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Second Date Update: Dated Gym Trainer
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Second Date Update: Dated Gym Trainer

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February 17, 2025 | 00:11:16 | Leisure

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It's the second date update on Mojo in the Morning.

00:01:49 - 00:01:57 | Speaker 7:

All right, why are you not getting a call back after you went on a date? We're going to find out right here on the Mojo in the Morning show. Lydia, who's getting ghosted?

00:01:59 - 00:02:00 | Speaker 2:

Tara's getting ghosted.

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Aw, Tara.

00:02:01 - 00:02:03 | Speaker 2:

Hi, Tara. Hi.

00:02:04 - 00:02:28 | Speaker 7:

Hey, Tara. Thanks for coming on with us. I appreciate it. If you are getting ghosted, if you're going on a date with somebody and then they're not calling you back or maybe giving you a reason why they're not going on any other dates, you can text to us, date to 95500, that's D-A-T-E, and get on just like Tara did. So tell us, how many dates have you gone on with this person? Where did you guys meet? Where'd you guys go last?

00:02:29 - 00:02:58 | Speaker 2:

I mean, we were kind of like flirty for a hot second. And then, all right, so I'm a fitness coach. So I have classes at a gym and she is a new member. Her name's Alice. We went out to drink Friday after class like two weeks ago. And I haven't heard from her since. Like she hasn't shown up to any of the classes she signed up for. she won't answer my text

00:02:58 - 00:03:13 | Speaker 7:

so it wasn't that she just came to your classes and took your classes and is now just not working out anymore you guys actually had interaction with each other that would be that of okay I think that they quite possibly might like me

00:03:13 - 00:03:23 | Speaker 2:

yeah exactly and so I'm confused because she totally agreed to go out with me for a drink but now I haven't heard from her and we had a good time when we were out

00:03:23 - 00:03:44 | Speaker 7:

so alright Alice is on the phone with us alice are you okay with your voice on the radio um yeah that's fine hey say hey to tara hi now alice for me would be i never actually follow through on working out or going to another

00:03:44 - 00:03:50 | Speaker 3:

class he he had a membership at a local gym for like two years and never actually went to a class

00:03:50 - 00:04:00 | Speaker 7:

I also bought packages to Raina's yoga school. I've never been to the yoga school. The yoga garden. It's been a while.

00:04:00 - 00:04:01 | Speaker 1:

Support your friends.

00:04:01 - 00:04:06 | Speaker 7:

That's right. But I will go sometime, hopefully. So what's the story, Alice?

00:04:07 - 00:04:30 | Speaker 3:

I mean, look, honestly, Tara, I just wasn't really vibing with you. And now I just feel really embarrassed because, you know, I signed up at the gym. And I can't quit for, like, I don't know, what, six months? And the other thing is, like, you started talking about being the cutest couple at the gym. And honestly, we haven't even known each other that long.

00:04:31 - 00:04:33 | Speaker 7:

Wait, what did she do? She started talking about you guys being a couple?

00:04:34 - 00:04:37 | Speaker 3:

Yeah, and, like, the cutest couple at the gym and, you know.

00:04:38 - 00:04:42 | Speaker 7:

And you guys have just started just hanging out with each other and she's already called you a couple?

00:04:43 - 00:04:49 | Speaker 3:

Yeah. I just don't want to be in a situation where I'm pushed into something so quickly. You know what I mean?

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Tara, what do you have to say, Tara?

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I mean, we would be the cutest couple at the gym if we were ever to be a couple, but I didn't mean to put you in that situation. I just thought we were...

00:05:00 - 00:05:16 | Speaker 4:

getting along, and it was going really well, and it was going to lead to something more. But you could have been honest and not have ghosted me. That probably was something I'm ready for, something that committed. I got excited, and I impulse signed up.

