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Reaction To Yesterday: People That Matter
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Reaction To Yesterday: People That Matter

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April 4, 2023 | 00:15:17 | Leisure

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Good morning. Welcome to the Mojo in the Morning show for Tuesday, April the 4th. Got a good show for you today. A lot of good prizes coming up this morning on the show. Am I the A-hole coming up this morning? Also, we've got Six on Sex, Shannon's Dirties on the way. 5 at 655 coming up See if we can get another win And we have a lot of Very talented people on this radio program Let me say hello to Well, come on, give yourself more credit Say hello to Shannon, good morning Shannon Good morning Good morning to you Megan Good morning Michael Hola Hola, I like that showing off that Mexican flair, a little heritage there, right? A little bit, yeah. Good for you. KP, good morning to you. Good morning. Good morning to Lydia. Hi, Lydia. Good morning. Good morning. She's answering the phone. She's talking on the phone. And I'm Mojo, and thank you for being here with us, and if you're listening to this, thank you for choosing

00:05:00 - 00:06:33 | Speaker 1:

to listen to this we appreciate that uh whether you're listening to it live or you're listening to it on podcast or you're listening to hear you know uh recaps of things that we talked about yesterday on the show and the big news from the show obviously that news was all over the place yesterday um and uh there were you know of course uh inappropriately uh some great messages that were were sent to uh to spike and uh we loved that and i thought that that was awesome um probably a little bit bummed out to hear that every single person on the show i think in some way shape or form was attacked through some of those messages some of the people that do it so and i and i that's new and well i know i don't think it is mike i think that that that goes on for pretty much everywhere i actually had a conversation yesterday with a very good friend of mine um and this friend of mine uh works in television and they said that television people get hit up or hit even harder than even oh yeah because they're you can see them so you can see what they look like all the time you know what i mean like we can they can see us on our videos that we post or social media but we're not like 24 7 but he was telling me he's like he's like you should see how bad it is when you know somebody leaves the the station and a new person comes in everybody will just comment on their appearance and because they don't know what the person's all about because all they do is they see their their appearance and what that you know

00:06:33 - 00:06:52 | Speaker 2:

that's it but I was trying so hard as I'm sure all of you were to not read comments one it was just like such a sucky day anyway for lack of a better word and I didn't want to you know feel any more bummed out than I was but it was hard to not read comments when you were specifically tagged in

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comment oh yeah and it showed up in your notification when people tag you then then the

00:06:56 - 00:07:19 | Speaker 2:

aggression just goes hard well not even that and i understand everybody has lots of feelings about this i i very much understand that as do all of us um but then it's like you can't not see it because it's right there yeah you know when you're trying to scroll past and we're human beings and so of course you have this curiosity to read those ones that you're tagged in it see what i had was

00:07:19 - 00:08:03 | Speaker 1:

I tried not to to read comments you know I read I read what Spike posted and I thought it was actually you know very you know a beautiful it was you know and it was great pictures to see and stuff like that but then what ended up happening for me was people started sending me the comments and texting me and I'm going friends that's not nice that's not nice and then the thing can I explain can I say the the thing that really is worse than a bad comment on me? Can the free press put away that picture of us downtown where we're all cuddled up together? Do you know what picture I'm talking about? Oh, let me show it to you. I really,

00:08:03 - 00:08:07 | Speaker 2:

I really, truly try to stay away from. I don't think you're going to like the photo as much

00:08:07 - 00:08:35 | Speaker 1:

as I'm not going to like the photo. Why? Am I pregnant? No, no, no. This is when you first started on the show. Let me just say this to you. We've all had a glow up as time has gone on well thank you for me it was pure for me it's pure shut up some of us like to look at the old photos for me it's pure botox you know but this photo they posted that photo which is yeah oh well it's the photo of us down by the spirit of detroit and uh we're all cuddled up

00:08:35 - 00:08:47 | Speaker 2:

together and it's a photo is from 2009 because i remember yeah i i had only been excuse me i cannot talk today i'd only been with the show for three days and that photo shoot happened well i

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will say this to you that's worse than any comment about how horrible of a radio person i am tell me i'm a horrible radio person that's one thing let me see how fat and ugly i am that's another thing

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so um but you're not you were not fat and ugly you just had a really bad haircut okay i'm gonna

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be honest about that the hair was not good i listen i i i i have uh i've done a better job of caring for myself so but we'd love to see a growth moment yeah i did i did by the way go to uh to bed last night and um because i for three straight days had horrible sleep i slept amazing so i so i felt so good waking up this morning i i didn't even know that the college basketball championship was on last night and i just and i'm thank god i didn't because i would have tried to stay up and watch it and it wasn't even teams i cared about but i ended up falling asleep and i slept good and uh oh it was awesome it was that was so good and then waking up this morning and stuff like that and you know what we're gonna do our best this is the thing we as a show over the years have had stumbling blocks and we've hit roadblocks too. We've had both stumbling blocks that, you know, sometimes we're just hard moments roadblocks where people tried to get in the way and, and keep us from getting, you know, to good moments. And, and we've done our best to try to overcome them and we're going to continue to do that. And I appreciate the listener for being with us today. All right. It's Mojo in the morning show. So, Megan, and I don't even know how much time I have to do this because I just did that whole big thing talking about that. But this actually might be appropriate, though. Kind of a moment, if you will talk about, like you did in our pre-show meeting, talking about how people who you don't care about sometimes get into your head a little bit more than the people who you do care about.

