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Never Been Broken Up With
Mojo In The Morning

Never Been Broken Up With

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May 17, 2023 | 00:14:56 | Leisure

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Mojo in the morning. so you have never been broken up on you've never had somebody break your heart lucky bastards right you just don't even think that that i've been broken up with many types

00:03:04 - 00:04:17 | Speaker 2:

but this is coming from um west has west my fiance has some family coming into town from Canada this weekend where he grew up and his entire family still lives and his sister and his niece are included in that group of family that's coming to visit us this weekend his niece is in high school and she'd been dating the same guy for a couple of years however they just broke up and so Wes's sister asked he and I if we could talk to her about what it's like to go through a breakup and you know how you could come out on the other side stronger and better and happier than ever and at first Wes was like why is she asking us to talk to her right like it's her daughter she's mom and then we realized well he realized his sister has only dated one guy ever her high school sweetheart and I think they did it in middle school too her high school sweetheart who she's married to wow so she has never gone through a breakup and therefore doesn't even have any advice for her daughter on what it's like or how to deal with it or cope with it and

00:04:17 - 00:04:41 | Speaker 8:

she's never been broken up with so she's never faced that crazy you know it's funny is that i was uh um discussing that my son had prom coming up and somebody came up to me and said hey tell oh, Luke, have a great time at prom. I remember my prom. And I'm like, oh, yeah, where's that loser at today? She goes, I'm married to him. And I'm like thinking to myself, how wild is that?

00:04:41 - 00:04:41 | Speaker 2:

Right.

00:04:41 - 00:04:49 | Speaker 8:

Like you're still with the person that you went to prom with. But that's wild that you never, that Wes's sister has never experienced a breakup. Never been broken up with.

00:04:50 - 00:04:59 | Speaker 2:

And she and her husband have a great marriage. It wasn't like, because I know a lot of those high school sweetheart, you know, sort of relationships. You'll break up when you go to college and then you get back together. And that's kind of how it works.

00:05:00 - 00:05:59 | Speaker 1:

for them they've been together straight through it's wild whenever I see this and I see this more um and I know they're from Canada but so I'm not calling them Midwest but I guess they're kind of like I don't know maybe they're the Midwest of Canada when I lived in Arizona and that's where I met Chelsea and I'm not from there I'm from Chicago I was shocked at how very few people married their high school sweethearts out there and then when i moved back to michigan and then go back and visit my family in chicago you see a lot more of that and i don't know what the story is if maybe it's just because it's a relocation place you know like you people go to warm weather and stuff but it's wild when people um you know are in a relationship for a long period of time you know and never have ever experienced a breakup so i don't know it's so you're going to sit down, you and Wes are going to sit down and talk to her about the breakup. You're not going to give her, like, all the details, right?

00:05:59 - 00:06:10 | Speaker 3:

No, but, I mean, I don't even know that I'll be involved in that conversation. I hope I get the chance to be. Does that make you feel weird? I hope I get the chance to be. Hi, this is soon-to-be Aunt Shannon. Yeah, right.

00:06:10 - 00:06:11 | Speaker 1:

Shannon, tell her about your divorce.

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No, no, God.

00:06:13 - 00:06:19 | Speaker 1:

Would it be your, what kind of breakup would be the breakup you would talk about to a high school kid? Would it be the breakup, like, that you experienced, like, in college?

00:06:19 - 00:06:24 | Speaker 3:

From my high school boyfriend, which happened in college because I dated him for like seven, seven and a half years.

00:06:24 - 00:06:34 | Speaker 1:

Yeah. See, I was always, by the way, the person that got broken up with because, you ready for this one? I could not break up with anybody. So what I do is-

00:06:34 - 00:06:35 | Speaker 3:

I am so not shocked by this.

00:06:35 - 00:06:43 | Speaker 1:

I would treat them like crap as if to have them want to break up with me because I did not want to be the bad guy.

00:06:44 - 00:06:54 | Speaker 3:

What gives you more anxiety? Like what do you think is worse? being the person that is doing the breaking up or being the one that is broken up with?

