all say. Yeah, one and done.

What was the water pressure like in that show? Oh, my God.

I don't think I actually got any water.

Oh, my God. That's crazy. All right, well, thanks for having the courage to go on the air with us. We appreciate it. All right, I'm telling you guys. Hold on. Sarah, what's up? It's Mojo in the Morning. What's going on?

Hey, everybody. So my experience is a little bit different than that last caller. um so heavily drinking christmas party friends were over blah blah blah um the husband and i my friend's husband and i were in the garage smoking and talking and just you know whatever and my now ex-husband and my friend were in the house and i don't know how they started but they started kissing and then came out to the garage and kind of told us about it and my friend was telling me um that he they had been swinging a couple of times oh boy and hey do you want to try it i mean we're all so trashed um so yes we did my um husband and i uh we were in our house and took him to one went to our bedroom and we went to the kids playroom

god but it wasn't the bedroom it was the playroom so uh yeah your kids your kids never actually

played in that room ever after that hopefully you guys disinfected well of course we did and

they didn't know they were young but um ours was a bit different because we i i didn't have a well i'll say this i didn't have a great experience however we did do it a couple more times with the same couple um once all four of us were in the same bed together um gosh i really hope all the kids are at school now geez um so but like it turned out fine and i'll use that in big quotation mark so we did it a couple of times um i didn't care to do whatever again so i haven't um my we're all divorced now my friends are divorced but they were swingers for a while and they still kind of have that lifestyle oh man my ex and i are divorced and yeah it was your divorce wasn't because of infidelity was it no like the other caller it kind of opened their eyes to some things and made their relationship better but our relationship it was very detrimental like i realized how much i wasn't in love with my husband and how much i wanted to experience more oh yeah it was it was terrible so was it because of it yeah maybe kind of but be careful what what

happens i'm telling you you open up that uh moment and then like you just said all of a sudden you realize that other person might have made you realize that you're with the wrong one initial

a what's up it's mojo in the morning your voice is cast hi um yeah i i've done this in the past like years ago with a guy that I was dating and I was mutual friends.

Wow. Okay. And you keep the secret? Do you tell people about it or no?

No, I haven't told anybody.

Isn't it weird to talk about it right now? It's got to be, right?

I mean, this was probably 10, 15 years ago.

Yeah.

And everybody's broken up. So, I mean, it's not super weird.

Would you ever do it with your committed relationship that you're in now?

Um, no, I'm married now and I'm like more selfish. I'm like, no, I can't, I don't, I don't, I wouldn't do it again.

Did you ever do it with the guy that wasn't your boyfriend at the time? The guy that you like hooked up with that one night after everybody was broken up?

Uh, no.

Okay. Cause that would worry me. Like that would be the thing that would worry me if I was in one of these things. I would instantly start thinking, okay, this is where it's going to end up leading to. you guys are going to end up having a relationship away from each other and i guess if they all the rules are there i mean unspoken rules that you guys don't do it without each other but uh the one last one sandra are you there hi yeah i'm here you're not you say you're not a swinger is

that right or no no no i'm just saying like you know how she said she like had that that one experience but she's not a swinger yeah i mean i i don't really fully understand that but maybe she's trying to say like you know how some people are like a girl will say oh i'm not a lesbian but she like had like sexual intercourse with a girl but then she's not a lesbian like it was you know how she kept saying it's a one-time thing yes yeah no maybe she's like relating it to that i don't

know it is interesting could you ever see yourself doing this sandra no i feel like once you do it

it's like now when they see other couples it's like do they have an idea like oh like we should maybe like try it again you know i feel like that since they've experienced it before they're like Maybe like, oh, okay, maybe one more time. And then probably that'll turn into swinging.

I would be there the whole time, and I would wait for Chelsea to give me her reaction to it. And if her reaction to it was negative, I'd go, yeah, you're right. That was horrible. Like, I don't think I'd be honest. I really don't. I think I would have a hard time doing that because I would be so afraid, right?

That's a smart move, though.

Yeah. Well, whatever you guys got plans for this weekend, there's now new things that you can think about doing.

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