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All right, Mojo in the Morning. We were talking about how OnlyFans ruins marriages. And this is an interesting one. yesterday we were getting into the discussion about how is it cheating to subscribe to somebody on OnlyFans? You're not touching body for body or even talking to them. All you're doing is subscribing to their page. Kind of like you subscribe to Hulu or subscribe to Netflix, you know, one of those streaming apps, but you're subscribing to a content creator. And it got into an interesting discussion that we said, you know what, we're going to delve into this a little bit more people that feel like only fans has ruined them i've talked before on the show about how i think porn can really ruin your relationship and how i had to like step away and go realize man i think i was watching porn too much because i think it it definitely clouds your mind on what your relationship sexually should be like creates an expectation right yeah i mean it becomes one of those situations where you're watching this going thinking that's exactly what my life should be like and then you realize that just ain't right yeah and i feel like when you

look at porn from a single man's perspective i don't know how it is as a married man but as a single man i feel like if i'm looking at porn the women that i see in real life they don't look like human beings to me they look like objects yes if that makes sense well that yeah you know what i

mean and i think only fans is similar to that you know so i've never been on only fans i don't know

if either of you guys have but i feel like where only fans is different from like a porn site is that there is the possibility or the potential that you can actually correspond with these people yeah and so like it it can snowball probably pretty fast so i did a little research

and i found out that two out of five consumers of only fans say they hide their accounts from their relationships okay duh if you're hiding your account what do you think um you know if that's the case you know what is your thoughts and then this one's interesting what do you uh what would you do if you found out that your significant other was actually spending money on somebody that's not only fans uh initial t wants to come on the air with us to talk about this You're being Voices Guys T. That's why we're also using your initial. How are you?

I am good. Thank you. First time, long time. T on the phone.

Only fans ruined your marriage?

To be fair, it wasn't the only thing that ruined my marriage. There were some other things, but it definitely put some irrefixable dents in my marriage.

Really? What was he doing? Was he subscribing to a bunch of people or one person?

We were really struggling with money. I had just lost my car. We let all of our credit cards go. Like, we were in a bad situation. And I found out that he had multiple subscriptions. That really caused an issue. And then a couple months later, I was...

taking a picture or looking at something on his phone, something completely innocent, he handed it to me, and I saw that he was messaging a woman asking for prices on her videos, and come to find out it was a mutual friend of ours, like somebody he hanged out with.

Wow, so he was actually not only subscribing to it, He was paying this person through his OnlyFans account to do things for him.

Did you even know that that person was on OnlyFans?

I did it until after, and I'm like, well, wait a minute. I know this name, and yeah.

I wonder if that's the reason why you guys were financially in trouble.

No, but it didn't help.

What does it cost to subscribe to somebody's OnlyFans? Is it a lot?

It's like $15 a month, and he had it for a few months. And for a few different people. I mean, I lost my whole vehicle. Well, this man is paying someone to get naked. Right.

Wow. It's sad also to know that, you know, and scary, and this is where I think the OnlyFans thing is a little bit different than probably porn sites, is the fact that he has the ability to actually communicate with them and possibly meet up with them. And who knows if it went to that level. Bath, are you there? Yes. Hi, Bath. What are your thoughts?

Hi, I'm a first-time caller. Hey, Beth on the phone. I honestly believe, like, OnlyFans is not the same as subscribing to Netflix. It's definitely not the same. I mean, to me, porn is shooting. So it ruined my marriage. So I'm not okay with it.

What did it do to ruin your marriage?

Well, it was that in TikTok and the videos that girls post where they're half naked, you know. It's just, to me, that's not acceptable.

Would he ever go any step further? Was he giving money to these girls? Was he asking them to do specific things for him? Was he ever meeting them?

Not that I'm aware of.

So he was just looking at them on OnlyFans? I don't know OnlyFans because I've never been on it. I don't even want it in my algorithm.

Yeah, I don't either.

So tell me, he obviously had to subscribe in order to see them and see their pages, because I don't think it's free, is it?