00:05:19 - 00:05:36 | Speaker 6:

By the way, this is another one of those things, like with KP, when KP started kind of liking that guy that lived down the hall, I don't think you date neighbors and i don't think you date people that you go to the gym and meet even or especially the

00:05:36 - 00:05:47 | Speaker 2:

person am i understanding the the timeline you you guys went out and then you joined the gym or was it the other way around the other way around oh okay oh okay okay so it is the same

00:05:47 - 00:05:55 | Speaker 6:

as what mojo's talking about because i just think that what you're doing is if you it like that's why i got think you got to be careful dating in the office because if you date in the office

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it becomes super awkward if you're not vibing like you said Alice

00:05:58 - 00:06:08 | Speaker 6:

alright so are there other people that teach your class that you do Tara or are you the only one

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I am the only one

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do you think that it was weird that you started calling yourselves a couple right away

00:06:17 - 00:06:23 | Speaker 4:

no because I thought it was really going to go somewhere because I felt like we had a really good connection

00:06:23 - 00:06:29 | Speaker 6:

So you weren't, because initially when you said it, I was like, well, maybe she's just joking, but it sounds like you're forecasting.

00:06:30 - 00:06:35 | Speaker 4:

Well, I thought, yeah, because apparently I read everything wrong.

00:06:35 - 00:07:23 | Speaker 6:

All right. I want to ask a quick question to the listeners. I want to have them weigh in on this one, and I'm kind of bummed that it doesn't seem like it's working out for Tara, but maybe if you pull back a little bit, maybe it could. 844-MOJO-LIVE, 844-665-6548. Who is in the wrong on this one? And I know that it seems obvious that Tara might be Tara, you know, working as a trainer in a gym and, you know, trying to push this relationship forward, calling themselves a relationship. But is Alice also in the wrong, too, in the fact that she specifically knew they weren't vibing and didn't say anything about this? So there's a bunch of things here Especially the whole calling yourselves a couple thing Kind of pushes it back Eric, what do you think?

00:07:24 - 00:07:37 | Speaker 5:

Honestly, this is the first Second date update where I've seen Like honestly, Alice is being extremely truthful Both of them are being extremely truthful Open and honest and everything like that

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You know why it is? That's the case?

00:07:40 - 00:07:49 | Speaker 5:

They're women, they're smart Exactly There's no guy involved Second date updates are being all shady and whatnot, or like the women are being shady because they're dealing with guys.

00:07:49 - 00:07:53 | Speaker 6:

That's why I think that we have such a problem picking a side on this one.

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Lesbian! I know. It sounds like, honestly, they just need to hash it out and everything will work out. It doesn't even need to be hashed out.

00:08:00 - 00:08:05 | Speaker 1:

Like, they both said it very nicely, I guess, you know.

00:08:05 - 00:08:17 | Speaker 6:

We need to maybe, honestly, there needs to be more gay relationships on second date update. I wonder if guys would be the same way, or if we had two guys, would it be a complete train wreck?

00:08:18 - 00:08:22 | Speaker 5:

Oh, I got my notepad out and everything. I'm going to take this to my fiance. Hopefully it'll work later on.

00:08:24 - 00:08:27 | Speaker 6:

Helena, what's going on? It's Mojo in the Morning, second date update.

00:08:28 - 00:08:31 | Speaker 4:

Hey, so I was just saying that you should not date customers.

00:08:32 - 00:08:32 | Speaker 6:

Okay.

00:08:33 - 00:08:34 | Speaker 4:

Just don't do that.

00:08:35 - 00:08:35 | Speaker 6:

Yeah.

00:08:35 - 00:08:37 | Speaker 4:

Most of the time it doesn't end well.

00:08:37 - 00:08:46 | Speaker 6:

Yeah. We've actually had that with salespeople at the station. where it was told by a sales manager back in the day, it's like, do not date clients.

00:08:46 - 00:08:47 | Speaker 1:

It happens all the time, though.

00:08:47 - 00:08:56 | Speaker 6:

Yeah. Not a good situation. What's up, Moosa? Hi, it's Mojo in the morning. Hi, how are you? Good. Your thoughts? Second date update.

00:08:57 - 00:09:09 | Speaker 3:

I think Tara's in the wrong here. She was pushing things out way too far before she even knew what Alice was thinking. So I think Tara's definitely in the wrong here.

00:09:10 - 00:09:25 | Speaker 6:

Yeah. And you know what? Alice, unfortunately, is not on hold to, she disconnected during a part. Super gusty. So I don't know. Yeah, maybe she feels a little embarrassed by this one. But Tara, so Musa says that you're in the wrong.

00:09:26 - 00:09:42 | Speaker 4:

I mean, I think, yeah. I mean, I guess I was. I guess I just read all the signs wrong and it was different. Can I ask you? I mean, if you were there, you'd probably understand. and I don't know, like, whatever.

