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Second Date Update: He Doesn't Have a Car
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Second Date Update: He Doesn't Have a Car

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all right second date update why are you not getting a call back after you went on a date Mark's getting ghosted. Mark, what's happening, buddy? How you doing?

00:01:59 - 00:02:00 | Speaker 5:

Hey, good, man. How you doing?

00:02:01 - 00:02:08 | Speaker 3:

Good. So, Mark, what's the story here? How did you guys meet, and when's the last time that you guys were together?

00:02:10 - 00:02:22 | Speaker 5:

Man, we met through some friends. Shana's real cool. Went out a couple of times. Haven't talked to her, I'd say probably going on like two weeks. And I don't know. She just ghosted me.

00:02:22 - 00:02:30 | Speaker 3:

are you reaching out to her or is she responding back to you or reaching out to you? Like, is he, are you the only one communicating back and forth now?

00:02:31 - 00:02:41 | Speaker 5:

Yeah, pretty much. I mean, I wouldn't say I'm not blowing her up, but you know, I have reached out and you know, I just don't know what's going on.

00:02:41 - 00:02:58 | Speaker 3:

You got to be careful of how often you do it. Otherwise it just comes across as desperation, but I've got to be honest. When you call in Mojo in the morning of her second date update, I don't know. that might be your last hope. Let's find out what's going on and see if everything is okay. What was your last date that you guys had with each other? What'd you guys do?

00:02:59 - 00:03:08 | Speaker 5:

Went out to dinner and a movie. That was kind of our thing, but I don't know. She was real cool. I mean, I thought we had something going on, but she just, I don't know. She switched up on me.

00:03:09 - 00:03:11 | Speaker 3:

Alright, she's on the phone with us right now. Shana, what's happening?

00:03:14 - 00:03:14 | Speaker 4:

Hey.

00:03:15 - 00:03:27 | Speaker 3:

Shana, say hello to Mark. Hi, Mark. Hey, how you doing? Shana, have you been seeing Mark's messages to you, his text messages to you?

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I have.

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Have you been just busy or are you blowing him off?

00:03:34 - 00:03:48 | Speaker 4:

I mean, I am busy. I mean, you know, I just, I don't know. I'm just not sure about him anymore.

00:03:49 - 00:03:50 | Speaker 2:

What happened? Yeah.

00:03:51 - 00:04:23 | Speaker 4:

well i mean we went out on the first date and it was cool i mean it was a little weird though because like he asked me to meet up at the restaurant you know i'm just used to guys like you know coming to the house picking you up like just real like chivalry okay but you know i i didn't make a big deal about it um and it was a cool date but then he asked me out again and it was

00:04:23 - 00:05:00 | Speaker 3:

like he wanted me to pick him up okay okay so the first wait so the the he wanted you to go and pick him up the first date though what happened again well he just like you guys met each other there we met each other there so you met each other there he said i'll meet you there you're used two guys picking you up then the second date he then says to you that he wants you to come pick him up do you are you thinking that he doesn't have a car or something like that because that's the first thing that would come to my head same i mean it's good

00:05:00 - 00:05:02 | Speaker 6:

I don't have a car energy for sure.

00:05:02 - 00:05:03 | Speaker 3:

I like you.

00:05:04 - 00:05:09 | Speaker 1:

So that's throwing you off a little bit that he doesn't have a car. Do you have a car, Mark?

00:05:10 - 00:05:18 | Speaker 3:

Yeah, I got a car. Yeah, of course I got a car. What's wrong with meeting someone at a restaurant and then having her come pick me up? What's the problem with that? Nothing.

00:05:19 - 00:05:23 | Speaker 2:

I mean, I say nothing. The meeting at the restaurant, what was the reason for her to pick you up?

00:05:25 - 00:05:36 | Speaker 4:

Because I'm trying to save money on gas a little bit. I'm concerned about the environment. that's a little crazy and not believable

00:05:36 - 00:05:40 | Speaker 2:

i want you two to work out you're both so funny

00:05:40 - 00:05:53 | Speaker 1:

i had a buddy of mine that used to always have girls come pick him up and he would do it all the time because he figured then then the date ends at his house or he'd have them meet at his

00:05:53 - 00:05:59 | Speaker 6:

house and then he would drive that's exactly what i think is happening like he's trying to get me

00:05:59 - 00:06:22 | Speaker 1:

over to like to stay the night that was that was kind of the thing like he would always like to end the date at his house because he always would invite them to come back in and stay with him is that you can't invite yourself into her house if you're dropping her off right oh is mark is that is that was that something that was on your mind because of shana you said that that also was the thought that you had, too.