I know it's that. It costs money.

So he was spending money on these women. Yeah. Yeah. Did you guys have a healthy sex life at the time that this was going on?

Yes, very, very. So I wonder what pulled him into OnlyFans in the first place then.

like was it curiosity or you know i'm not sure i'm not sure but it led to you guys eventually

divorcing because you uh did you find out he was cheating on you eventually no but it's just the

fact that you want to go look at other women like if you're married why are you looking at other women that are naked or half naked i mean just be faithful to me that's cheating it's wild to hear

that your guys' relationship you thought was a healthy relationship, because a lot of times you'll hear the guys say, or even the women say, because there's a lot of women on OnlyFans too, say that they just had no relationship with their significant other, you know? Sophia, what's up? Hey. Hey, what's going on? We're talking about how OnlyFans ruined my marriage. When I say that, by the way, I feel bad because it makes people... Not yours. Go ahead, Sophia. What's going on?

yeah so mine was actually a long-term relationship but we I had been looking through his bank records for some reason and I saw like the charges for it so he was sitting there telling me oh it wasn't me I didn't do this and I'm like yeah right okay so I actually went home and on my own phone I logged into his account because he used the same like email and password for everything and I saw the charges for that and then i saw like who he had been subscribing to everything and then for some reason i just had like a feeling he was on tinder so again i logged in to his tinder on my phone and i found out that he had been like physically sleeping with multiple women wow how about the

person that he was on only fans with was he ever meeting up with them no but he was like paying

her extra money for like private videos and stuff like that wow that's a it's amazing uh what these

guys and i say this again girls can do it too but what they'll ask these guys to do you know these people to do on only fans and you know you hear it oh i'm just showing my feet feet leads to other body parts too Thank you. Initial B, are you there?

Yeah, I'm here.

Hi, we're voice disguising you. Is this not about your relationship? This is about a friend's relationship?

It's not. It's about my best friend.

Okay, talk to us. What happened?

Sure.

So I got a call, and she explains to me that she has caught her newly husband doing the deed as soon as she leaves for work. in the morning, and this was caught on her pet cam.

Oh, my gosh. Doing the deed, meaning he was having sex with other women in their house?

No, he was taking care of himself.

Two women that he was talking to on...

On OnlyFans.

It was a

specific clip, and it said a girl's name, and I googled it, and we found the exact creator.

And did you know, did he ask her to make that for him?

Well, so we thought it was like a one-time thing. And I'm like the FBI when it comes to this kind of stuff. And we found out that we looked at the pet cam for like months. He does it every morning.

Every morning.

As soon as she walks out the door.

Talk about a pet cam. That's crazy.

That is insanity that that's what caught it.

That is wild.

Every single, like for the past like three months.

Oh, my God. Well, it's wild that he just, you know, he was doing it just for his own, you know, pleasure, like taking care of himself, because it's wild that he didn't go to the level that Stephanie's husband went to, because Stephanie, your husband actually hired these girls to be prostitutes for him, huh?

not not exactly directly but um at first i found out it was like a cam girl site and um and then later on like he invested a large amount of money for um about like a year how much money are we talking about anywhere from like 50 to 600 a month

so i'm sorry you said 600 a month 600 a month 600 a month doing this

Yeah, it rang.

And he was actually meeting them? Like, they were being prostitutes for him?

He met somebody in Vegas, and then I eventually found out that they were over. I found out that he had a Zelle payment. And then he at first was claiming, saying that he was paying for videos, and it wasn't a prostitute in Vegas. We were together. We stayed since we were 19, and we're 24 now. um and married for eight years um moved away from michigan um and then he encouraged me to have um a baby um and then like all of the spirals soon after i oh my goodness interesting wow it's

you know it's wild because you sit there and you think to yourself you're like man uh you know six hundred dollars a month you know i mean that's like a car payment uh for them doing this how often are they getting together and in some cases you hear these stories where these uh only fans people will charge you a hundred bucks or something like that and i'm going jesus that doesn't sound like a lot of money like to do this i want to hear from the guys who

for lack of a better term justify this like what is your reasoning for doing it well uh sam is on

with us right now sammy there i don't know if it's a woman or man sam yeah oh sam's one sam doesn't think that OnlyFans is cheating and actually, you're cool with it.

