the text that she's having with her boyfriend yeah a great question phenomenal question a question that i could not stop asking throughout the night as she's telling me the story so she's over at her and i want to say mother-in-law she's not married to this guy it's her boyfriend but It's just going to make the story easier to tell. Nailed it. But she was over at her, like, mother-in-law's house, and they were sitting talking. Her mother-in-law kept dropping these, like, weird references in the conversation. Stuff about weed, stuff about... And at first, it could come off as, like, maybe just asking questions or maybe just trying to learn more about it. But then she's like, these are very specific questions. This is weird. And it's parts of conversations that she has had with her boyfriend via text. so it's becoming more and more clear to her that his mother has been reading their text messages did she call it out to him um no because she's kind of stuck in this weird place of like do i start a fight over this what like it's the holidays which is always super unfortunate like i think she'll bring it up after the new year's but it's very very weird that her grown ass boyfriend is having his text messages read by that's crazy what he knows it or not that's what I was going to say, does he have a rule that he has to plug his phone in the kitchen and can't bring technology to the bedroom like I have for my kids? Like, what is it that is making, how is she, how does she have access to his phone? He lives on his own. So I'm guessing they're on like an account together or something. Maybe there's an iPad around there somewhere logged in. That's weird.