00:09:42 - 00:09:47 | Speaker 6:

Can I ask you, how often do you find yourself ever dating somebody that comes to your classes?

00:09:48 - 00:09:51 | Speaker 4:

Not often at all. This is like, I don't know.

00:09:51 - 00:09:53 | Speaker 6:

So you really put yourself out there doing this?

00:09:53 - 00:09:55 | Speaker 4:

Like, five years, you know what I mean?

00:09:55 - 00:09:59 | Speaker 6:

Yeah, so I did. Because I was going to say, you've got to be really careful because you'll lose.

00:10:00 - 00:10:05 | Speaker 5:

clients along with you know losing a relationship but i don't think tara was wrong i think she just

00:10:05 - 00:10:12 | Speaker 7:

said her feelings too quickly but that makes sense like if she feels like they would be a

00:10:12 - 00:10:16 | Speaker 4:

great couple she said the vibe was great we think we're the cutest i don't think she's wrong in

00:10:16 - 00:10:34 | Speaker 7:

feeling no i i actually agree with you i'm just trying to say like i i i wonder if we all and alice especially took that as being a very serious comment and really she's like we're the cutest couple of the gym alice got back on with some people would let that roll off their back like We're not a couple, yeah, but like, okay, we are cute. You know what I mean? When I can see it being taken a different way.

00:10:35 - 00:10:38 | Speaker 5:

Alice did not, you did not hang up on purpose. That was just a phone problem?

00:10:38 - 00:10:39 | Speaker 6:

No, no, no, I'm so sorry.

00:10:39 - 00:10:40 | Speaker 5:

Okay, because we were worried there.

00:10:40 - 00:10:42 | Speaker 6:

No, no, no. Don't go, sorry about that.

00:10:42 - 00:10:51 | Speaker 5:

So, Alice, that was just brought up a second ago. It's like, you know, maybe you are, maybe you're taking the couple thing a little too far?

00:10:53 - 00:11:08 | Speaker 6:

I mean, I could have, like, you know, like, jumped the gun, and I've been burned before by getting into things too quickly. So maybe I'm being a little sensitive. I don't know. I did have a good time. Like, I did.

00:11:09 - 00:11:17 | Speaker 7:

And you said you weren't vibing. So there was more that rubbed you the wrong way besides that comment. Yeah. Yes or no? Yes.

00:11:18 - 00:11:21 | Speaker 5:

Okay. Would you be able to share, Alice, or do you not want to share?

00:11:22 - 00:11:32 | Speaker 6:

I mean, yeah. It's just, like, a little awkward. Like, I, um, I just, aside from not really vibing, like, I, I just, I'm kind of interested in someone else.

00:11:33 - 00:11:35 | Speaker 4:

Ah, okay, okay. So why are you even going to date?

00:11:36 - 00:11:44 | Speaker 6:

I mean, because we're not exclusive, and it's not, and, you know, like, we're still dating other people, but I, I just also... How dare you?

00:11:44 - 00:11:46 | Speaker 5:

Guys never do stuff like that.

00:11:46 - 00:11:50 | Speaker 7:

I know, I know that. Oh, that's fair. Guys weren't in a recommended relationship, that's fair.

00:11:50 - 00:11:53 | Speaker 5:

This is where women are evil. I'm joking.

00:11:53 - 00:11:59 | Speaker 4:

We're not evil. What happened, Tara, when you said that to Alice? Like, what was her reaction? Do you remember it?

00:12:00 - 00:12:22 | Speaker 6:

I remember that she wasn't, like, super, like, enthusiastic like I thought she would be. But, like, I didn't think that it affected her in any way. Like, I mean, we still had good conversation afterwards. Yeah. So, yeah. I mean, like, I put myself out on the line because I knew that I'd have to see her every week as well.

00:12:22 - 00:12:53 | Speaker 5:

By the way, people are texting us that know Tara because they take her classes. People are like, I know who Tara is. And they say that you are excellent and they love your classes and they are rooting for you and they want you to know that you're beautiful and that you will be good. So that's cool. They like it. They don't love it. Thank you for going on, guys. We appreciate it. Second date update. If you're not getting a call back after you've been out on dates with someone, text us. It's DATE to 95500.

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