So I, it has always been my dream to go to Paris for my, and for my 40th birthday. And so like in the, over the past couple of years, I've thought that's what I want to do. I want to save up money and that is how I want to celebrate my 40th birthday. Well, I went through my divorce and so I'm like, I, this is still something that I have dreamed of doing. So my plan was to go by myself truly. And then I met Wes, you know, a year and a half ago. And, um, and so he's like, I'm not letting you go to Paris by yourself. And of course we're doing this together.