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Second Date Update: Grindering During The Date
Mojo In The Morning

Second Date Update: Grindering During The Date

from Mojo In The Morning

July 13, 2026 | 00:09:38 | Leisure

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00:01:39 - 00:01:53 | Speaker 6:

Second date update. We're going to find out why you're not getting a call back. Adam went on a date with a guy named Teddy and is not hearing back from Teddy. What's going on, Adam? How you doing?

00:01:54 - 00:01:55 | Speaker 4:

Hey, good morning.

00:01:55 - 00:02:10 | Speaker 6:

Good morning. So, Teddy is not getting back to you or not wanting to go on another date. Did he put an end to your guys' quick relationship, or did he just go dark on you and go ghosting you?

00:02:12 - 00:02:18 | Speaker 4:

I don't really know. I haven't heard from him. He's ghosting me.

00:02:18 - 00:02:20 | Speaker 6:

What was the last date that you guys went on?

00:02:23 - 00:02:30 | Speaker 4:

We went to a winery. and then went back to my place and it was

00:02:30 - 00:02:34 | Speaker 6:

great. Did you guys do anything at your place besides drinking wine?

00:02:36 - 00:02:42 | Speaker 4:

Yeah. How was that? Oh, it was awesome.

00:02:43 - 00:02:49 | Speaker 6:

Alright, so we're going to figure out what's going on. Teddy is on the phone with us right now. Adam, say hi to Teddy.

00:02:51 - 00:02:52 | Speaker 4:

Hey, Teddy.

00:02:53 - 00:02:59 | Speaker 6:

Hi. where have you been teddy teddy it's mojo and where you've been just wanted to know what's

00:02:59 - 00:03:36 | Speaker 5:

going on here for adam yeah i mean you know we we had a good time but then when we got back to his place he was just sitting there still swiping away really like on right in front of me like an app Like, what do you mean? Yeah, on and a half, swiping, looking at other guys. Oh, wow. Right in front of me. I'm sitting right there. Did you call him out? No, I didn't say anything, but it was super rude and disrespectful. I'm like, I don't need that. Was it before or after you baked cookies?

00:03:38 - 00:03:51 | Speaker 6:

Um, you know, right before. Ooh. And you wait, you wait on his hand. so right before you guys baked cookies he's swiping away yet you still baked cookies you

00:03:51 - 00:03:57 | Speaker 5:

were so upset about it you still baked cookies with him well yeah i mean yes still did that but

00:03:57 - 00:04:02 | Speaker 6:

i don't need to do it again okay all right adam were you doing that or were you just on your phone

00:04:02 - 00:04:19 | Speaker 4:

um no he's right i was but like i mean we met on grinder and i don't know we went it was one day And did we have a conversation that I forgot about, Teddy, about, like, wanting to be exclusive or, like, moving forward?

00:04:20 - 00:04:22 | Speaker 5:

I know, but right in front of him when he's sitting right there.

00:04:24 - 00:04:30 | Speaker 4:

Well, I just didn't think it was that big of a deal, and he never said anything about it, so.

00:04:31 - 00:04:54 | Speaker 6:

Is that something you have to have? What do you mean? In this day and age of relationships, do you have to, like, say, hey, we're dating to be exclusive or dating just to have fun? Like, do you have to say that initially because of the idea that he just said that made sense to me? Like, okay, well, they're really not dating. They just are effing. You know what I mean?

00:04:54 - 00:05:00 | Speaker 5:

I think a conversation needs to be had. Maybe not on the first date, but, like, eventually.

00:05:00 - 00:05:07 | Speaker 7:

you need to figure out what you are. Even if you're on a first date and you all are dating other people, it's still rude to be sitting there planning your next date.

00:05:08 - 00:05:09 | Speaker 2:

100%. What were you going to say, Teddy?

00:05:10 - 00:05:19 | Speaker 3:

I've been on a lot of dates. I've been on a lot of dates off Grindr. I'm not the only person who does this. Do you know what I mean? It hasn't bothered

00:05:19 - 00:05:32 | Speaker 2:

me in the past. Well, let's ask that question. You know what I mean? Any other Grindr customers out there that do this and start swiping? Teddy what were you going to say You got it cut off

00:05:32 - 00:05:40 | Speaker 5:

Oh just that you know We never said anything about being exclusive But you're already planning your next thing Moments before

00:05:40 - 00:05:43 | Speaker 7:

We're going to bake cookies

00:05:43 - 00:05:59 | Speaker 5:

You know I just think it's rude I just think it's rude It's rude Adam I'm ghosting you But clearly you're already on to your Yeah why do you even care before we even finish. Why do you care?

00:06:00 - 00:06:01 | Speaker 2:

That's actually a really good point.

00:06:01 - 00:06:09 | Speaker 3:

I never thought of it. Decency. I mean, I wish that you had told me that you didn't play. I wish you had brought it up and we could have had a talk about it and we could have...

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In bed.

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I don't know.

00:06:11 - 00:06:17 | Speaker 5:

Common decency is not flirting with other people or trying to get with other people when you're with someone in a moment.

00:06:17 - 00:06:26 | Speaker 3:

I wasn't flirting with anybody. I didn't have any messages open or DMs. I was just looking. I was looking around. Hey, look at what's right in front of you. You've never done that.