00:06:54 - 00:07:01 | Speaker 1:

I think that it's easier for the person who breaks up than it is for the person getting broken up with.

00:07:03 - 00:07:09 | Speaker 3:

I'm asking you that specifically because I know how hard it is for you to confront somebody with anything.

00:07:09 - 00:07:40 | Speaker 1:

But I can't do it at all. Yeah, that's a hard thing for me to do. I don't even like delivering bad news at all. like i told uh tony uh travato i could never be a boss because i just don't know how you go about you know having to tell somebody something that you know uh i but but with that you know with that said with relationships to never be broken up with you know is kind of an awkward uh is an awkward thing for you when you as you go through life well i think it's a right it's like a rite

00:07:40 - 00:07:45 | Speaker 3:

of passage it's part of growing up right is having heartbreak i've never been broken up with and it's

00:07:45 - 00:08:34 | Speaker 2:

so scary when i get you haven't what really i've never been i thought that guy broke up with you um okay so huh no but i tried to get him to break up with me for a long time so when i'm done with a relationship i'm a i would never date me i want to be very clear i know that i'm the bad guy all right so before you tell me how terrible i am i know uh but every time i do want to break up with somebody i i kind of get like worse in the relationship hoping that they'll just break up with me and he freaking wouldn't it was so frustrating but no I've never been broken up with when you say get worse what did you do oh I just get like more distant and I just intentionally put space in between us so hopefully they get the clue and say oh I think I'd rather move on than deal with this yeah that's how that's how I mean exactly

00:08:34 - 00:08:57 | Speaker 1:

we are more like each other than we know but I for me Mike the thing that I would do was i would do the distance of not being able not saying yes to getting together and then i would do the not showing up to stuff and saying at the last minute i couldn't do it and then they just realize that it's not an important thing yeah see that's why i just didn't have relation like i i

00:08:57 - 00:09:15 | Speaker 4:

had a girlfriend she broke my heart uh then i uh when i got some trust issues after that and then I just became a giant jerk and just wouldn't like there would never be an official we are dating. So then nobody ever really got broken up with. It's just we weren't dating. So we just went our separate ways.

00:09:15 - 00:09:30 | Speaker 2:

But I've also never had my heart broken. So I feel like I'm more scared getting into relationships now because like I'm comfortable with how things are right now and I don't want that to change. So I know it's like a huge detriment to me and my like mental well-being.

00:09:30 - 00:09:35 | Speaker 1:

Do you guys think that you need to have your heart broken in order to understand a relationship?

00:09:35 - 00:09:43 | Speaker 2:

Yeah, because I think you learn a lot about yourself and trust and loving other people and building yourself back up again.

00:09:43 - 00:09:59 | Speaker 1:

See, I talked to some people about that in the case of like Shannon's, you know, soon to be sister-in-law. I think that you would talk to a therapist that would say that you don't need that. that uh you know people deal with

00:10:00 - 00:10:18 | Speaker 3:

the you know issues every day of being let down it doesn't have to come in the form of the relationship in order for you to learn something like that but i don't know 844 mojo live 844 665-6548 uh anybody listening that has never been broken up with that would like us to break

00:10:18 - 00:10:30 | Speaker 7:

up with you just to see what it feels like what's going on liz yeah so a couple years ago i was date in the sky we were dating for a couple of months he broke up with me while i was at work

00:10:30 - 00:10:46 | Speaker 3:

on my birthday oh man and do you think it made you a better person i'm sorry do you think i mean we're talking about how breaking having somebody break up with you for some reason that experience of it maybe is good for you do you think it helped do you think it helped you to have him break up

00:10:46 - 00:11:06 | Speaker 7:

like that or or no um i don't know my therapist thinks it was helpful but really explain why what did the therapist say was helpful in that um she she just told me that it showed me my you know what boundaries i needed to set for future relationships okay yeah that's you know

00:11:06 - 00:11:09 | Speaker 3:

that's that's something i never really thought about was that it actually teaches you how to

