them just meeting at a local establishment that will be an establishment that you would go to with your relationship so it'd be that you met somebody in a place that not necessarily do they go to by themselves but they probably have been with with you um here's in one 17 of all affairs happen with a brother-in-law or sister-in-law oh what that was the part that kind of got me It might be due to something called the proximity effect. The more that you are around the person, the more likable and attractive they are to you. Additionally, since they are siblings to the person that they married, they also might have a taboo side about them. And you might find that kind of a sexy thing to get together. Okay, who has cheated with a brother-in-law or sister-in-law or somebody in the family like that? You got to call us up. I want to hear those stories because those stories will be crazy. Only 10% of men have had an affair with partners online. Online affairs you would think would be higher than that. I'm kind of surprised by that. Of the online affairs, around 40% of them have turned into real-life affairs. So online affairs meaning that you're just talking to them or flirting with them electronically, But then all of a sudden you end up going face to face and 14 percent of all men in America have paid for sex. That's the person that they've had sex with because everybody thought that this last war of the roses. The guy was that this person is a is a prostitute escort. Yeah. Yeah. Whoever that that person is. And here's a here's a big one. 42% of all people caught in affairs would call the affair partner a good friend. So they would actually say that the person was a platonic friend at first, somebody that they actually just had as a friendship base, and then next thing you know, they were naked from the waist down and actually doing some sort of thing that they shouldn't be doing in front of somebody. Wow. Which one is the most surprising to you? Is it the brother-in-law, sister-in-law? Yeah.