00:06:26 - 00:06:28 | Speaker 5:

I'm right there. Look at me.

00:06:29 - 00:06:56 | Speaker 2:

By the way, you guys, I don't know if you sound like a match with each other. I'm listening to the two of them talk. I got to see what you guys look like. I don't know why that is. Why it intrigues me more with two gay guys than it does with a guy and a girl. I don't know. Don't you want to know what they look like? Absolutely. I want to know what Teddy is all about. I want to see what Adam's got going on. All right, let's get on Grindr, guys. Let's go. Let's try it. What's going on? Noah, are you there, Noah?

00:06:56 - 00:07:21 | Speaker 1:

yes hi guys hi no i think it's common courtesy i think it's common courtesy you could wait until things are done and then you can swipe away like that you could you couldn't wait like what was like you was that bored that you just had to go swiping that's the other thing no i'm just curious

00:07:21 - 00:07:21 | Speaker 7:

Yeah.

00:07:22 - 00:07:29 | Speaker 1:

Like, you were that not interested, and then you're just making it so mechanical, like it's so automatic.

00:07:29 - 00:07:39 | Speaker 7:

If there's a lull in the conversation or what we're doing to the point where I pick up my phone and start scrolling on a date, whether it's Instagram or Grindr, whatever it is,

00:07:39 - 00:07:45 | Speaker 3:

I feel like that's... Well, to be fair, I mean, he came back into the room, like he had gone to the bathroom.

00:07:46 - 00:07:46 | Speaker 2:

Oh.

00:07:47 - 00:07:56 | Speaker 3:

And I opened up the app, and I was, you know, I was taking a look. But it wasn't like he was sitting on the couch next to me, and I just popped the app. Because that is how I pictured it.

00:07:57 - 00:08:01 | Speaker 2:

Yeah. Hold on. Whoa. Yeah. You shouldn't have gone to the bathroom, Teddy.

00:08:02 - 00:08:03 | Speaker 5:

Yeah, I guess so.

00:08:04 - 00:08:06 | Speaker 2:

Danny, what did you want to say, Danny?

00:08:06 - 00:08:34 | Speaker 6:

The gay community is known for pretty much introducing themselves without clothes on or after stuff has been done. I mean, I don't see this being uncommon in an open relationship. I've been asked why I'm not in a relationship, and it's why. We all screw each other anyways. Okay. I go home, and I don't have to hear anybody nagging at me.

00:08:36 - 00:08:42 | Speaker 2:

Really? I did not know that. That's kind of wild. Yeah. Oh, yeah.

00:08:43 - 00:08:44 | Speaker 6:

It's like a giant swinger party.

00:08:46 - 00:08:53 | Speaker 2:

Really? I like wiener. Man, I did not know that that was the case. What's going on, Travis? Hi.

00:08:54 - 00:09:47 | Speaker 4:

Hey, happy Monday, everyone. Happy Monday. What's up? So I am very free. I love to bake cookies with one, two, three plus partners. But, like, unless you have a conversation, you're wanting to bring someone else in or it's casual, it's incredibly rude. Because all you're doing is trying to inflate your own ego and feed into, like, get the validation of, like, those likes and matches. Like, he's right there in front of you. If you don't want him, don't bake cookies with him or, like, get upset if he doesn't call you back. All this guy wants is, like, to be wanted. He doesn't actually care about, but he just wants to be wanted. And him getting a ghost, getting hurt, and getting hurt. I know you pretty well. I met plenty of you. You're not that special. You're a dime a dozen.

00:09:48 - 00:09:50 | Speaker 2:

Travis, are you gay?

00:09:50 - 00:09:52 | Speaker 4:

Okay. Oh, very gay.

00:09:52 - 00:09:52 | Speaker 2:

Okay.

00:09:52 - 00:09:53 | Speaker 4:

I love to be a man.

00:09:53 - 00:09:57 | Speaker 2:

Okay. Gay sex, whoa. All right. Okay, just make a try on that one.

00:09:57 - 00:09:59 | Speaker 4:

Travis, what are you doing? Oh!

00:10:00 - 00:10:10 | Speaker 6:

I didn't hear the question. Do you want to find out? Do you want to find out if I'm a dime a dozen? No, I'm good. What are you doing? I'm good. I'm good.

00:10:10 - 00:10:19 | Speaker 5:

I have better options. Wow. You called here to try and get me, and I was picking. Hold on. Phoenix, what did you want to say, Phoenix?

00:10:21 - 00:10:38 | Speaker 6:

I just felt as if he was rude for being on Grindr while being on a date. For sure. Very disrespectful. I felt like he was looking for, like you said, the next guy after they were done on a date. And it was just disrespectful. I don't blame him for not returning him. Yeah.

00:10:39 - 00:10:50 | Speaker 5:

Although I got to be honest with you. I think I like Adam. I do. Like, I think Adam's personality is great. I think you guys should give each other a second chance. I think you should. I don't. Why?

00:10:50 - 00:10:58 | Speaker 6:

Well, we should just have a talk about it, at least. Yeah. That's why I'm upset. I think that's what we're doing right now. You just tried to pick up a few colors, Joe.

00:10:58 - 00:11:03 | Speaker 1:

I don't think this is going to go any day for the second time.

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