00:11:09 - 00:11:15 | Speaker 7:

set up boundaries yeah which boundaries are very hard so yeah oh believe me i gotta tell you

00:11:15 - 00:11:33 | Speaker 3:

something that's the hardest thing that you'll ever do in your life if you're somebody that's good with setting up boundaries and having boundaries i don't know maybe you saw it a lot in your parents relationship or in family relationships i just think it's sometimes very tough because i think that's the biggest problem that most relationships will face

00:11:33 - 00:11:46 | Speaker 7:

is the fact that they don't have boundaries i i completely agree and it's hard because when you love someone you just it's hard sometimes to just set those boundaries because you love them

00:11:46 - 00:12:07 | Speaker 3:

yeah well i'm sorry that you got broken up with on your birthday hopefully next birthday will be better and unfortunately i think i feel like you'll always remember that though that oh always a couple of texters here right now saying uh megan is mean lol that's uh five uh six seven

00:12:07 - 00:12:24 | Speaker 5:

well is it because i actually think it's less mean let you come to the conclusion i've already come to so that i don't hurt your feelings either i think i'm the nice one no because you're wasting their time well they wasted a lot of mine guess what that's life get over it just tell them right

00:12:24 - 00:12:47 | Speaker 3:

up front and then be done with it another texter here uh says i did what mojo did and actually what megan did too because she said she did the same thing too i uh i catch myself sometimes trying to be the person that gets broken up on uh so a lot of texters saying that a lot oh So here's one. I am still with my high school sweetheart. It's my first and only.

00:12:47 - 00:12:48 | Speaker 4:

Yeah, it's a lot of people.

00:12:49 - 00:13:06 | Speaker 3:

We are in our 30s, and we have both never been with anybody else. I suggest in those cases, like those people like that, you bring a third in. Oh. Just because sometimes you need to have, you need to, you know, you can't eat the same thing. You can't have chicken every single night, right?

00:13:06 - 00:13:11 | Speaker 4:

But maybe they really, really like chicken. It's like all they would eat. That is all they eat.

00:13:12 - 00:13:14 | Speaker 3:

How many times can you prepare chicken? I don't know.

00:13:14 - 00:13:18 | Speaker 1:

Many different ways, actually. And you can spice it up. There's lots of ways you can eat chicken.

00:13:19 - 00:13:26 | Speaker 3:

Yeah, I don't know. Oh, look at this one. 32 years old. 32 years old, and I'm with the same person from the ninth grade.

00:13:26 - 00:13:31 | Speaker 4:

Wow. I don't think you're so frustrated.

00:13:31 - 00:13:45 | Speaker 3:

To me, it just sounds boring, doesn't it? I mean, I love that they're together still. I think that that's wonderful. But I feel like for at least one of the anniversaries, they've got to be able to do something. Maybe they dress up in costumes or something. Do you think they role play and do different things like that?

00:13:45 - 00:13:51 | Speaker 4:

I'm going to tell Wes's sister. So my co-host says that you need to dress up in costumes. Spice this up a little bit.

00:13:51 - 00:14:04 | Speaker 3:

And go look at her husband, and he'll be nodding his head the entire time. Voice Disguise, this next caller, we'll call you Allie. Is that okay for an alias? Yeah. What's up, Allie?

00:14:04 - 00:14:22 | Speaker 6:

For me, I've never been broken up with, but I'm currently going through a breakup, and I'm still brokenhearted, and the reason I'm breaking up is because he has broken my heart so many times that I have no choice but to leave.

00:14:22 - 00:14:24 | Speaker 3:

How has he broken your heart?

00:14:25 - 00:14:37 | Speaker 6:

Just the way he's treated me and things he's said to me and just basically just how we've been in this relationship. it's a constant me feeling torn down and broken.

00:14:38 - 00:14:44 | Speaker 3:

You say you've never been broken up on. Do you think maybe he's treating you this way because he might break up with you before you break up with him?

00:14:46 - 00:14:48 | Speaker 6:

No, because he's been this way since he started dating.

00:14:49 - 00:14:56 | Speaker 3:

So you shouldn't have been dating him. Do you find that you're dating like losers or is this just the one guy that you've dated?