00:10:54 - 00:12:33 | Speaker 2:

Yeah, this is something I've been going through for like the past couple of months. I actually, I love my dad. We stayed up one day until like two o'clock in the morning talking about this about two months ago. I was just sitting in his kitchen just crying because we had been going over some negativity that I had received and I'm so wishy-washy on this kind of stuff. I don't know if you guys are as well where sometimes somebody will say something mean about me and I'll like laugh or like not take it for face value like don't care whatever and other times it will become my whole universe and the only thing I seem to be able to focus on and there's no real rhyme or reason as to why I respond this way but I was sitting with my dad and I was really upset because somebody I don't even care about had said something very nasty about me. somebody i don't even really like like don't look up to i kind of whatever i just don't respect them and they had said something really nasty and i had been focusing on it for forever and i'm i'm in this headspace where i know it shouldn't matter and i can rationally look at it and be like these are people that i don't care about what they think when it comes to anything else why do i care now and i i'm just going through this big struggle with it where and then the people who do matter to me and who I do appreciate and who I do value they'll say nice things and I completely discredit it I I don't know why I seem to do this but it's driving me absolutely nuts especially because I can recognize it and I still can't change the behavior so you spend majority of your time

00:12:33 - 00:12:58 | Speaker 1:

focused on a person that you already know you don't like correct but then you can have you don't know at all correct but then you can have like a person that's throwing positive feedback at you and you kind of discount it because what are you just assuming that that that that person just like or knows you and they're they're you know like are you is it just that you're more focused on the negative and it just gets into you and you can't get it out of yet or or is it that you

00:12:58 - 00:13:45 | Speaker 2:

because sometimes I also value the positive more than I value the positive from from people that I know because a little part of you is like somebody who doesn't even know me I still got them on my side like I still got him to laugh at something I still got him to like like something whatever like I'm killing it um but yeah my brother sat down with me this weekend I had a a rough past like two months or whatever and my brother knew that this weekend he was telling me I love my brother he's my best friend he does not like we don't go out of our way we we cut each other down like that's our kind of humor we are like you're smelly you're weird you're whatever We don't say nice things to each other. And he sat down and very authentically told me all these, like, really nice things about me. And I got up out of the room and I walked away. Like, I just didn't even want to hear it.

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You know what I always feel? Like, whenever it's coming from, like, the nice comments are coming from, like, Chelsea, my wife, or my sister, Pat, or Tracy, you know, my sister. I always feel like you have to.

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They have to say that.

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You have to, right? Right, right. That's the thing that you always say. Instead of going, wait, no, they don't have to say that. You know? I mean, although they if they don't say that, I'd be upset. But you're right, though. You kind of you can. And I don't know how that makes them feel that they're giving you all these positives and we're still focused on the negative.

00:14:16 - 00:15:07 | Speaker 3:

You know, I had to do like, you know, I have like the thinnest skin ever. Unfortunately, I wish I had thicker, thicker skin when it came to this stuff. But I had to do this like exercise, homework. I don't know with my therapist because this would like overtake me, Megan. It would literally ruin all the minutes in a day because I would focus on one thing like this. And she had me draw, like, circles. And then put names in the circles, right? So, like, the smallest circle around me, the people that I value the most in my life. So, like, my sisters, my mom, Wes, my kid, you know, my best friends. And then draw another circle. And then draw a bigger circle. And then draw a bigger circle. And she had to point out to me, like, the people in these outer circles, you kind of have to, like, mute the noise a little bit and not let them affect you so much. which is weird. Way easier said than done, but there's something to, like, seeing it visually when you actually put it on paper. You know what I mean? Well, yeah.

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What circle are we in? Yeah.

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Uranus?

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Four, five in? I want to know what circle. What orbit are we? Am I Uranus?

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Which now they say Uranus, by the way.

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Elena, what's up? It's Mojo in the Morning.

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Hey, it's Alana.

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Alana, thank you for at least listening to the show. We appreciate that you came back to us.

00:15:30 - 00:17:03 | Speaker 5:

Oh, you know, I'm, I'm going to give it a try. So thank you. Um, but Megan, I first, I'm like a first time caller. Um, so I'm a little nervous, but, um, so I have been in therapy for the past like few months and my therapist has been talking about how like over time we develop like negative belief systems about ourselves. And it's not from anything that we have done or anything that like, that we personally really believe on ourselves it's just like things that have been like i guess reiterated our throughout our whole life and then like that negative belief system can be just like um can you give the word like more so like compounded when certain people make certain comments and like sometimes like that happens for me and like i will believe something about myself which is absolutely not true and like sometimes someone will say something to me I'm like oh whatever like I that's not true about me but then other times I'm in like a different headspace and someone said something and it's like groundbreaking yeah and it's like my whole world I'm like what like how do you believe that about myself or about me and so I mean it's tough sorry go ahead i feel like i need to pay your co-pay for your next therapy you just saved me some money what's so funny i literally am in therapy for again for the past few months and every time someone i send like a whole session on i'm like listen i'm gonna send

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y'all a bill like isn't that the funniest i do the same thing too if i go to my therapist i give

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therapy then to my friends yeah i appreciate it share the love no problem hey thank you so much

00:17:17 - 00:17:27 | Speaker 7:

for calling thanks for saying that that really meant a lot all right all right take care yourself um all right well megan uh what circle would i be in yours i just don't want to know about the

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circles which one is he for you shannon whichever one's closer ha ha

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