00:06:23 - 00:06:24 | Speaker 6:

Absolutely.

00:06:25 - 00:06:33 | Speaker 1:

No. No. It was just the fossil fuels. It was just that. Come on.

00:06:34 - 00:06:37 | Speaker 5:

No. Come on. I wouldn't have to do that.

00:06:37 - 00:06:43 | Speaker 1:

By the way, do you think that, do we think that guys should pick up the girls for the dates?

00:06:44 - 00:07:19 | Speaker 2:

I don't think there's any, and I'm all about chivalry. Yep, it's Monday. I'm all about chivalry and like, quote unquote, being old fashioned in that regard of like, I feel like it's nice for a guy to pay for the first date. But I almost would rather meet a first date at a restaurant because if they're creepy, I don't want them to know where I am. Yeah. You know? Correct. Unless it's somebody I know through like a friend of a friend, I would feel more comfortable. But otherwise, I would much rather those first couple of dates meet somewhere. What's up? So I don't think there's anything wrong with that. If they drink too much, you don't really know that.

00:07:20 - 00:07:26 | Speaker 6:

It's not like I didn't, like, you know, I pinged my friend. I air tagged myself.

00:07:26 - 00:07:29 | Speaker 2:

No, I'm not saying you weren't safe about it. It was just my personal opinion on that one.

00:07:29 - 00:07:30 | Speaker 1:

Sarah, what do you think, Sarah?

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So when he said that he's trying to save money, why would you even take somebody out if you're trying to save money? And he can't even drive.

00:07:40 - 00:07:42 | Speaker 1:

I think he's full of crap. Is he lying? I think that's a joke.

00:07:42 - 00:07:45 | Speaker 8:

Did he even pay for the meal himself?

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Did he?

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It may become a romantic. Did you ever think about that?

00:07:49 - 00:07:57 | Speaker 1:

So you were doing this for romance purposes. Yeah. So we're right in the fact that you wanted her to come back to your place.

00:07:58 - 00:07:59 | Speaker 4:

I didn't say that.

00:08:00 - 00:08:03 | Speaker 1:

What's romantic, though, about you driving? I don't understand.

00:08:05 - 00:08:10 | Speaker 5:

Well, I mean, I just, I don't know. I feel like I'm being interrogated over here.

00:08:11 - 00:08:16 | Speaker 1:

We're trying to figure out exactly what Shana's reasoning is, why she's not calling you back. What's going on, Jennifer?

00:08:16 - 00:08:23 | Speaker 8:

hi hi jen hi i think that he doesn't have a license

00:08:23 - 00:08:29 | Speaker 2:

oh or something happened to your license did you get your license taken away

00:08:29 - 00:08:48 | Speaker 5:

mark is it too personal to ask you i got my license i got my real estate license and my driver's license valid and unsuspended i'm sorry but i think every man that doesn't have a license

00:08:48 - 00:08:59 | Speaker 1:

is gonna say he has a license so you don't think that he's got his license he's not got a valid license he got taken away from somebody what's up amanda hi hi good morning good morning hey

00:08:59 - 00:09:15 | Speaker 8:

there hey amanda's on the phone what's going on amanda i'm just wondering why she wants a man that she's never met to come to her house for the first time. I feel like that's a big safety thing. Yeah, Shannon brought that up.

00:09:15 - 00:09:24 | Speaker 1:

So what do you do when you go out? If you go out, do you then just meet them out? Or is it safe to go to their house, though, like he wanted her to do?

00:09:25 - 00:09:30 | Speaker 7:

No, I wouldn't go to their house until maybe a few dates until I got to know them a little bit better.

00:09:31 - 00:09:41 | Speaker 1:

I'm also blown away. I have to tell you, Amanda, I'm blown away at how many times people will go out on a date with a person and they'll go right back to somebody's house or bring them back to their house.

00:09:41 - 00:09:42 | Speaker 6:

That's how you get dommered.

00:09:43 - 00:09:48 | Speaker 8:

I know two people like that and it terrifies me. I always say

00:09:48 - 00:09:56 | Speaker 1:

that you should watch an episode of Law & Order SVU before you go on any date and you'll be more cautious after you watch whatever those

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episodes are. And so receptive to new people.

00:09:58 - 00:09:59 | Speaker 1:

Exactly.