00:14:58 - 00:14:59 | Speaker 6:

Just this one guy.

00:15:00 - 00:15:02 | Speaker 7:

When are you going to break up with them? I'm assuming that's why you're voices, guys.

00:15:03 - 00:15:06 | Speaker 1:

Oh, we're going through it right now.

00:15:06 - 00:15:10 | Speaker 7:

What do you mean by going through it? Because isn't a breakup, I'm breaking up with you?

00:15:11 - 00:15:16 | Speaker 1:

Oh, yes, but I'm trying to be civil, and we have, like, custody stuff going on.

00:15:16 - 00:15:17 | Speaker 7:

Oh, you guys have children?

00:15:17 - 00:15:20 | Speaker 1:

So, yeah, so we're going, yeah.

00:15:20 - 00:15:21 | Speaker 7:

Oh, boy.

00:15:21 - 00:15:24 | Speaker 1:

So we're trying to be civil and slowly do this.

00:15:25 - 00:15:29 | Speaker 7:

Wow. Well, good luck with that. What's up, Kim?

00:15:30 - 00:15:36 | Speaker 8:

hi yeah um i dumped a guy while uh making cookies

00:15:36 - 00:15:44 | Speaker 9:

did he do something wrong or why then sorry hold on i'm trying to turn my my thing off of my

00:15:44 - 00:15:49 | Speaker 7:

what you guys don't hear like the bluetooth thing or what what is it got it got it can

00:15:49 - 00:15:54 | Speaker 9:

you hear me okay yes yeah why then like why did you pick that moment um because he proposed to

00:15:54 - 00:16:10 | Speaker 8:

me and he was the only guy i was with for a long time it was like two weeks later after he proposed thinking about it. My mom always said if you think of something at that moment, go with your gut and do it. So I did. I said we were done. And he was like oh, am I hurting you? And I was like, no. Like, we're done, but you can finish.

00:16:11 - 00:16:13 | Speaker 9:

Oh my gosh. And were you done? That was it?

00:16:15 - 00:16:24 | Speaker 8:

Yeah. You think you made the right decision? He stayed at my house and cried for a little bit. Yeah, he cheated on me a couple times, so it was a good decision. I'm actually engaged now and I'm good to go.

00:16:24 - 00:16:30 | Speaker 7:

Wow, that was actually kind of you to let him try to enjoy the rest of what you guys were doing.

00:16:31 - 00:16:33 | Speaker 8:

That is such a power move. I think that's the least I could do.

00:16:34 - 00:16:35 | Speaker 7:

That is a power move, isn't it?

00:16:35 - 00:16:36 | Speaker 8:

It really is.

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You know what you are? You're a boss.

00:16:40 - 00:16:41 | Speaker 9:

I try to be new.

00:16:41 - 00:16:41 | Speaker 7:

Yeah.

00:16:42 - 00:16:45 | Speaker 9:

I'm very curious. I don't know if I'm allowed to ask this question.

00:16:45 - 00:16:46 | Speaker 7:

Yeah.

00:16:47 - 00:17:01 | Speaker 9:

Where was she? No. Was he able to finish? What? Was he able to finish? No, he started to cry. Oh, yeah. I don't know.

00:17:01 - 00:17:04 | Speaker 7:

I guess I would just keep going. I mean, at that point.

00:17:05 - 00:17:08 | Speaker 8:

Some people have breakup, like, sex.

00:17:09 - 00:17:09 | Speaker 7:

That's why.

00:17:10 - 00:17:15 | Speaker 8:

He started to cry, and he couldn't, like, perform. So I just see it in his face.

00:17:17 - 00:17:23 | Speaker 7:

God, the poor guy. Can you imagine that? The heartbreak. Kim, thank you for the call. Take care of yourself.

00:17:23 - 00:17:24 | Speaker 8:

Thank you.

00:17:24 - 00:17:24 | Speaker 7:

Bye.

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Swiping on Bumble and never replying to any guy's message just counts as putting myself out there, right?

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