No, no, no, no, no, no. So I'm cool with porn. Like, you know, I watch porn. I don't have an issue with that. OnlyFans, it's a little extreme, the fact that you're paying another person money to get naked when you could pay me. You know what I mean?

What if you don't look like her? Wait, hold on a second. Here's the interesting thing. as a spouse you're saying if you're paying somebody else pay me and i'll do those fun

things for you absolutely like you why would you give it elsewhere like like the guy like the guy

that's sitting home masturbating to some woman is woman's video that she makes right right i mean

that is like you know porn like we can watch porn together that's cool whatever but when you're dishing money out to another woman. And it becomes a one-on-one

engaging situation.

Yeah. And I think that's taken it a little too far. A lot of people... Well, that's where I think the cheating comes out. Yeah.

Whitney is a retired OnlyFans girl. I love it. Whitney, are you there? Out the game. Yeah, I'm here. You got out of the game after making some bucks, huh?

Yeah, I just did...

I mean, after, like, it was pretty heavy and, like, COVID, which I feel like is when it kind of hit its peak, and now it's just, like, whoever kept being popular kept going with it. I just didn't care to do it anymore. It honestly got to an exhausting point. But, yeah, I mean, it all ranges, really, like, for payment purposes, because my spouse loved it. He loved that I did it. But it just got to a, like, mental point where I wasn't about it. But for everyone like who's curious about payment wise is it can be a subscription price, but there's also like a lot of women who have it just free. So you technically subscribe, but there's no price until you pay like per message per view. So some people will send out like daily messages, weekly, whatever it may be with like certain things attached and then a price tag. And then that's how it gets racked up so easily, because sometimes people will be like, oh, it's four dollars for this set of like 10 pictures or something. And then they send that out later today and then they're like, oh, it's another five dollars for this or whatever.

So I can add up pretty quick. Do you ever feel bad for what you possibly have done to relationships?

um yes very much like and that was like another mentally taxing thing because most people like and i don't know some of them could have been men or women not sure but there was like one person who reached out to me and he was like oh this is so and so and i was like oh oh i really hate really hate that you said that because i mean a lot of people i would block if i was uncomfortable um because i i just don't i don't like that i don't condone that yeah um obviously i wanted to make money but like at my own conscience no i don't did you ever have a spouse

reach out to you to get some more details about like what the relationship actually was between you and their husband or wife boyfriend girlfriend whatever actually no but i'm very grateful for

yeah it's interesting to know that there was a stat that actually when i was doing research on this only fans that said only fans content creators have a lifespan of only a couple of years because it becomes taxing on them knowing that they're doing this even though the money is as big as it can be i mean there's you're you could make hundreds of thousands of dollars

is doing this if not more yeah easily i mean if you're like branding as well your marketing as well um but yeah it does take i mean for some people they enjoy it they love it and that's great um for me yeah it just became very mentally draining there were things that i just also didn't want to do so i would lose people which is totally fine everyone's got their limits they've got their

boundaries but you said you were in a relationship at the time and your boyfriend was cool would you be cool with him following OnlyFans content creators and engaging with them see that's funny

we've had this him and I have had this conversation multiple times um I didn't like I if he subscribed I wasn't okay with it but if he saw stuff like we would look at my page together because I followed other women as well to see like I want to know what you're posting if you're making money on competition. Yeah, exactly. Like I need to know. Um, so it was more, so it was fine with me while we were doing it together. If he were to do it without my knowledge, I would not be okay with it. But the fact that we were both so involved with it as a whole, it was okay. Well, that's

the thing is doing it without your spouse's knowledge. That's where the cheating aspect

comes in. And that says so much to me coming from a content creator on only fans who is aware of

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