00:10:00 - 00:10:04 | Speaker 8:

Well, but you do need to be safe somehow. What's going on? How you doing, Antonio?

00:10:05 - 00:10:06 | Speaker 10:

Good. How are you?

00:10:06 - 00:10:08 | Speaker 8:

Good. What's happening? What do you think?

00:10:08 - 00:10:11 | Speaker 10:

Hey, buddy. I like it. Antonio's on the podium.

00:10:13 - 00:10:15 | Speaker 8:

I like getting a guy's perspective on this one.

00:10:16 - 00:10:20 | Speaker 10:

The second update on his date. I think he's playing too many games. He's BSing.

00:10:21 - 00:10:22 | Speaker 8:

Yeah, he's full of crap.

00:10:23 - 00:10:37 | Speaker 10:

He's got an excuse. Left and right. You know, fossil fuels. Not wanting to come to the... You know, that's the reason why. If he was just straightforward, you know, and just bent himself instead of trying to impress, things probably would have went a lot better.

00:10:38 - 00:10:44 | Speaker 8:

Yeah. Question for you. If you go on a first date with a girl, do you pick her up usually, or do you just meet out?

00:10:46 - 00:11:02 | Speaker 10:

Just depends on whatever she's comfortable with. I would have, you know, if she wants me to pick her out, I'll pick her up. She wants to meet there, I'll meet her there. You know, I don't really mind, but I'm also paying for the first date, too. But it's however she feels comfortable. You know what I'm saying? I don't want to put her in an uncomfortable situation.

00:11:02 - 00:11:12 | Speaker 8:

I got two different texts, a 248 and a 231 that say he wants the princess treatment, the passenger princess treatment. He wants to be the passenger so that he can have a couple more drinks than she does.

00:11:13 - 00:11:24 | Speaker 9:

Like for the ladies on the show, how do y'all, and KP Lydia too, how do y'all look at a guy if he asks you to come pick him up? Do you immediately say he's not the one for me or what does that say to you?

00:11:24 - 00:11:57 | Speaker 4:

So I dated a guy when I lived in Atlanta Who was that I think we only went out twice Maybe three times And I finally realized he didn't have a car I know you're going to be shocked when I say this He was in a band And all of the guys in the band just shared Like the 15 passenger white van And so whomever needed it had it And that was like tip of the iceberg Of other things that he was just Like at a point in his life He was a church fan as his only vehicle? Because he was in a band. He was in a band, and they all shared the band van.

00:11:57 - 00:11:59 | Speaker 8:

That would be creepy if he pulled up in that, wouldn't it?

00:12:00 - 00:12:06 | Speaker 4:

Well, that was the only vehicle that he had, and it wasn't just his. Do you see what I mean? There were four of them that shared it.

00:12:06 - 00:12:10 | Speaker 8:

But think about this. Think about if the guy picked you up on a date and he pulled up in a white van.

00:12:11 - 00:12:11 | Speaker 4:

Right.

00:12:11 - 00:12:17 | Speaker 8:

It would be like, if you lived with your dad, Tim Murphy would never let you go out there.

00:12:18 - 00:12:24 | Speaker 4:

But it was like tip of the iceberg. There were so many other things, and I was like, okay, you are not grown up yet.

00:12:24 - 00:12:51 | Speaker 3:

Okay, here's the thing about this. We don't live in an area that has good public transportation, so I can't give you the benefit of the doubt. We don't live in New York or somewhere that has, you know, whatever. I think that if you cannot provide transportation for yourself to get to and from work and do your daily life activities, you are not ready to be in a relationship with somebody. If you can't take care of yourself In your day to day Which does involve transporting yourself to work You can't be in a relationship

00:12:51 - 00:13:03 | Speaker 2:

I also think in today's day A lot of people are driving cars That they're embarrassed to be driving And not everybody has the funds for a new car And I think that might be playing a role in all this What if his only mode of transportation

00:13:03 - 00:13:07 | Speaker 8:

Is an electric bike or a Vespa Would you be okay getting on?

00:13:07 - 00:13:11 | Speaker 3:

No because we have a ton of We have snow here

00:13:11 - 00:13:16 | Speaker 8:

I was just kidding by the way If a guy showed up in a Vespa, he'd be like...

00:13:16 - 00:13:19 | Speaker 4:

I'd be like, take me out. Dumb and dumb and all. I'd be proud.

00:13:19 - 00:13:27 | Speaker 5:

This is the home of the dirty on the 30. Throwback throwdown. Second date update. And more of the roses. This is Mojo in the Morning.

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