open this up to the listeners let's ask you if and you know this the story here we're going to play mojo court here like the people's court what do you think here in this one so west gave her, gave Samantha, his daughter, his high school age daughter tickets, two tickets to go to Kendrick and SZA, the concert and didn't say, hey this is for us, we're going to have a night together basically said, look what you got, oh my god I'm excited, she then assumes that she's going to invite a friend and she invites the friend, now the friend thinks she's going to go, so what does Wes do? Does Wes say, wait a second, no those tickets were for me, he hasn't done that obviously, he just said to you